Do you love someone bc you know what person s/he is, for what s/he stands, ...
or
do you love someone bc you have the "love" feeling going on ( the idea of love ) bc off "the romantic" things you can do
cause thinking about this , i came to realise a never gived a fuck about my gf's goals in live (well i did supported them but that's not what i mean here )
The chick I'm loving now, I have a real genuine love for her. I find that I love her first becuase of her relationship with her kids. I just watch and admire them together and I think it's the sexiest thing about her. Secondly, I love that she keeps a clean home, with two kids (I hate women that blame the mess on their kids) and she will get in the kitchen and cook. She's not the best cook....wait SHE'S NOT THE BEST COOK, but I appreciate it and I will NEVER tell her. I also love that she keeps her appearance looking good like the first time we met. Hair, hands, and feet ..... perfect and she does them herself.
So Upheaval ... I'll say option one (1), because of the person she is.
There are people that i love for the person they are, but none of those are romantic relationships.
Now the romantic partners ive had, I can say without a doubt I only loved one of them for who he was, the rest have all been because of the euphoria of new "love" because once the honeymoon phase starts to settle off I get bored very easy with them. Its like the actual thought and act of "love" gives me a high, and im constantly chasing it.
Oh yeah, I rather have someone that's independent like the Aries woman. I like a woman that wants me not need me. So, it's good to see that she can maintain all that on her own. It's not all about her, I look at it as.... if we lived together our home would be well taken care of and there would a beautiful woman there waiting. If her house was messy, kids were dirty and disrespectful, she didn't cook and let her appearance go. I don't think I would even try to love her. I don't look at love as what's in it for me, because we both will have our own separate roles. Come on Dude! I'm Libra .... I wouldn't dare be with someone that's one sided.
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Do you love someone bc you know what person s/he is, for what s/he stands, ...
or
do you love someone bc you have the "love" feeling going on ( the idea of love )
bc off "the romantic" things you can do
cause thinking about this , i came to realise a never gived a fuck about my gf's goals in live (well i did supported them but that's not what i mean here )