If you are very physically attracted to a girl, but you feel that the mental connection is not there, would you just let it go and seek love somewhere else, or would you try to test her in any way? -and if so, how would you test her?
Usually a libra won't look to anyone beneath their intellectual level. Usually this cannot be faked - they just instinctively know it. I once asked a libra which character in sex and the city is his favorite. It was unexpected, but it's Miranda. With libra, it's really not all about sex. It's an all round thing. Everything must be ideally in moderation. A girl who is smarter than him will intimidate him that's about it. We need someone on the same page. That's what's most important.
Well one, if the mental attraction wasn't there, there would be nothing to motivate that Libra to further get to know her. Libras don't just want mental chemistry, they NEED it. And the first thing they look for when meeting someone is that connection/chemistry. If that person can't even get past step 1, then a Libra won't see any reason to go to step 2.
Now, on the other hand if a Libra is not looking for anything serious, sometimes they'll ignore the fact that their company isn't connecting with them mentally. BUT, that usually only happens when that person has other things (beautiful or the greatest sex) that almost makes up for what they are missing. And in a Libra's case, that is rare. Libras might let you subsitute your great looks for a mental connection, but at the end of the day, if the chemistry isn't there by the time the good looks get old, they'll move on, always being confident in the fact that they'll find the right person for them.
And sometimes even when it comes to great looks & great sex, Libras won't always necessarily let one thing substitute for something else that is lacking. It just depends. Libras can be very shallow & very non-committing, BUT even the girls/guys they have casual sex with have to have SOME KIND of mental chemistry/connection to keep them even interested in continuing to have sex with you. Libras will only give you so long to prove that the connection is there, and if after your time is up, it's still not there, then they don't care how sexy, great in bed or talented you are, they'll move on; b/c Libras will always be true to themselves at the end of the day
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If you are very physically attracted to a girl, but you feel that the mental connection is not there, would you just let it go and seek love somewhere else,
or would you try to test her in any way? -and if so, how would you test her?