HELP WITH LIBRA MAN

i just started working at a new job, and there's this libra man who's been there for years, everyone loves him, he's very friendly, very funny..... and if he ever talks to me, i dont have much to say cuz im so shy.
how can i get him to notice me, or how can i tell if he's interested?

don't do it!

cuz its just a summer job.... n im loooking for fun... im jus curious

Presumably you are very glamourous and perfectly turned out?

sorry... what do u mean?

ohh haha then forget it lol im wasting my time..... im sucha mess

but we work in landscaping its hard tolook glamorous lol

lol not really... scruffy... n pants below his waist lol

i dont know... hes very friendly, very social, funny guy that everyone likes..... i just wnat to see... can i, the girl in the shadows.... get his attention?

here's the thing..... i never really reacted at first, i mena i would smile, but thats all i would do... n if hed talk, id kinda start wlaking away cuz im very shy n i start to feel awkward so to avoid there being a pause, i just walk away mid convo lol

but after him teasing me bout my rubber boots, or constantly syaing sup every time we walk passed eachother... im finally startin to put my wall down

yah, everyone always smiling when they talk to him, always

but here's the thing, i found him on facebook, and i messaged him... asking how he knows one of my friends.... anywayz, i ended up asking him in person the same question.... but... i saw that he finally went on fb, but he never wrote back, or didn't even add me as a friend....

ahhhh...... 😢

dammit, i knew it was a wrong move 😢 i ruined it already!

hahah weird how its so complicated...... his page is open tho, so anyone can see his page lol which is how i knew he was on it... lol

aaahhhhhhhhhh.... i know its a long shot.... but here are some of the very little things hes done...

1. always says sup to me every single time i walk by
2. always makes fun of my rubber boots whenever i wear them
3. kept laughing at the little sign i made for myself syaing: dont eat the candy jessi
and then made sure that i enforced the rules and didnt eat any jellybeans even when i wanted to
4. snuck up behind me and tried scaring me
5. would do the work that i didnt wnat to do

sadly thats it lol

sooo..... would he be interested in a fling?

Posted by Lil.ladie.taurus
sooo..... would he be interested in a fling?

Yes, he will be

how do i go about asking him out for a drink— or should i wait for an invite form him?

hmmm no, never does anyone go out for drinks afterward, plus i live about an hour away form my workplace lol.... sooo.... yah

thats alil bold of me..... i mean i mentioned i had to take the bus plenty times, n he never offered to give me a lift after work ne where soo.....

hahaha, i just know he lives around the neighbourhood lol

i guess i could give it a shot when i start talking to him abit more

lol i was thinking of aksing him to clal me if hes ever in my area??/
noo too forward—? AAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

lol not that desperate... YET lol... dont wanna scare the guy, i tend to do that... especially with cancer men

im very shy..... but im also very forward once i decide that i wnat sumone lol

once i decided i wnated this libra guy i started turning off his watering hose while he was watering... lol

haha no we work on cement grounds haha, and my uniform is sucha mans uniform, a button up t shirt with thick material, not flattering at all, especially cuz im short and slightly big busted i look very large in it

im thinking im gunan turn off the watering hose while the other coworkers are working so he feels like im not giving him special treatment? wutchya think?

HAHAHA...... noooo... im seriousss.... should i do it to some of my other coworkers while hes arounddd, so he thinks im giving him the same treatment as everyone else!?!!?

lol yah .... n so the guy i like has to step up his game and try n figure me out.... a challenge?

Posted by Lil.ladie.taurus
hahah weird how its so complicated...... his page is open tho, so anyone can see his page lol which is how i knew he was on it... lol

aaahhhhhhhhhh.... i know its a long shot.... but here are some of the very little things hes done...

1. always says sup to me every single time i walk by
2. always makes fun of my rubber boots whenever i wear them
3. kept laughing at the little sign i made for myself syaing: dont eat the candy jessi
and then made sure that i enforced the rules and didnt eat any jellybeans even when i wanted to
4. snuck up behind me and tried scaring me
5. would do the work that i didnt wnat to do

sadly thats it lol

This is typical Libra behavior. Does he flirt with anyone else like this? Libra love the chase... I wouldn't put too much into it.

Is it just me... or does this sound like the typical scenario of female smitten over the libra charm? hehe

Just be careful... these guys tend to 'love' and have a 'crush' on everyone.... They really like attention; but won't respect you if you are different. In many instances; a Libra can lose interest once he finds out that you like him back.

Best advice for getting him interested? Stop acting like you care and DON'T stalk him on the internet!

YES hes flirty with EVERYONEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE... thats why im thinking, how the HELL am i supposed to ACTUALLY tell if he is interested—??

lol okay you just saved my life then.... altho i alreday sent him a message on facebook when i just met him... i was just about to add him as a friend lol....

but THANKYOU for the warning...

we just started talking alil more now.... and since im normally a shy girl, im not one to go ahead and flirt first,i wait for him to start convo..... and so far he has been.... and then i always take off, or cut the convo short, and continue my work, not in a rude way, but in a "oh better get back to work" way lol

one more thing..... today he comes up to me and starts a convo with me about me.... jus bout a story a coworker told him about how i handled a customer... and... i dont know if it was just me wnating to see something, but he seemed kinda nervous while he was talking he was mixing up all his wrds lol

anywayz, yes im smitten as hell.. HELP

ohh hes a coworker...
the story was no big deal, i told another guy at work how i told off this one lady at my old job... and i guess he told the libra.. cuz the libra came to me and said: so i heard about.... bla bla