Need to get this of my chest ...

ex- libra turned up at my place, friday night . He was in a state his brother is in the hospital and it doesn't look good.

He was going on about what we had and how he felt safe with me . Asking me if he can lie down and if I can hold him. I said no. Of course he didn't believe me (I use to be stupid with him. So, I have only myself to blame) and he tried to kiss me, when I didn't kiss him back. He accused me of cheating on him. And he started with his insults because he saw that I wasn't falling for his crap.

Apparently, he needed me when his mom died and I wasn't there for him, which is a lie. I told him that he knows that it is not the truth and why does he keep doing this. Only come back into my life to hurt me. Then he said that he was angry with me .And that is why he was treating me so badly. I felt like slapping him face right off.
I got so angry and flipped out; I can't even remember what I said. But I know I said a lot of mean thing and I threw him out of my house. You should have seen the look on his face. He looked horrified.

I really don't understand his behavior. And why does he keep turning up at my place? Why doesn't he leave me alone? I really just want to forget that I even had anything to do with him. Yes, I use to love him and his family, but he is no good for me. And I do care that his brother is very sick but he wants me to comfort him, with sex.

Then yesterday, I went to grab a bite with friends and there he was with his fianc?e. And he acted like he didn't know me and was all over her. He is really pathetic .

Ok, off my chest

Wow what a douche bag. Unfortunately he is a good example of a really bad Libra. It is good that you have the resolve to not give in to his bullshit. High five.

lovelygirl89, ex- libra and I have never really been apart for a long time then we would get in touch with each other. Even if it was just a phone call.

This time has been the longest no contact, 5 months.

Libras love being loved and if he isnt getting what he needs form his current gf then he'll look to get it elsewhere...this can be just purely flirting to boost his self esteem or in some cases sex...but whatever, it's for his benefit and satisfaction...not yours! Be careful!

Also because he is feeling down and out with his family situation and you know him and them more than perhaps his current love, he's wanting your shoulder to lean on...not considering the consequence of his actions...after all, it's all about him remember!

sweethearts, aint that the truth.

I am just glad that I got him out of my system.

I know that he decided that I am not the one for him. And that hurt very much. I remeber that last time" it "hit me. And I told him. " You will never choose me or see me". Then he said he likes me a lot but the way I acted when we brokeup pissed him off. I said yes, I did act crazy because my best friend died in a car accident and I was messed up emotinally and him cheating on me didn't help either.

Ag, anyway I wish him well. But I do know that this is someone that I don't even want to be friends.

When I first joined this site . I was told that my libra will be back. ...So, insteady of discourging me, him coming back gave me hope. "If he comes back I will show him that I am the one for him and I waited patiently for his return... Hey, I was young ,stupid and deeply in love with him.

It took me 3 years of my libra coming and going out of my life. For me to realize that he doesn't deserve me. I belived all his lies and I fell for his crap everytime.


Like a stubborn child, I decided that he is the one for me. I worked through my " issues" with him and I stopped falling for his bullshit.

Yeah, his brother is in the hospital. But he is in a relationship, he choose to ask her to marry him, not me. He should not come to me for comfort. If what we had was so great, we would still be together. But he choose to leave and be with someone else.

It's his lost...

(Have to ran to a meeting)