psycho libra after break up?

the MOST confusing process i've come across with. We get back together. He regretted breaking up with me month before due to being "insecure". Two great months. We love eachother, but his hot and cold attitude was frustrating for me. He didnt trust me, and I asked him why he wouldn't and he says, " i know you arent doing anything behind my back, and i dont know why i dont trust you". This begins to really frustrate me and we both hate confratation. But I still swallowed my pride and tried to talk it out a couple of times. I did the mistake of breaking up with him thru text but regretted it as I know that is not what I really wanted ( but really..i think i did, i doubted him for doubting me)
NOW i did offer to come over and we can talk and work it out, as i was just so scared to talk to him and settle our doubts once and for all, but he said no "it will always be on the back of my head". He called me psychotic for breaking up with him then wanting to work it it... which baffled me. I offered to be friends and he accepted although he said he was still rather pissed and didnt know if he could see me with other men. I told him time will let us be friends, nothing immediate. Now he called up saying that a certain guy friend of mine always wanted to be with me and hopes im happy i practically had a relationship behind his back (which i didnt! now i thought he was pyscho for that!) he told me he doesnt give a fuck anymore, not my problem anymore.. blah blah... am i dealing with a psycho? what the hell got into him and.....

WHAT IS THIS LIBRA THINKING?!?!?!?!?!

no, he's just trying to find a reason to hate me. im not going to stick around when im doubted. i was mature enought to exit but compasionate enought to talk it out and change things.

amethyst: i do recognize my mistake on my part (break up txt, which is pathetic, and offering to fix it after the break up), but i can't help it. i broke it off because i really meant it, i was just hoping he was going to be optomistic and help change our communication issues :/

Jockey: i def understand libra's insecureness, problem is that i need a bit, just a bit of confidence, and he wasnt doing me justice


so basically, we are just not meant to be... on top of it, our charts are just crazy uncompatible... ahh if only passion could keep anyone going 😄

Psh typical pisces woman who has no boundaries with men.

I bet you have a lot of "male friends" all water women do.

They are so obsessed with male attention the fake title of a "friend" is the only way you can go around with out cheating or looking like a whore, yet he probably saw thru that cause he's a libra and didn't fall for your pathetic shit.

You are the one who is a psycho.

haha!!!! yes Sagittaious89, im SO inlove with male attention and i use the word "friend" to sugar coat my ill-repute with my lovers! No honey!! unless you read my post, it was just the TYPICAL libran insecurity, which for my piscean, unpatient taste, i dont have time to DEAL with that. & there was nothing for him to "fall" for, so i dont know what the hell you are refering to, since he didn't even know why he didnt trust me.


sag's and their unbalanced temper, geez! quite funny i must say

his ex-wife screwed him over bad, i know im the one paying for her mistakes. i did the right thing and exited i guess.

Pandora>> i came to the conclusion that i DO want to be his friend *BUT* im going to let HIM come around. He have almost all mutual friends and are bound to run into eachother. I'm going to let him get over what he is internally dealing with... and if he wants to start a friendship, im all for it. but its going to be him initiating it..
sometime you gotta let time do its thing.

let they guy know you arent spiteful since the break up and hopefully one day ya'll can initiante a mature friendship 🙂

that's what i did, and i keep having random dreams of us hanging out.

and im happy i let him go. im not longer doubtful or nervous of anything 😄

one thing i dont understand is how people can "just be friends" after a relationship. In my eyes i dont wnat nothing to do with my ex after a relationship, no friendship or nothing unless you just totally destroy the foundation of what you knew each other as


why dont you just leave him alone he aint crazy, he is just confused dipping from what he feels and what he has imagined, like all confused libras do