Anyone ever date a Libra??

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by simplysweet987 on Friday, November 19, 2010 and has 20 replies.

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@scorpiopics
16 Years1,000+ Posts

No but I must tell you that the only thing that has kept me
out of the life, pants, bed of the most together, most
beautiful, most honesy, most easy-going woman in my city
is the fact that she is a Libra ...

... and I know her balance ( lack of passion ) would kill me
and my extremes would tip her scales.

A damned shame.

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18 Years500+ Posts

I'm crazy about my Scorpio ..... it takes a lot of patience though. The thing we have in common is comedy, we laugh together a lot and I know it helps. Because it has gotten complicated and we haven't dated that long. My Scorpio let me in slowly but now we are full speed ahead, and I had to learn to balance the who controls in the relationship. She normally gets her way, but will compromise. She's not materialistic but has expensive taste for things she wants, and is very giving as well. She's jealous, manipulative, loving, shy, protective, down to earth and very sexy and uses it well. My favorite thing about her is she's not judgmental at not all. She will talk about things I could improve about myself but it's not a relationship determining factor. I have dated women that if I didn't have certain things it was a no!!! I think it will work if Libra let go the emotional, wanting the Scorpio to exposed themselves before they are ready. They are some plotting SOB's, in a good way and in a bad way. But I must say this is the first time I feel I need to be 100 percent sure I want, really really want this woman. Any signs of me showing a want or a need for another woman, my ass is cooked....... I'm sorry stung!!!!!

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@scorpiopics
16 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by JOJOJO
I'm crazy about my Scorpio ..... it takes a lot of patience though. The thing we have in common is comedy, we laugh together a lot and I know it helps. Because it has gotten complicated and we haven't dated that long. My Scorpio let me in slowly but now we are full speed ahead, and I had to learn to balance the who controls in the relationship. She normally gets her way, but will compromise. She's not materialistic but has expensive taste for things she wants, and is very giving as well. She's jealous, manipulative, loving, shy, protective, down to earth and very sexy and uses it well. My favorite thing about her is she's not judgmental at not all. She will talk about things I could improve about myself but it's not a relationship determining factor. I have dated women that if I didn't have certain things it was a no!!! I think it will work if Libra let go the emotional, wanting the Scorpio to exposed themselves before they are ready. They are some plotting SOB's, in a good way and in a bad way. But I must say this is the first time I feel I need to be 100 percent sure I want, really really want this woman. Any signs of me showing a want or a need for another woman, my ass is cooked....... I'm sorry stung!!!!!

You can talk about how hot other women are all you want to.
In fact, she'd prefer it - because it's out in the open.
It will however help to END the praise of the other by
outting some flaw - especially a concealed one - to totally
offset any fear - that is, you DISQUALIFY the other chick.

And as long as you frequently just put her arms around her
for a few minutes a day - for no reason at all other than
that you WANT to -- you can pretty much be forgiven for
anything.

( pretty much )

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16 Years500+ Posts

Scorpio n Libra....Mmmmmm. To the OP they are alot of topics on these 2.
It may be slightly different if its lib female n scorp male. But speaking from experience the combination of scorp female n lib male is a bummy ride.
At the start the lib male chases the scorp female,like there is no tomorrow. Scorpio is very flattered but abit weary.
Us scorpio female loves attention but we get suspicious,if it seems too good to be true. The libra will tell the scorp how gorgeous she is etc etc,all this time scorpio holds her card close to her chest.
Libra doesnt give up....turns into stalker,mr nice,generous with his attention,gifts etc. Scorpio eventually start letting her guard slip. Libra up the game even more...the scorpio guard is completely down.
Libra feels victorious....oh i got this scorpio chick exactly where i want her. Libra starts to withdraw/go cold.
Possibly to re-evaluate,decide if this is the right thing for him. Libra need space,scorpio needs reassurance.
Scorpios need verbal reassurance...therefore contacts libra. Libra detached more.
Scorpio will pull the jealousy card on libra...libra detach even more.
Its a constant rollercoaster ride....which will go on n on. Until one party throw in the towel and say enough is enough.

Everyone is different but read some of the post on here. However dont let astrology determine your happiness.
The key word for Scorpio n Libra is Communication.

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@Candeh15
16 Years1,000+ PostsVirgo

I'm neither a scorpio or a libra, but my best friend of five years is a libra currently dating a scorpio man. For one, he's absolutely crazy about her. And she, a libra who is never really satisfied, is quite content with her scorpio; that is until he doesn't really try to see where she is coming from when it comes to their differences. FemmeScorpion hit the nail on the head with communication. My best friend can get so upset with her scorp sometimes, but she has begun to realize that she isn't really communicating her problems with him like she thought she was. The more they communicate, the harder he tries, and the closer they become. One thing is for sure, his love for her is as bright and obvious as the sun.

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16 Years500+ Posts

Candeh15....i love ur unbias outlook on it. Your right from experience libra hardly are never communicate their feelings(mind you,they do @ the start). Its like the libra expect the scorp to read how they are feeling from their eyes etc.
Because scorps are so emotional,we like to hear things and feel after.
Communication and these 2 will work.🙂

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Communication is very important for my Scorpio and I, but it's on her terms, which takes a lot of patience for me. It was hard in the beginning but I've learned that she will eventually open up and she did just that. I'm not a Libra that goes cold after I get what I want, but my girlfriend must keep it interesting or I do get bored easily. Luckily My Scorpio likes to go out and do things and she likes some of the same sports that I like. She really enjoys comedy and so do I, and there's other things we have in common that just make us click.

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Sometimes it's the simple or little things that makes a big impact. Start off small and grow, that's the way life works. Never thought I would connect with a Scorpio the way I have with this woman.

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@Spartaculous
15 Years

Posted by FemmeScorpion
Scorpio n Libra....Mmmmmm. To the OP they are alot of topics on these 2.
It may be slightly different if its lib female n scorp male. But speaking from experience the combination of scorp female n lib male is a bummy ride.
At the start the lib male chases the scorp female,like there is no tomorrow. Scorpio is very flattered but abit weary.
Us scorpio female loves attention but we get suspicious,if it seems too good to be true. The libra will tell the scorp how gorgeous she is etc etc,all this time scorpio holds her card close to her chest.
Libra doesnt give up....turns into stalker,mr nice,generous with his attention,gifts etc. Scorpio eventually start letting her guard slip. Libra up the game even more...the scorpio guard is completely down.
Libra feels victorious....oh i got this scorpio chick exactly where i want her. Libra starts to withdraw/go cold.
Possibly to re-evaluate,decide if this is the right thing for him. Libra need space,scorpio needs reassurance.
Scorpios need verbal reassurance...therefore contacts libra. Libra detached more.
Scorpio will pull the jealousy card on libra...libra detach even more.
Its a constant rollercoaster ride....which will go on n on. Until one party throw in the towel and say enough is enough.

Everyone is different but read some of the post on here. However dont let astrology determine your happiness.
The key word for Scorpio n Libra is Communication.

wow, u just described my relationship in a nutshell. Except, I didn't do the whole jealousy thingy... It was just bad communication all the way

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@Skykomish
15 Years1,000+ PostsScorpio

Posted by FemmeScorpion
Scorpio n Libra....Mmmmmm. To the OP they are alot of topics on these 2.
It may be slightly different if its lib female n scorp male. But speaking from experience the combination of scorp female n lib male is a bummy ride.
At the start the lib male chases the scorp female,like there is no tomorrow. Scorpio is very flattered but abit weary.
Us scorpio female loves attention but we get suspicious,if it seems too good to be true. The libra will tell the scorp how gorgeous she is etc etc,all this time scorpio holds her card close to her chest.
Libra doesnt give up....turns into stalker,mr nice,generous with his attention,gifts etc. Scorpio eventually start letting her guard slip. Libra up the game even more...the scorpio guard is completely down.
Libra feels victorious....oh i got this scorpio chick exactly where i want her. Libra starts to withdraw/go cold.
Possibly to re-evaluate,decide if this is the right thing for him. Libra need space,scorpio needs reassurance.
Scorpios need verbal reassurance...therefore contacts libra. Libra detached more.
Scorpio will pull the jealousy card on libra...libra detach even more.
Its a constant rollercoaster ride....which will go on n on. Until one party throw in the towel and say enough is enough.

My first love was a Libra. And it was EXACTLY like this. ^^^

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"Scorps must be blamed" .... BS,my Scorps never takes ownership. Well she did apologize after a disagreement on yesterday. I was completely shocked, then today she wrote me a cute little note. It said Luv is all we need to make things complete. awwww she can be so sweet sometimes.

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@fiendishscorp
15 Years

I'm a scorpio sun female, with scorpio in 3 planets and am engaged to a Libra. We have been together for almost 5 years. I think it helps that it isn't all airy, he has a Pisces Ascendant and mostly earth in his chart. I'm a Scorp Venus/Sag Mars and he has Virgo in both. I tip his scales a fair bit and cause arguments, but overall we agree in many areas and have a lot of interests in common. He doesn't go hot and cold like I've read about with other Libra males. He chased and chased in the beginning, I originally rejected a relationship because I am older, but when I gave in he didn't disappear. He stuck around, we moved in together and proposed within a year.

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@fiendishscorp
15 Years

In my situation, I had been rejecting him, refusing dates etc and trying was to maintain a friendship only. So we had the mental discussions, flirting, much sexual interest etc while he kept pushing for the relationship. There is nothing I cannot stand more than a guy who can't discuss a topic in any depth, or is low in intellect, so I appreciate that in Librans. And I love how I'll make a quick judgement call based on gut intuition and he will spend the next 30 minutes balancing the argument, looking at all sides and trying to convince me otherwise. ;p

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"And I love how I'll make a quick judgement call based on gut intuition and he will spend the next 30 minutes balancing the argument, looking at all sides and trying to convince me otherwise." She can argue her ass off, but can't talk about deep emotional things. It's usually a short answer like "just know that I truly love you, end of conversation"..... LOL

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@Skykomish
15 Years1,000+ PostsScorpio

Posted by Spartaculous

Posted by FemmeScorpion
Scorpio n Libra....Mmmmmm. To the OP they are alot of topics on these 2.
It may be slightly different if its lib female n scorp male. But speaking from experience the combination of scorp female n lib male is a bummy ride.
At the start the lib male chases the scorp female,like there is no tomorrow. Scorpio is very flattered but abit weary.
Us scorpio female loves attention but we get suspicious,if it seems too good to be true. The libra will tell the scorp how gorgeous she is etc etc,all this time scorpio holds her card close to her chest.
Libra doesnt give up....turns into stalker,mr nice,generous with his attention,gifts etc. Scorpio eventually start letting her guard slip. Libra up the game even more...the scorpio guard is completely down.
Libra feels victorious....oh i got this scorpio chick exactly where i want her. Libra starts to withdraw/go cold.
Possibly to re-evaluate,decide if this is the right thing for him. Libra need space,scorpio needs reassurance.
Scorpios need verbal reassurance...therefore contacts libra. Libra detached more.
Scorpio will pull the jealousy card on libra...libra detach even more.
Its a constant rollercoaster ride....which will go on n on. Until one party throw in the towel and say enough is enough.

Everyone is different but read some of the post on here. However dont let astrology determine your happiness.
The key word for Scorpio n Libra is Communication.

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This is starting to sound eerily familiar.. and it sucks 😢