Sagittarius Girl Libra Guy Continued :)

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hmmm,

let me channel the fun i had with my ex libra...

1.) fishnets
2.) coochie coupons
3.) chocolate sauce, whip cream
4.) shower together before you have sex in the bed, then dry him off FIRST!! he will appreciate the shyt outta that
5.) homemade gifts
6.) fishnets
7.) cook for him...in lingerie 🙂
8.) kiss his back ALOT
9.) show him the good life...saggis are good at spoiling the object of their affection

there is a natural attraction. not much needs to be done.

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I was halfway through your post but stopped reading it when you mentioned you made loved with the guy. I don't understand your mindset when you said you wanna take it slow and yet you had sex with him. I could easily see that you are so into him now, but there's a catch SagDreamer you are now in the stage that you could easily fall for the guy cause of the physical bonding. Will you be able to take it if he suddenly lose interest on you or he tries to pull away or ignore you for whatever reason? Be careful my dear! I'm a Sag too and I'm in a relationship with a libra guy for almost 2yrs. now. It is sweet during the first year but when a libra happens to see something in you that they dont like they try to pull away suddenly or when they feel that they need to balance things up for whatever reason they try to pull away as in no communication for days. What I advice you now that this thing happened be straightforward to him, and say you like him and wants to be in a serious relationship with him. If your libra likes you enough he would take it to the next level...
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Posted by SagDreamer
We made love for 45 min straight staring into each other's eyes and kissing nonstop and switching up the position when it felt right. I have never kissed someone so much in my life. He just felt so right.

I left Monday morning and kissed him as much as I could before I did. He got up and walked me out, even though he had been sound asleep. I have never met someone who I've been so attracted to in so many different ways. The idea of his beautiful eyes staring into mine make me want to come back as soon as possible. I'm not worried about what to label what we have or where it's going or what might come of it. I know what I'm feeling, and I just want to prolong this amazing feeling of what just seems "right". I just want to be with him. So far, he is my ideal guy. He is laid-back, smart, funny, caring.. This was definitely one of the most amazing experiences of my life with a guy, and I think he may very well be my soul mate. Libra and Sagittarius seriously has to be one of the best matches there is.

oh uh! you are not worried of what to label your relationship with him? and yet you said he is "my guy". Be a Sag and tell him how you feel!
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Posted by LibraLuv
Indeed Q, I concur! Wow... I'm extremely happy for you SagDreamer!!!! Thanks for this update! I have a Sag hot on my trail, I thought it was just me thinking that perhaps, this could be "too good to be true"? I am very cautious, jumping back onto the "dating" scene and all. But what you described above is ummm...yeah.

Anyway he just might be able to hold on to this kite after all. I am having lots of fun with him. We're not a couple and I do have friends. So far I haven't had anyone to top him! He is definitely a front runner, I'll give him that. He's also a year younger than me if that really matters. I thought this time, maybe just maybe, I would attract someone older, a little wiser, but apparently none are trying to catch my string.

So anyways *raising my glass* here's to SagDreamer and her Libra and the Libra/Saggie combo. I am sincerely happy for you honey. Keep us posted! 🙂



The initial impression was that things were "too good to be true", and it was difficult to continue interaction with him for two months straight without any physical interaction. But after getting to know him as I have, he seems to be such a wonderful person so far.
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Posted by SagDreamer
So this past weekend when he saw that I had taken out his trash for him, he looked over at me and smiled and told me he loved me. I lightheartedly laughed it off and told him that he didn't and he admitted I was probably right.. But the word "love" kept seeping into his vocabulary all weekend. I'll know it when he says it and he means it 🙂 He and I both have some commitment issues, so we're very much on the same page with pacing how this works out 🙂



That seals it! You two are on the same page! Rarely does a libra say that he is in love or say "I love you". They always show it through action, but once he is totally into you he would definitely say it. Don't laugh it off that he did say it, otherwise he might not be saying it again. Tell him that you like hearing it from him and that it makes you shiver. 🙂 Just continue doing what you do now as what QLibraMale said. I'm so happy for you both. Sag and libra do get along pretty well as long as they are on the same level of maturity and principles. I can actually relate to you, on how you get smitten by a libra, cause I was smitten by one and still is, the only problem is that my ugly Sag nature comes in the way from time to time. Just always be the happy Sag for him and if ever problems get in the way try not to be the too loud and annoying Sag, Libra hate it the most.
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Posted by Lunamistress
Awwwwwww I am very happy for u! Keep it up and who knows where this will lead 😉



🙂 I hope it leads somewhere fun! lol! I could totally see myself with him. He is a wonderful combination of all of the qualities that I've been searching for but haven't been able to find in one complete package. But I'll continue to let him take the reigns. He's been doing such a wonderful job of pacing this just right. It seems that we're very in tune to one another, which has made understanding one another seem like second nature. 🙂 I'm very happy. No doubts about him in the least.
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I understand you, I am going through the exact same thing as you are with my Libra (except the fact that he is my ex). We finally met again after 5 months of not seeing each other after our break up (that's another story) and we are pretty much doing exactly the same thing you are doing right now!(except having sex).
We only meet once, twice or during the weekend because we want to take it slow and see where the moment leaves us. When we meet damn it's just like you describe it, it goes beyond a physical attraction, it's mental as well. I find that it only happens to me with Libras (I am a Sag), I cannot find that attraction and connection with any other sign, I don't know why.

I say keep doing what you are doing, and if he starts acting cold just back off and let him do his Libra balancing act, he will come back (All of you Libra's always come back!! Even if we tell you that we DON'T want you).
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Posted by PandorasBox
=) How do you make it work girl? Please.. Id love to know! So many miles between you...

This whole thread smacked a huge smile on my face, good for you girl 😄!! Stay your awesome Sadge self, by the looks of it, youve got this in the bag (as they say 😛!)



Oh I'm still working on it though. 🙂 Last year, we were awful. We fought almost everyday on-line, but I have to blame myself for that. I always nag him and always tell him that he rarely have time for me. I also mention past issues every time we talk. I was really the ugly Sadge last year to the point that he was so pissed off with me that he told me to "GO AWAY" and blocked and deleted me from his YM.

This year I got fed up ranting. lol! And a libra friend advised me that I should just give him his space. I did let him be, I also started being sweet to him again and now he never ignores me a single day. If he happens to be busy he would at least inform me that he can't give me time.

Bottomline is when a Sadge show her ugly self to a Libra, libra man will try to ignore you for days or even weeks.
But be the happy and cheerful Sadge that you are then you'll get him hooked again with your charm.
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This is why I keep on telling SagDreamer to never show her "ugly self" to her Libran. During our first year, me and my Libra were exactly the same the way SagDreamer describes her relationship. So, I wanted it badly to go back to that direction. But it takes a lot of hardwork on my part, librans are not the type that would pursue you or will make peace with you when they knew it's your fault that the relationship had gotten sour.
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Posted by Inertia1128
My Libra lives thousands of miles away from me. I'm sure it will work in the long run whether you are together or far apart. Always keep your communication lines open and show your loving nature. :-)



Thanks! I hope it works out. If not, I'm very happy for the experience. It's very eye-opening to know that such a complete package does exist, and I should not try to settle for anything less than I deserve. I really hope the distance does not become a major problem between us.
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Oh I'm still working on it though. 🙂 Last year, we were awful. We fought almost everyday on-line, but I have to blame myself for that. I always nag him and always tell him that he rarely have time for me. I also mention past issues every time we talk. I was really the ugly Sadge last year to the point that he was so pissed off with me that he told me to "GO AWAY" and blocked and deleted me from his YM.

This year I got fed up ranting. lol! And a libra friend advised me that I should just give him his space. I did let him be, I also started being sweet to him again and now he never ignores me a single day. If he happens to be busy he would at least inform me that he can't give me time.

Bottomline is when a Sadge show her ugly self to a Libra, libra man will try to ignore you for days or even weeks.
But be the happy and cheerful Sadge that you are then you'll get him hooked again with your charm.



You're so right. Sags can have a very ugly side to them. That side has come out in past relationships of mine. If I'm not in a loving relationship, I can get very bossy and mean. That was when I was much younger and didn't completely understand myself and my nature. I believe I've matured quite a bit since then. I've been through my fair share of negative relationships, and I know more now how to deal with issues and make a relationship work. Mr. Libra and I have been through periods where if we had not communicated properly, it could have turned disastrous for our relationship. But I make certain to make communication with us a priority. And I make certain to approach him with a very open and non-judgemental attitude. I've determine that to be happy, I want to settle down in a very open, understanding, and loving relationship. It's so easy to submit to nagging and negative behavior, but my happiness with my partner is so important to me that I'm willing to put in the extra effort and practice a little self-control. Maybe Libras know what they're doing when they pull back.. a little space to calm down is always a good thing. 🙂
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Posted by Inertia1128
This is why I keep on telling SagDreamer to never show her "ugly self" to her Libran. During our first year, me and my Libra were exactly the same the way SagDreamer describes her relationship. So, I wanted it badly to go back to that direction. But it takes a lot of hardwork on my part, librans are not the type that would pursue you or will make peace with you when they knew it's your fault that the relationship had gotten sour.



Wow! I can't imagine how much hard work that must have taken! I know whenever I get in those ruts with people, it's very difficult to change my behavior with them. Space and a different perspective help, but once you're conditioned to act a certain way with someone, it's very difficult not to fall back into that behavior with them again. You should be very proud of yourself for taking that extra effort, and I hope your Libra recognizes and values that hard work. I hope it continues to work to your advantage 🙂 Relationships are always difficult and take a great deal of work. But when you have that special connection with someone, that work is completely worth it! I've tried to make extra efforts not to fall into that rut with my Libra, and I've tried start this relationship in a very positive direction. So far, so good. 🙂 We've had one "argument", but we resolved that through discussion and patched it up as quickly as we could. I believe he and I have a good understanding of one another. Let's hope it lasts. I will continue to work on my self control so that I don't act ugly towards him down the road, and I think the best way ensuring that doesn't happen is to try to completely understand his point of view. 🙂
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Aww, you two are so sweet. Keep on going what you are doing. It's working great. Be very sensual, be sexy. Libra men are very visual and loved to be turned on by a woman who knows what she's doing. Show- not tell- him how much you care about him, keep on surprising him. But don't be too much. They get scared with intensity sometimes. But as long as they're into you, you're the luckiest girl in the whole world. Good luck to the both of you 🙂
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Posted by THEKingofLibra
This thread seriously keeps giving me wood everytime I read it.. Now I seriously wanna bang a saggie



see what you did KoL? she hid her first, 2nd, 3rd, 4th post. 🙂 I like reading it again and again...it reminds me of my happy days with my libra. 🙂

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Well, I do wish I had better news but a Virgo and a Libra do not work out. LOL! To say the least. Im constantly pullin my hair with him. Hes an air sign, a free spirit, us Virgos are homebodies, and although not completely disinclined to have some sort of spontaneous fun.. We just dont cut it for the sort of fun Libras have in mind.

I wouldnt really know where to begin explaining out relationship... X_X

You Sadges though, can most def blow their socks off 🙂
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Astrology say that Libra and Sadge are both frisky maybe that is why we Saggies "blow their socks off". 🙂
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Posted by size zero superhero
What I must say regarding Sag/Libra matches is not only based on my own experience, but as well from those of others I know...

Good luck committing. Between yourselves, there may be awesome chemistry, strong mutual understanding on top of intense attraction, which Libra and Sagittarius often share as compatible signs. Failure to take initiative (from both ends) is why romance may fade.
The Sag is typically carefree and unbound while a traditional Libra is laid-back and emotionally detached, which makes it difficult to take a step further to become 'official'. Fun crazy partying, sex, etc. will probably ensue although we're usually too nonchalant to ever get serious with each other.

If the woman is Sag and the guy is Libra, there stands a better chance of commitment. Sag dudes put it off and the Libra girl might wonder what he thinks is missing so we don't invest any further.



I agree with you on this. For a Sag lady-Lib guy to be "official", Sags should show signs that they are interested otherwise a laid back guy like Libra would not even think of you as a "potential partner". Even if you laugh with him, do fun activities with him, he will only consider you as a friend unless you'd show him that you see him sensual and sexual at the same time. 🙂 But first and foremost a Libra should impress a Saggie first intellectually and physically. You get that KoL? 🙂
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Posted by size zero superhero
If the woman is Sag and the guy is Libra, there stands a better chance of commitment. Sag dudes put it off and the Libra girl might wonder what he thinks is missing so we don't invest any further.



I've heard this as well. Apparently both Sags and Libras have commitment issues. I'm hoping that you're right about a Sag woman and Libra guy having a better chance. Any advice on how to increase my chances of this working in the long run? I don't plan on jumping into a commitment, but I want to know that it's something we're working towards eventually. How do I make that seem more appealing to him as well?
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Posted by Rayzed
Aww, you two are so sweet. Keep on going what you are doing. It's working great. Be very sensual, be sexy. Libra men are very visual and loved to be turned on by a woman who knows what she's doing. Show- not tell- him how much you care about him, keep on surprising him. But don't be too much. They get scared with intensity sometimes. But as long as they're into you, you're the luckiest girl in the whole world. Good luck to the both of you 🙂



Aww.. Thank you! I love the advice! Actions definitely speak louder than words, and surprises seem to work very well on him. 🙂
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Posted by PandorasBox
Well, I do wish I had better news but a Virgo and a Libra do not work out. LOL! To say the least. Im constantly pullin my hair with him. Hes an air sign, a free spirit, us Virgos are homebodies, and although not completely disinclined to have some sort of spontaneous fun.. We just dont cut it for the sort of fun Libras have in mind.

I wouldnt really know where to begin explaining out relationship... X_X

You Sadges though, can most def blow their socks off 🙂



My last bf was a Virgo! 🙂
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Posted by THEKingofLibra
This thread seriously keeps giving me wood everytime I read it.. Now I seriously wanna bang a saggie



see what you did KoL? she hid her first, 2nd, 3rd, 4th post. 🙂 I like reading it again and again...it reminds me of my happy days with my libra. 🙂



Astrology say that Libra and Sadge are both frisky maybe that is why we Saggies "blow their socks off". 🙂
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lol! I get paranoid that someone I know might see my posts, so I hide them after a certain amount of time 😉
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What I must say regarding Sag/Libra matches is not only based on my own experience, but as well from those of others I know...

Good luck committing. Between yourselves, there may be awesome chemistry, strong mutual understanding on top of intense attraction, which Libra and Sagittarius often share as compatible signs. Failure to take initiative (from both ends) is why romance may fade.
The Sag is typically carefree and unbound while a traditional Libra is laid-back and emotionally detached, which makes it difficult to take a step further to become 'official'. Fun crazy partying, sex, etc. will probably ensue although we're usually too nonchalant to ever get serious with each other.

If the woman is Sag and the guy is Libra, there stands a better chance of commitment. Sag dudes put it off and the Libra girl might wonder what he thinks is missing so we don't invest any further.



I agree with you on this. For a Sag lady-Lib guy to be "official", Sags should show signs that they are interested otherwise a laid back guy like Libra would not even think of you as a "potential partner". Even if you laugh with him, do fun activities with him, he will only consider you as a friend unless you'd show him that you see him sensual and sexual at the same time. 🙂 But first and foremost a Libra should impress a Saggie first intellectually and physically. You get that KoL? 🙂


Plus it's the gentlemanly way of expressing interest, letting the lady go first. 🙂
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Love it! He certainly is a gentleman 😉
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I've heard this as well. Apparently both Sags and Libras have commitment issues.



That absolutely has truth to it yet both signs usually need a push from the potential love interest, in order to get involved. For the most part, Sags and Libras almost never extensively chase people they're into or get jealous easily, thus both are less inclined to pursue relationship prospects than other signs.

Counter-example: Capricorn. Won't back down if interested; takes all required steps in order to win over their object of desire. Libra and Sagittarius will not be bothered with this deliberation and often become sidetracked.
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This seems pretty accurate so far. But it helps knowing this.. Hopefully we don't end up getting sidetracked 🙂
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Posted by PandorasBox
Anyway, if its of any help... The main reason why my Leeb and I didnt work out.. SOme honesty here..; Is because I didnt believe in our relationship. He asked me to be his girl about 7 months of datin after reunitin from a yr long break.. But since were long distance it would have been hard for me. Plus, he was my first serious relationship like that.. I doubted my self alot due to inexperience and probably selfish onesided immaturity.. Im so glad I know better now 🙂

All I gotta say is live in the moment, love every second of it, and well, you know the rest.

Lol! Keep us updated missy, the dynamics between you two seems like a blast!



Thanks so much for the candid advice! I will keep that in mind. I had my doubts in the beginning, but the more time we spend around each other the more sure I become of everything between us. Living in the moment is what I do best 😉 I get to see him again Sunday! I'll update again after my next trip
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Posted by PandorasBox
SDrmr: The dancin one? I love that avi too, reminds me of the rockettes. glad you like it 😄!

Girl.. The nap thing.. I just like debatin the other side so as to uncover the subject on both sides and not just one w/ bias.. KoL said no, so I in turn said yes. Libra Mercury, I cant help it if I must oppose for thesake of debatin sometimes ;P Lol! I can be a brat attimes too.. But thathonorable mention goes to my Leo Moon 🙂.



hmmm, I hope you were thinking of me when you said this but typed the wrong name. :p

about the nap thing, I was just teasing you. I'm sure you prefer to have a chitchat than nap. 😉😉
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Posted by size zero superhero
What I must say regarding Sag/Libra matches is not only based on my own experience, but as well from those of others I know...

Good luck committing. Between yourselves, there may be awesome chemistry, strong mutual understanding on top of intense attraction, which Libra and Sagittarius often share as compatible signs. Failure to take initiative (from both ends) is why romance may fade.
The Sag is typically carefree and unbound while a traditional Libra is laid-back and emotionally detached, which makes it difficult to take a step further to become 'official'. Fun crazy partying, sex, etc. will probably ensue although we're usually too nonchalant to ever get serious with each other.

If the woman is Sag and the guy is Libra, there stands a better chance of commitment. Sag dudes put it off and the Libra girl might wonder what he thinks is missing so we don't invest any further.



I agree with you on this. For a Sag lady-Lib guy to be "official", Sags should show signs that they are interested otherwise a laid back guy like Libra would not even think of you as a "potential partner". Even if you laugh with him, do fun activities with him, he will only consider you as a friend unless you'd show him that you see him sensual and sexual at the same time. 🙂 But first and foremost a Libra should impress a Saggie first intellectually and physically. You get that KoL? 🙂


Plus it's the gentlemanly way of expressing interest, letting the lady go first. 🙂



Love it! He certainly is a gentleman 😉
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I'm sure PP means you better be assertive with your libra. 🙂