Sagittarius Girl Libra Guy Valentine's Day :)

Posted by woundedbird
no one gives a crap about your potato wedges! you are a typical hussy that is merely in fornication with a dirtbag
who cant even take the time to get you a small gift. hes a dirtbag! worse...hes probably a muslim and black! goodluck
with that one! if you dont have a ring within 6 months and a wedding date within a year....youve been taken for a ride!

You're not only racist but ignorant. That's a deadly combo. Did you get owned by a Muslim or either black man that you go around hating on this website. I don't want to disrespect you, but it's hard to respect dumb and ignorant people who refuse to gain some knowledge before running their mouth. Btw ifyou keep talking shit about Muslims like your lil brain knows a thing or two about Islam, then you are going to get some serious disrespect. You may have your bad experiences or you may see dumb cultural practices like clitoridectomy and misconstrue it as religious practice. I responded to your post in my other forum. I don't know ifyou read it, but don't talk bout things you know nothing of. You make an ass out ofyourself.

You are mentioning all the things you do for him. Which he loves, of course. But what is he doing for you? Men show their love through actions, anyone can say they love you. By mentioning every detail, it seems that somehow you are looking for confirmation, not trusting yourself. I don't mean this to be hurtful, but I have noticed this about myself as well. You are a giver, and that is really sweet. But being "perfect" will never make a man love you, and if you keep doing stuff for him, then he won't feel the need to make an effort to do for you.

This is not to say you should become demanding and argumentative. It just means, stop focusing on winning his heart and his love. Instead, think about is he winning yours? Is he the best for you?

If you were more serious you would fight! That is what sucks about "real life love".

If I were you I'd stay in that light hearted "movie love" it's nicer there🙂

It's awesome what a planted seed can grow into in a girl's mind. Plenty of it are imaginings. I can picture him not doing a thing, just planting a seed of romantic insinuation. Very soon as things get more serious he will start to decide if he shall continue playing up your fantasies. As Lissanth says, try not to do everything. You do alot, man.. almost like a one man show. Your Liebe is a coy mistress; you're the head of the game there..

😛

(and woundedbird.. bring no religion unto secular ramblings.. would ya?)

I'm with Lissanth (and Spica). It's a beautiful, romantic story to be sure.. though the lack of even a small gift, esp since you both PLANNED to celebrate Vday early.. makes me raise a brow. I heard a lot about what YOU were doing for him, how fabulous YOU were making your days together.. and yes, he's very appreciative of it.. but I didn't hear much of what HE did for you.. a tiny bit of reciprocation (like him making dinner for you, cuz you'd done so much for him)... but a Libra will indeed try to balance things. So you're doing/giving (a lot) and he felt a need to do/give a little back. Not as much as YOU are giving, but just enough to not be a total douche. Giving is HIS job, appreciation and reciprocation is yours... getting it backwards is to your detriment in relationships.

You guys could very well be well on your way to a Happily Ever After... but trying SO hard to win his love (even unconsciously).. and "giving to get" (doing nice stuff cuz you're falling for him, and hoping he sees it and sees how awesome you are and falls for you too) is bound to backfire. Men appreciate "givers".. but it tends to make them feel "friendly" toward you, not "loving" in a relationship sense. No, don't become a selfish bitch.. just be conscious of how much you're doing.. esp if he's not doing as much, cuz that will throw off his scales. A man needs to do/give to a woman to trigger his deeper emotions, he wants to win his fabulous prize -- your heart. Handed to him on a silver platter, without him working to win it.. well, no one wants what comes too easily, it doesn't seem as valuable.

It brings to mind something my Libra said to me when we'd been dating a short time, "You have NO idea what I'd be willing to do for you. You really don't." And it was in reference to my "giving" nature, and the fact that HE wanted to pursue and woo me. So I backed off a bit... allowing him to do his job, move forward and think of ways to woo me and win my heart... and always doing MY job.. appreciating him and reciprocating affection, not DOING more for the relationship.

And now you hide all of the posts? What are you ashamed of? 😢

Posted by woundedbird
aqua09 another brownlee black muslim loser! you dont intimidate me carlos and i know exactly where to point the law
if you ever threaten me again!

LMAO. You're a joke! I wouldn't even insult womankind by calling you a woman. And my name isn't Carlos and nor am I a black, Muslim guy who dumped your ass. LOL. Do you confuse everyone who thinks you're a sad bitch to be Carlos or the muslim black guy that kicked you to the curb? You're soo funny!! OH and I wouldn't threaten such a funny person like you. I wouldn't be able to keep my face straight. You don't know a thing about Islam considering your lack of knowledge and your dumb generalizations all over the place! I've seen all your dumb comments about Muslims everywhere. You are the same idiot who calls clitoridectomy a religious, Islamic practice. You have no knowledge, hence no credibility. Having said that, so do you think I'm going to bang my head against a wall like qbone did? Nahh..You're boring, dumb and miserable. I come on this site for entertainment and you're boring me already. Misery is contagious and therefore you're a contagious disease. People would avoid you like a plague. No wonder your black, Muslim guy dumped your ass and now you sit on these forums spoiling other people's happiness. What would you know about love or the happiness this girl feels.

I have an idea for you. Why don't you make a forum of your own called "Misery loves company" and then watch 0 people join it. lol