So hard to communicate with him

It's me again. I come here for help coz i dunno anyone else who could give me better advice on libra man than you guys.
we met again last Thursday and we went to nice restaurant for dinner. He was really sweet to me. And this time he was ON TIME and he was waiting for me for almost 20 mins. I was very happy even though I was having my first day of period. But then we had a weird conversation. He said that maybe i should start taking contraceptives and nonstop for few months so that I would only get my period 3-4 times per year. I said I would try if its safe. So he started getting quite enthusiastic and showed me some articles about that. After dinner, we went to his place and we had sex and we watched a movie together. He told me he loves me.

At Friday night, I texted him and asked about his plans for the weekend. He just bluntly replied" i m almost sleeping". So i just said " sweet dreams" . I made other plans for the whole weekend. He texted me sometimes and said "I m missing you" ..."What are you doing?" ..."where are u going? and with who? ? "But He never asked me to spend time with him! If he really missed me, he would have planned something with me, right? We almost did not talk today. He only asked me" What are you doing love" To which I replied " i m going to have dinner soon." and he just replied "me 2".

Why is he acting like that? I m trying to be cool. But Should i do / say something?

Posted by BikerCh1ck
Yes you should kick him down the curb.
He gives me the impression that there is something wrong with him.
First of all he doesn't want you to have a period and asks you for contraceptive pills. That's insane.
THe contraceptive pill is an extra measure of him not getting tied down to you. I know plenty of men that they want the girl to take extra contraception ( except that they are using a condom) just in case there is an accident and they don't get her pregnant. So take this as a sign that he is not seeing future for the two of you.
On the other hand he doesn't want you to have a period. This means that he wants to be able to have more access in having sex. Can't he just wait a day or two until it finishes? All women that are young have a period. That is a fact of life. Only a pimp would want a woman not have period so she brings him money. He is not your pimp hence he sees you for sex only. The fact that he told you these words is a massive red flag.
To also answer your question on why he behaves the way he does is because he is stringing you along. Your guy instinct is right.

Okay. *take a deep breathe* So should i confront him? or just leave him without a word?
These days I have been really depressed because I hate myself for having feelings for him.

Posted by BikerCh1ck
Don't be embarrassed of yourself. You haven't done anything wrong.
You are dating. This means that you are assessing if this man is good enough to commit to. Feelings is something that can be developed for lots of reasons and most of the time you have little to no control on them.
Never EVER confront a man with words. First he will tell you what you want to hear and second he will not listen to you or consider you a nag. It will have no results in other words.
Always confront a man with actions. In your case the removal of your attention, interest or following him ( so you do as you please) is the best way of confrontation.

Yes You are so right. I just wonder if hes already losing interest so that no matter what i do , he won't change. Hes really sneaky and manipulative. He would tell me the types of women he hates, e.g. those who would order him to do things/ are aggressive, so since the beginning, I have consciously avoided being those types of women.

Okay. I will do as you suggested. And that means I will stop sleeping with him.

This way is not always working. It is working only when you really want give up. But if you want him , Libra is not the right sign to accept ignorance from you. If you silent, he will silent too. Most of Libras don't take actions , they are waiting for you to take it.
If he really hurts you, then leave him, do not wasting your time !

Libra man always will makes you feel like he lost interest in you. In fact, he lost interest in everyone, not only in you, because this is something natural from his nature... They always need SPACE and if translating this, it means : 1. they disappear without a word 2. they not disappear from anywhere but ignore you ( example in messenger list) and at least when they find a disbalance in other side of their life, they will come back to you...suddenly , just like nothing was happened....... and they are great in playing words again to make you just feel ther "love" and how much they "missed you". This is until they need space again ! A relationship with a Libra it is broken heart ! Just leave him alone and be yourself and don't try to be the kind of women that he dislike, because he will always find reasons and reasons to dislike someone ! If you are the type of women who say how to do the things or ask him do a thing like you want, this means you are a strong woman and you are capable to take decisions and the one wwho is wwak, is he, not you. Anyway they go from a relationship into another one , they are confuse in everything...
Mine disappeared, his phone is power of for a long time, but I don't know how I was feeling once that he opened the phone and I was right... It was maybe a feeling from my inside and then I knew he open the phone just to read my messages if I was sending messages to him, so this means he cannot forget everything and he still keep there a way for later, when he will back.. this can be after 1 year or more.. But I told him the ultimatum and I will not contact him back. I preffer to be the one who stop the things and to make him regret what he lost. After they go out from their confusion and back at normal for a while, they appear again and want everything to be nice again ! Well, just make him see that this "everything" will not be there for him anymore. A man must acting as a man , can be Libra or not, but women just need to remember them this thing !
So be brave and leave him away , he does not deserving you !

Stop sleeping with him and also become more cold with him, he will see that he lose you .

How many fucking names does Aylin need??

Also, OP, what the hell? Didn't you get your answer in the other thread? What did you seriously think would change between now and then? Several of us already told you what this dude is about. I mean really, do you have a learning disability where you cannot grasp what's being said to you? How many more flags, flashing lights, and giant signs do you need?

This asshole is still the same asshole who fucked around with you in your other post about him and he continues to show outstanding examples of his douchebaggery.

Quit your stupid shit and move on for your own good. I know it's hard, but come on. Try harder.

Fyi, "revenge" does not include letting him stick his dick in you. You just keep on letting him have the upper hand and you're failing miserably at any sort of resolve here.

"RAWR I'M GOING TO GET REVENGE. THIS GUY IS A JERK. I'M SO MAD. I'M IGNORING HIM."

A WEEK later,

"LOL I FUCKED HIM AGAIN AND DON'T GET WHY HE'S BEING A DICK."

Freaking seriously dude? Come on. Light a fire under your ass and do what's best for YOU.

Also, to illustrate what really happened-

He buttered you up by being all nicey and on time and all that bullshit.

It was to lure you into bed.

It worked.

Now he's gone until he wants some more ass next time. He'll turn up that charm, get flirty, make you feel squishy enough to give in and give him what he wants.

Rinse and repeat this cycle.

This is why loser older guys love youngins. They're easy to manipulate.

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Posted by BikerCh1ck
Don't be embarrassed of yourself. You haven't done anything wrong.
You are dating. This means that you are assessing if this man is good enough to commit to. Feelings is something that can be developed for lots of reasons and most of the time you have little to no control on them.
Never EVER confront a man with words. First he will tell you what you want to hear and second he will not listen to you or consider you a nag. It will have no results in other words.
Always confront a man with actions. In your case the removal of your attention, interest or following him ( so you do as you please) is the best way of confrontation.

Yes You are so right. I just wonder if hes already losing interest so that no matter what i do , he won't change. Hes really sneaky and manipulative. He would tell me the types of women he hates, e.g. those who would order him to do things/ are aggressive, so since the beginning, I have consciously avoided being those types of women.

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How sad! Why do you feel the need to mold yourself into his perfect vision of a woman? You should never change who you are for a man. Ever. If you have to, then you are NOT with the right man.

Done posting because I replied backwards.

Also, I'm just irritated that you shot yourself in the foot and set yourself back like 578329534 steps. You deserve better than this shit. Work on that self esteem if you think you have to settle for shit like this.