Strange weekend...

Did not know where to put this on this board or on the Does anyone believe in signs. On this board you guys already know my business...LOL

Note: I did 3 readings over a period of 4 moths and 2 said that I will meet someone that I will end up marrying and that he will be the father of my 1st child.

Last week the last one said; direct quote:
?I had a word with your guiding angel regarding the boyfriend matter and was informed that on three separate occasions they had set up a meeting with this chap during the past 2 months. On all three occasions however your energies pushed this meeting aside, that your angel sees you need more time before letting someone enter your life. He says you need to attract love and in your case you are repelling it.?

? Ex- boyfriend call 3 times during this time trying to hookup ? just not in the mood for drama!!!!
? Cancer- guy call 3 times during this time trying to hookup- busy getting divorce
? Capricorn- guy call 3 times during this time trying to hookup ? he hit me so why would I want to go there again.

I have not seen my ex- libra for a little over 3 months. The last 3-4weeks we have had contact again.

Friday night I went out to dinner with a cancer guy. We have been trying to hookup for the last year but something always seemed to happen or our schedules were always off. We'll talk on the phone but when we have to meet something will always pop-up?We decided that everything happens for a reason. So, maybe it wasn't time for us to meet.

So, eventually we met up. I like him a lot. We have the same value system. He is still in the process of getting divorce (He is wealthy so maybe they still fighting over that).They have been separated for the last 3 years.

Cancer dropped me off. I like him but the whole still not being divorce is bothering me. My parents will not approve.

As soon as I got inside took off my shoes and made a bottle for my godson. Next minute ex-libra was at the door. He asked me why I was not picking up my phone (left phone at home, battery was flat) He left 7 missed calls. I swear if he pitched up 10 minutes earlier he would have caught me making out with the cancer guy. Was still talking about what a great kisser cancer was. When libra showed up)

while I was feeding the baby.Libra asked when we are having our baby and said now there is one that will come between us again.

While at dinner cancer guy also said that he will be the father to my 1st child.

Libra stayed a while. Went and got take-aways with my sister and the baby's mom. Then he said that he had to go. He walked halfway up the pathway. Then as if he forgot something he turned around and came back and gave me a kiss and hugged me then he left.

Just when I wanted to start something new with someone else. One more time. Didn't know what to do. So, I prayed that something will happen and that they both will leave me alone for a while. Cancer went out of town for business and I have not heard from Libra again.

What do you guys think about this

ahhhh yes the great Libra re-appearing act....just when you start getting on with your life again up they pop!!!!

I think personally you need to enjoy some YOU time.....too many men to think about gives you negative energy....Id stay away from them all for a while and enjoy some girlie time and then, ONLY THEN can you invite REAL love back into your life.....give the old ones the flick, start afresh when you've done your new wardrobe shopping, gone and got blind drunk with the girls, and partied up for a while......men, who'd have them? hahaha

No seriously I think thats what is in the meaning you wrote above by not letting love in yet.....its ok to be alone for a while.....best to heal from past experiences than to drag them into anything that may be utterly wonderful in the future 🙂

now that I read this it just sounds foolish.

I want to be with someone new...I am tired of libra.And I am scared of getting close again.Libra really hurt me. And this Cancer is making me feel things.

(I am suppose to be working and all I can think about is his kisses and the way I want to rub up against him. Lord help me !!! The things I want to do to him, LOL)

((check the status of the divorce. find out if temporary orders have been filed. find out if anything has been filed. find out if there have been court dates. if there have been, it is moving along))

I know that these times has happend. But it still scares me.

have to ran a friend is sick and I want to go see how she is doing.

Bella

I hear you..After leokitten unleashed on me, i really sat back and thought about my Libras actions and mine..I emailed him and told him that I am not ready to be friends, i was brutally honest with him and told him that I was holding on to friendship in hopes that he would once again become the person I met..I told him that i realize now, that he was rebounding and that the person i met was not real..I haven't contacted him since but a
co-worker had to contact him regarding a product we needed, he called back the next day to respond to her question, and I didn't pick up..He left a message with the information..
The following week he called back and my co-worker answered and he asked for me, when I picked up the phone he asked me if I had any questions regaurding the products we needed..I said that was my co-workers deal and if she had any questions she would contact him..We talked for a few minutes and then he said it was nice talking to you again..He sounded really nervous at the start of the conversation..

I really don't understand this situation..He always wants distance and has made it clear that he doens't want a relationship with me, but as soon as I try to distance myself from him, back he comes...I was feeling really good about the whole situation, now I feel like shit again..I have made a promise to myself that if he calls again, I am going to tell him that I found another supplier and that i no longer need his services in reagurds to the business..I believe this is the only way...

I get where u are, I am tired of Libra too..

Advice anyone ??

Should I just call him and tell him that I no longer need his services now, or should I just wait and see if he tries to contact again?? I feel sick over this and I want it to end..

OK. I decided to see where things are going with my cancer.Early days but I am smitten with him.

As for ex-libra I am so done with him. He found out about Cancer.So, He called me and was asking about Cancer and me and just talking crap about Cancer. e.g How can I date a married guy.Wealthy men like Cancer usually sleep with a lot of different women.And now he knows why I didn't pick up when he called because I was screwing Cancer before he came over to my place. blah blah Libra was just acting like a "real drama queen"

Told him that I am not dating Cancer was just having dinner with him for work.

I can't tell Libra the truth , he is just an ASS that will make a lot of trouble and hurt alot of people. Because that is how he is.

sorry forgot to say,

Wealthy men like Cancer usually sleep with a lot of different women.And he doesn't understand why I don't want a good guy like him. Maybe I don't like being treated right.

He is clearly spacing out...wonder what he is smoking..LOL.

He( Libra) has a girlfriend so , really don't know what his problem is.

((Maybe he is jealous.))

Why would or should he be jealous. He told me that he does not want me. It took me a long time to move on and I remeber all the times Libra knowing that I still loved him will use that to manipulte me.

And once I ...ok almost every time we slept with eachother he would say the next morning remember . " I don't want you " He knows how much he has hurt me. His friends spoke to both of us. Telling me I should move on and telling him to stay away from me. Because what he is busy doing is messing me up.They were woriied about me because thet saw how much I loved him and because I am so much younger then him(he is 37 years -9 years older then me).

He should be glad that he is rid of me. And be happy for me that I am happy.

Yes, he has issues with people that have money and status.He has an inferior complex.

I just like older guys. Guys, my age bore me.

I don't read predictive astrology.

(("seems you are spending a lot of time on emotionally unavailable men. that is called protection for you...and drama."

that makes alot of sense! ))

Yes, it does

I am sorry for offending any Libras.

After reading all my post. I was thinking what the hell!!

I have just been so angry and bitter since I brokeup with Libra, then my best friend died. So, I really didn't deal with my baggage. I came on here and vented.

I am a Leo and I have issues, but I am dealing.