Hi I'm new here. I'm a cancer and met a libra on an online site. He messsged me with great charm! He's a gentleman but OTT romantic. He's currently up north visiting his family (his twin and he will be celebrating their 55th bday soon) so we haven't met yet (it's only been a week and half of conversing by phone, email & text) like I said he is OTT romantic. Says a lot of nice but gooy stuff that I find hard to reciprocate. But he's intelligent funny and charming. Sharing pix of his family etc However, he got a little carried away by text yesterday and said some things I found kinda off the chart (if you get my drift )and as we haven't met yet I couldn't even play along. I'm a cancer. I'm emotional in the love Dept. Can't even wrap my head around how romantic he is this soon. So I was cool. We texted later and he mentioned he showed my pics to his family with a two thumbs up. But mentioned I had added a new pic on the dating website. (He has hid his profile a few days after making contact) so never got his usual 8am text this morning wishing me s good morning and good day. I sent him one around 9.40am saying good morning. He just says. He's on a walk with his sis for quality time. He knows he messed up yesterday I. Being so vocal so us he just sulking or does he think I'm prudish for not playing along. I read here libra men sulk and if offended walk away for good. Not interested in moving forward if this is how it plays out and we haven't even met yet!!!!!! Let me repeat he's OVER THE TOP romantic. I'm just confused. Help! I do like his mind his looks his nice words ?
Sulking already
Understanding Libra Men and Sulking Behavior
Libra men may sulk if they feel misunderstood or offended, especially if they are highly romantic and sensitive. They value harmony and can withdraw if they perceive a disagreement. Communication and patience are key to navigating their emotional responses before deciding on the relationship's future.
Btw hes on the libra : Scorpio cusp
That's unusual for a Libra to be that romantic up front.

Some Libra and Cancer couples coming out here too.
Fire and earth signs coming out on here too.
Scorpio and Taurus coming out but slowly but surely will be.
Fire and earth signs coming out on here too.
Scorpio and Taurus coming out but slowly but surely will be.
Heliumfiasco: Maybe because he's on the cusp if Scorpio? Oct 20. He's def being very distant and quiet this morning. Maybe he's doing damage control lol
Metaphysic88. I suppose he may be hurt. But we're not an item we are learning about each other. AND we haven't met and it's only been over a week. Do you think this cold shoulder means he's moved on already becuz of me adding a new photo? I do give him compliments but I just can't be all lovey dovey just yet. Im flattered but that's not how relationships should start out. Besides this cold shoulder is making me think twice about him.
Metaphysic88. I suppose he may be hurt. But we're not an item we are learning about each other. AND we haven't met and it's only been over a week. Do you think this cold shoulder means he's moved on already becuz of me adding a new photo? I do give him compliments but I just can't be all lovey dovey just yet. Im flattered but that's not how relationships should start out. Besides this cold shoulder is making me think twice about him.
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