The Astrology of Kink: the Libran Ideal

Like Taurus, Libra is ruled by pleasure-loving Venus, but there's a distinct difference. In earthy Taurus, Venusian desire is grounded in physical pleasure, but in Libra, the Goddess of Love is all air. Where earth Venus manifests as sensuality, air Venus manifests as aesthetic ideals. Airy Libra is often more turned on by ideals of physical pleasure than by the experience itself.

They can be very good lovers, if you fit one of their mental fantasy frames. They love to visualize themselves giving as good as they??re getting, and are eager to please — they have standards to meet, you know — and once you find a shared mental picture that won't offend the Libran aesthetic sensibilities, sex can be erotic and imaginative. Sexy lingerie, flattering candlelight, and appropriate music are favorites; the closer a Libran can get to a picture-perfect romantic scenario, the happier they??ll be.

Librans like to watch. This is one of the most voyeuristic signs in the zodiac — if the situation is appealing, that is. For instance, many Librans like porn, but strongly prefer the slick, airbrushed type. Amateur porn is not to their taste, as the models and sex acts are often imperfect; Libra has to accept enough imperfections in real life as it is!

Particular though it may be, Libran voyeurism isn't passive. They prefer to be an active party, visualizing themselves as the center of a sexy threesome or hot quad, possibly even directing the show; Libra Mars is particularly fond of this. Watching themselves in action is another turn-on; mirrors and video recorders are practically a given with an uninhibited Libran (but only for the most flattering shots, of course.)

i'd rather have a pretty adonis to look at, but i guess porn or a mirror would be okay.

the guys in gay porn are usually way hotter than the ones in straight porn, btw.

you've just written about a few Libras I know. : ) yes, porn but leo's like that as well and good sex partners, Libras, oh yeah! They do aim to please and so do Leo's, I guess that explains that both Libras and Leo's make a pretty darn good pair in the bedroom.