OMG!!!!

i think i'm destined to fail in relationships!!!! i just found out i'm a capricorn rising (not taurus), libra sun and cancer moon. WHAT!!!! I'M A MESS! for whatever reason i'm always been attracted to fire signs or men with a lot of fire in there chart-which is probably the worse match for me!

i don't get it....

im so confused

You're only destined to fail to the extent that you say you are, not the planets.
And really....what does "success" in a relationship really mean to you?
I am a cancer rising, libra sun / aries moon.

I could pick away at who I am or how my planets are lined up all day long as my excuse for failed relationships or I can take responsibility and learn and change with every experience.

That, to me, is success.

chill out. read this...
http://lessons.astrology.com/course/show/StarTypes-Life-Path-Astrology/3405-The-T-Cross-or-T-Square

let me clarify... i'm not saying that there's something wrong with me as a person, my reason for say that i'm "destined" to fail is because it seems that what i'm attracted to in a person and what i need emotinally is completely different. im just a hard time finding the right blend.

That is how I sometime feels.I dont know if my Planets play a role in why I'm the way I am and I never been in a relationship(only dated a girl for 5 months and not for the right reasons) for the 20-someodd years of my life. My stats look like this:

Libra Sun
Sag Rising
Leo Moon
Cap. in Mars
Scorp. in Venus
N. Node in Taurus

Maybe it does have a role in me being destined not to be with anyone OR maybe it is me. Chances are maybe I done all the wrong moves, Maybe I acted wrong. I try not to blame it on something I have no control in. That will make it look like I WAS pre-destined to fail in relationships and be lonely, that itself is too hard for me to take in. So I dont think (Hopefully) your destined to fail in relationships. You just like the wrong type of guys. Why dont you try to date the type of guy you usually dont like? Have a little faith Cuz that all thats keeping me together

Playswitfire83, I totally understand what you mean. I'm not saying that you're destined to fail in relationships but I felt the same way (still do sometimes) and until I had my chart done, I didn't understand why I was the way that I was. Now that I know where my planets lay, things make a whole lot more sense. Not that it helps much cuz I'm a hot mess! 😢 I can be CLINGY, NEEDY, I WANT YOU WITH ME ALL THE TIME, WHY AREN'T YOU CALLING ME??, STAY THE F*CK AWAY FROM ME!!!, I NEED MY F**** SPACE!!!, I NEVER WANT TO BE MARRIED!, WHY AM I NOT MARRIED??, I WANT HIM, HIM AND HIM.... all at the same time. lol My pisces sun wants wants to be all up under someone, my sagi moon is flirting with his friends, my leo rising wants all eyes on me, and my venus in aquarius is like "Oh whatev, I'm just gonna go have cocktails with my gfs and forget all this mess. L8tr!"

It's taken alot of time and a lot of failed relationships to learn how to reign myself in a bit. I don't think you should be so hard on yourself though, cuz nobody's chart is perfect and even those with good charts can still have crappy relationships.

DXP substituted the word "c@cktails" for chickentails?? Wtf??

@sleepyrebel... I was just looking at your stats. If it makes you feel any better, my father is also libra sun with scorpio in venus, and he is the best father, husband, brother, son, etc. that anybody could ask for. He and my mom (a cancer) have been married for 39 years and he has always been respectful and loving to her. Throughout my life, all of my friends' moms wished they could get their hands on a good husband like him. LOL I suspect that the venus in scorpio plays a big part.

thanx....atleast i'm not the only one all over the place. i'm always drawn to the a**holes. it intrigues me in the beginning, and then get frustated because their such a**holes. i hope i grow out of this soon

If I remember my astrology correctly, I think venus dictates what we are attracted to. Somebody correct me if I am wrong. Anyway, my dad's venus is in scorpio and he ended up in a really successful marriage with my mom, a cancer (dunno what her venus is). My mom is not really a clingster like some cancers can be, but she is emotional and my dad handles that just fine. I, on the other hand, rarely date other water signs and my shortest, most unsuccessful relationships have been with water signs. For a pisces, I couldn't understand why until I had my chart done and discovered how much air I have in it. My venus is aquarius, which explains why I end up surrounded by so many other air signs. All of my closest friends are air and all of my exes that I am on friendly terms with are all air signs. Ideally, I like a guy who is affectionate and trustworthy. I don't want him to be clingy and I don't need him to be so vocal about his love, as long as I can see it in his face and in his actions. As I mentioned earlier, I don't really get on with water signs too well, fire signs irritate me (Leos too condescending and controlling; Aries...hello anger management!; Saggis and that crazy wandering eye). For me, my best combo has always been air or earth, but my pisces sun can get in the way with the periodic clinginess/neediness.

Playswitfire, you should find out what your venus is in because that might help you a bit.

Pesca75...my venus is in leo. all of my "greatest" loves have been fire signs and their the only men that have been able to hold my attention, with an exception to one cancer. not saying that all fire sign men are bad men, but i'm always attracted to the arrogant "manly" men. but having a cancer moon i need one that understands me emotionally as well...which is where i seem to have the problem. i don't want ne 1 clingly and really emotional becuz im not like that at all but when i'm in a relationship i need someone who takes the time to do the little suddle things just because they kno that it makes me happy.
it's hard to find a good mix.