THIS LIBRA IS NUTS!!

What is his freakin problem? Okay so I work with this libra dude, I almost certain he has a crush on me. I like him too, but everytime I think he's getting up the nerve to ask for my number or something he does something to make me question whether he likes me like that or if its just business. About 2 weeks ago we kinda got into it because he asked what high school did I go too. I told him the 1st high school I did two years at. Then he asked what high school did I grad from I told him a diff school. I never claim the high school I graduated from because it was wack.lol. And I always joke about it, but eventually I always tell the truth, that I went to one high school for 2 years and graduated from another. He starts calling me a liar, and just blowing up and actually stopped talking to me for 3 weeks. WTF. 1st of all he's not my man, and from what he said and I quote " I think we should keep our business relationship just business" then he has no plans on trying to be. So why does it even matter what high school I went to. We don't even talk outside of work. Not to mention he wouldn't even tell me how old he was, or when his bday was. I STILL don't know. Shoot. Then so today after 3 weeks of him giving me the cold shoulder he puts a bag of my favorite candy on my desk. He's the only one in the whole office that knows its my fav. So when I went to thank him in an email he goes "It wasn't me. What are you talking about? Maybe you have a secrete admirer" So I thought it was cute an decided to play along. Then he starts saying maybe the person has been watching you and will one day get up the nerve to tell you they like you and would like to take you out and so on and so on. Everyone in the office keeps asking if he's my bf because he's always buying my things, small things like my favorite tea, he brought me halls when I was sick and just cute little things. So today he was sweet then he went there. I started calling me a liar about my school and what not saying that it can always go back to how it was a day ago. I told him well if it does your petty and that I was not going to BEG him to stay cool w/me becuz I didn't do anything. He goes "ITS NOT THAT SERIOUS" then sends me a love song, and starts flirting again. What the??!!?? Now im a libra, I should get him??_but I honestly don't. One minute he's hot, the next he's cold and Im not sure what the heck is going on??_Any ideas? ( P.S If you get smart I will block you.) Thanks in advance.

^^^IKR. lol

I've told my co-worker i felt the same way. I feel he'd always be mad at me anyway because i wont cooperate like the other girls he's used to. He and i are the same sign, so we prolly bump heads in a relationship. Just like he stopped talking to me, and was the 1st one to start back talking to me. He's such a spoiled baby.ugh. Look out all you women who looooove libra males.lol

crazy thing is id expect this from a cancer. But never a libra.

^^WHATEVER.LOL. Who would? It doesn't change that he confuses me.

All I can say is what I would do, which is not necessarily the right thing!!! LOL. As a Libra I would be super cool. I think he likes you more than a colleague but he is not controlling his emotions very well. He needs to be more respectful. Having said that, I take the opinion that if someone lies about something, even if small, they may lie about the bigger stuff so I would be suspicious of you if I was in his position. Maybe he is disappointed that you are not as perfect as he thought you were (who is?). Maybe you should take control of the situation rather than react to him. As him out for coffee that sort of thing. Just a few suggestions.

I cant believe he took it that serious tho. I didnt lie about what school i went to. i really did go to the darn school. lol. For 2 yrs. And it was joke. He needs to get over it. And im scared to ask him out after what he said. im just as much afraid of rejection as him.

Think in terms of longer time frames. Cool down and wait until he behaves more respectfully. This may take a week or two. Then calmly explain your reason for telling fibs and maybe even apologise and say that you didn't realise it would be so important to him. If he is behaving reasonably invite him to a coffee or somewhere you would normally go that is quite casual, to be friends again. You're taking control without actually putting yourself out there. Wait for him to ask you out on a proper date though. I think he needs to step up to the plate. Sounds like he is quite young, so he is stumbling a bit! LOL.

You gotta be a little crazy to date a Libra.

Just sayin.

He's older than me.lol. And Nefer i couldn't agree more. I've ran into a couple of caps, and they are too crazy for me. I be darn near running.

i got to the first "high school" and FULL STOP!

Ugh!

See thats the only thing about these message boards on dxp people will get wayyy off topic and the person who started the thread wont know what the heck is going on...

Lol. I never saw it...Thats why i was like what are they talkin about.lol. But thanks for the advise. My bf says he sounds really into me but because we work together he's trying to hold out and its driving him nuts. she thinks i should laugh when he freaks for no reason like that.