To Leos, about us and them the Libras

The Leo Libra partnership; a Leo's view
Why is it that the Leo woman - Libra man couples are so rare? I mean, beyond predeterminations such as Venus being the enemy of the Sun and all, I'd like to think there are still things a Leo can do to reach happiness along a Libra 🙂

For my Leo astromates:
Wonder why Aries got it Libra's ass? Well its cause the Leo will bitch and complain, mope and whine, but the Aries will ask questions, get informed, hide thier emotions and attack. Leo efforts to conquer a Libra are merely about building an image that does not reflect the reality of our own true person. Yes it does backfire us because in time the Libra will notice the INCONSISTENCY, the divorce between what you say and what you do (or what you are). Unless you're prepared to give them true attention (not just give attention so that they get tired returning it to you), unless you yourself become an independent person with decent self esteem, hard working, ambitios, balanced individual, don't even bother. And don't come crying that the Libra?? can't make a decision as long as you don't realize someone with initiative will sometimes decide for them (or they'll decide on their own when they're convinced).

There is a lot of fear in a Leo facing Libras. First, the Leo needs to confront his own disappointment that he's not that valuable as he thought he was.

ex:
Why would I act extremely gelous insecure and posessive when I know I've given my best, Ive put mysel out there heart mind and effort? Maybe its cause I noticed some cracks in the facade? Well then, go fix the cracks dont just paint over them. Don't get trapped into relying on Libra's sweetness and kind nature to keep you entertained. They also put energy into doing it but in the process you will no longer be seen as an equal, a partner. So don't show your weak traits, an Aries never does.

About the generosity: a Leo may sometimes feel he's being taken for a ride by the active oppotunistic Libra. Dont forget that they expect an exchange of opportunities and profit, its nobody's fault if you sell youself short out of lack of self esteem and don't ask for the things every relationship/partnership deserves. This is where it lies: laziness gets to lack of pride for our own results, gets to lack of self esteem, gets to thinking that we're less than other ppl therefore should settle for less.

Gawd I must really love my Libra 🙂

well since u know so much about libras, tell me about one with a leo moon? damn, does everyone come to thi forum to b-i-t-c-h?

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Libra Sun Leo Moon? That's what I'd like to be, Im a Leo Sun Libra Moon .. well since the moon governs those feelings, I'll see if I can come up with a good description, I just hope that the Leo "curse" to pair with unsuitable partners that make him/her suffer doesn't apply ..
I also see some self esteem issues ..

Posted by LisaLeo
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Libra Sun Leo Moon? That's what I'd like to be, Im a Leo Sun Libra Moon .. well since the moon governs those feelings, I'll see if I can come up with a good description, I just hope that the Leo "curse" to pair with unsuitable partners that make him/her suffer doesn't apply ..
I also see some self esteem issues ..

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Posted by Pride of 0ctober
well since u know so much about libras, tell me about one with a leo moon? damn, does everyone come to thi forum to b-i-t-c-h?

are you libra sun leo moon?

cos i am. and leo ascendent.

i get along great with leo women (usually), but i clash wildly with leo men (usually). the women seem warm and fun, while the men seem cocky, shallow, and obnoxious. in all fairness, leo women seem pretty shallow too, but they're so fun and nice and sociable that it usually doesn't bother me one bit.

i've come across a decent number of female leos dating libra males, but i've never seen it work out. libras need a lot of attention. they need to feel it focused on them. leos can't help but have this strong energy that they just give out (like the sun), but they shine it everywhere, not just at the one person. so they don't make libras feel special. you can only win over a libra by making them feel special. even as friends. i've had lots of leo acquaintances, but never any close leo friends. even though i liked them, i just never felt like i was special to them. like we'd go out and it'd be the leo show. like i was just another sidekick, interchangeable. i'd have fun with them, sure, but i never felt very inspired to see them more. plus, when a leo really likes you, you start to see the dark side. the not so fun side that isn't all that fun and actually has problems. like, they want you to be there for them in a special way, but they won't do the same. and that's soooooo draining for a libra.

my mom is a leo. she's one of the nicest people, and i think she's a great person, but she never felt like a mom. i'm glad we can get along as friends now that i'm old enough for that. because we could never get along as family.

i feel that my leo moon/ascendent and libra sun are actually very complimentary. they represent many similar things. like libras seem reserved and even a bit snobby, but when we smile we can just light up a room. and the leo ascendent has similar qualities. how i feel about myself at any given moment can have too much to do with how people treat me, which can be too dependent on the impression i give off, which isn't always accurate. and that can apply to both the libra sun and the moon/ascendent conjunct. there's a bunch of other similarities. i can think of other moon and ascendents that i'd like to have, but i think the leo ones are a

I've had two libras, I'm a leo woman and have taken that "backseat" and left the spotlight attention to the libra and put myself aside from the attention that leo's look and for me I lost myself. Leo's are so crazy loyal and would drop the world for someone that they love and I did that and it ruined me. I didn't grow. I still LOVE libras as I have such great connections and chemistry with them but I'm off to find the right one. its getting better since the second one almost was there.