Uughhh I'm confused

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Went out to a lounge to meet a female friend
-Sat next to her and next to me was this Libra
-My female friend and I were conversing
-Libra kindly found his way into the conversation
-I asked him his name after a while and introduced him to my female friend being friendly
-later through the night him and I danced, him and her danced
-we all got drunk
-he made it clear he was interested in me I got his number
-we went on 2 dates
-second date he was turned off and I didn't realize it until I called him and he apologized for deleting my number. He was turned off by the fact I said I didn't see anything wrong with his ex giving him financial advice
.... Fast forward...
- we've gone on a plenty of dates
-he gets drunk and says abusive things when I tell him I don't want to hang out. I have to work or tired from work
-calls or texts to apologize after
Oh when he sends abusive stuff I copy and paste and send it back to him

Thoughts?
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I do not see anything wrong with an ex giving financial advice. If she was attempting at a reconciliation, then you would have a problem. But I highly doubt that was the issue, especially after just a second date.


I don't believe the problem here is astrological. The Libra has a substance abuse problem. This man clearly needs to attend an AA meeting.

You can't fix this problem.
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Posted by TaurusBull1977
I do not see anything wrong with an ex giving financial advice. If she was attempting at a reconciliation, then you would have a problem. But I highly doubt that was the issue, especially after just a second date.


I don't believe the problem here is astrological. The Libra has a substance abuse problem. This man clearly needs to attend an AA meeting.

You can't fix this problem.
Dahg. I agree and that's what I told him too. I was just trying to see other perspectives don't want to go around telling people they have an issue of willy nilly.
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Posted by DollyLuxe
He doesn't know what he wants. Sorry but he's a typical Libra male. Flaky
Yeah pretty much. But I hate to put everyone in a box. Libra males with this behavior should be in that box?
Is there a rush? Or can you give him time and space to process everything? Have you communicated what you do or don't want? Otherwise just go with the flow and let it take it's course.
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There is no rush what so ever just curiosity about these behavior traits.
Get mad
Blow up
Apologize