@Capricorn2015
10 Years
Do Libras Give Second Chances?
Do Libras Usually Give Second Chances in Relationships
Libras value harmony and fairness and often seek to resolve conflicts. They may give second chances if they feel it is justified and if reconciliation aligns with their sense of balance. However, their willingness depends on the situation and the other person's actions. Clear communication and understanding their feelings are key to knowing if a Libra will reconsider.
He never responded to the text I sent today. If he is done why won't he just tell me instead of ignoring me?
@K_1018 how long does it take to give someone another chance and stop ignoring them?
@k_1018 yea we got into a huge argument 3 weeks ago and a few days after that he said he needed a break/ space. By the second week I spoke to him and he said we were still together and he was still interested in me (even tho he was ignoring me prior to that convo) then last week on Wednesday (week 3) I apologized for the argument and he said he wasn't mad about it anymore and he said we are still together and nothing has changed but he has ignored me since then. I messaged him today saying I guess him ignoring me is his way of ending things and I'll just take the hint. He still ignored me.
@TheLibraMudra I sent the "ill take the hint" text message today.
@topes I apologized on 3 different occasions: via text message, on the phone and in person. Does this silent treatment mean he is done with me?
@topes I feel so bad 😢 if I back up and stop contacting him will he eventually give me another chance?
Thank you ”
Fuck that trick ass bitch. Lol, girl I would dismiss him so fast.
@DollyLuxe It's been 3 weeks since the joke thing took place. He has been hitting me up then ignoring me then hitting me up again then ignoring me. I'm tired of it. Then he texted me super early this morning saying "are you awake" I never texted back
@tiziani I totally love this man and I am l definitely trying to put in the effort to make it work which is why I'm on this site asking for help. At the same time I can't be the only one tryin to make it work. It's been 3 weeks already. But he is still on and off ignoring me during this 3 week period
@libraqueen honestly I was chasing after him until this past Friday. Now I'm so fed up I'm just like if he wants to communicate then he needs to pick up the phone cuz I'm tired of the mind games
@LuckyLibra979 will he ever tell me his decision or should I just take the hint? Within these past 3 weeks when he would pop back up he would say we are still together then go back to disappearing again. This morning was the first text he sent me since Friday! I didn't respond tho. If his mind is made will he ever come back or is he gone for good?
@librawoman7 I'm so fed up I'm to the point where I'm like eff it! I apologized, tried to talk things out, etc. he is being so stubborn and sending mix signals. Saying one thing then acting another way
@tizani I met with him twice in person, 2 days after it happened and then again the following week. Both times I apologized and asked if we can work it out. I just hate that he continues to treat me this way over something that happened 3 weeks ago. If he is done then why won't he just tell me instead of saying we are still together but yet he goes and ignores me
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Btw, this is what I was referring to in your last thread. You are now seeing the real dude you thought you had a thing with. He's just a douche. I mean really, telling you that you're still together, yet ignoring you. I'm sorry, life doesn't work that way. You can't just string someone along like that and have them around for whenever you just feel like coming around because your fantasy bubble burst.
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Typically yes, unless they have a water moon. But even then if you try hard to make up with them normally they will accept and forgive you.
If they do have a water moon It will be impossible to get on their good side until they mentally chill out about it.
Posted by rockyroadicecream
What if your the type that wants to give silent treatment, but can't because the idea of unsettled business in the back of your head makes you feel crazy?
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Posted by rockyroadicecream
like this.
it doesn't sound like you are done.
Posted by sagiluv
You're doing it all wrong Hun! Don't put too much pressure on him, don't look to fight with him. Just let him go right now, completely. No more messages, don't look for him. If he misses you and loves you he will come back on his own, if he's done you'll never hear from him again....People in general need space to think things through, give him that....
Please shut up.
He's obviously stringing her along. Nobody who is "with" someone sits there and ignores them this much. That is not being "with" anyone. It's keeping them around as an option until something else comes along. Libras will shrivel up and die without a relationship so many are guilty of keeping someone around until they find someone else to hop on to.
This is what this guy is doing. Regardless of argument, his treatment of her is unacceptable and she needs to seriously consider walking away. If this is how he treats her over one argument, I can only imaging how much shittier he'll treat her over more serious life issues.
She should be running away, not toward. Her own self esteem is clearly piss poor if she's willing to tolerate and chase after someone treating her this way.
An argument may lead to distancing for a few hours or a day or two. Not three weeks. He's just fucking around with her head at this rate.
Do women on DXP a favor and stop enabling shitty behavior. Just because you love to be some pathetic fuck doormat and treated badly does NOT give you the right to go around telling women to do the same. Fuck off with that garbage. How dare you.
Posted by rockyroadicecream
What if your the type that wants to give silent treatment, but can't because the idea of unsettled business in the back of your head makes you feel crazy?
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You obviously missed the point of why this was posted.
Posted by sagiluv
Respect earns respect! @rockyroadicecream #simple
Which you have none, honey.
You can sit here and spout off about how much I "don't know" but you're the one who kept hopping on the dick of a guy who was using you for sex and then you cry here about how he doesn't want to be just friends with you.
But continue on in your vast knowledge and understanding of men. You clearly know what you're doing. *cough*
Thank y'all again for your comments. I'm just goin to focus on moving on because he is probably just playing mind games at this point. Why say one thing then do another. Now if he wants me back he needs to show actions that he is done being childish
Also, I didn't mean to cause a disagreement between some of y'all
I am very Libra. Silent treatment means the end. Especially if we have been fighting. We don't like fighting. And if we don't see it getting better, we being to distance ourselves. However, we don't just cut you off usually because you are a nice person, and we don't want to hurt your feelings. So we stay in the Yes/No phase for a couple of months until we finally cut our losses and move on.
Posted by Capricorn2015
Also, I didn't mean to cause a disagreement between some of y'all
DW about it. I have a problem with the "beaten wives" of this website trying to encourage other women to stay in similar, miserable situations like they are. It's not helpful to the person seeking advice.
Point still stands is at this point, you need to do what's best for you and your emotional well being, since it's obvious this guy gives no fucks about it. You can only do what's best for you in this situation at this time. It's clear he doesn't give a shit and is only thinking of himself. Selfish people say the shit he's said.
"We're still together" *keeps self distant and barely keeps in touch* SERIOUSLY? And YOU'RE the one hoping for a "second chance" here? Fucking seriously? He's emotionally abusing you and you're hoping for a second chance?? Come on now.
Actions. Actions speak louder than words. Selfish people string along others like this Libra is doing to you.
Posted by Capricorn2015
My libra has been ignoring me on and off the past 2-3 weeks. The last time I spoke to him was on Wednesday and he told me he still feels the same about me and that we are still together. Yet, he hasn't spoke to me at all since then except to respond to a text when I asked was he messing with someone else. I texted him today sayin I guess I'll take the hint he is done with me since he has been ignoring me on and off the past 2-3 weeks and has been distant. My question is, even if I give him space now will I ever get another chance or is his mind made up forever?
Don't waste your time, he sure is shit isn't.
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My libra has been ignoring me on and off the past 2-3 weeks. The last time I spoke to him was on Wednesday and he told me he still feels the same about me and that we are still together. Yet, he hasn't spoke to me at all since then except to respond to a text when I asked was he messing with someone else. I texted him today sayin I guess I'll take the hint he is done with me since he has been ignoring me on and off the past 2-3 weeks and has been distant. My question is, even if I give him space now will I ever get another chance or is his mind made up forever?