Victim of Libra charm/web/spell?

Any ladies out there who are victims of Libra charms, webs, lies, never ending stories with them? Well I recently got out of one so I must share it with you! So you can all go and stop wasting this time with these guys! They are never going to make up their minds, neither stop talking to Betty the ex gf, neither they will give you an answer to anything! Don't expect to get answers for them, they honestly don't know them themselves!
Anyways So what should you do? Go and find a Sagittarius man! They are the only ones who will break the spell, I tried with an (Aries,Gemini,Aqua) but none of them have the magic that a Sag has to help you get over this charmers. Good luck ladies!

I will share a bit of my Libra story and my conclusions on them.

I had a hard time getting over the break up with Libra(he cheated). We broke up 7 months ago after a 1 1/2 relationship). A couple of months after the break up we did not have any contact, however he managed to persuade me to talk to him again because I felt he was truly sorry and he had learned his lesson.

We never got back together though, I wanted him to prove me that he had changed before jumping back on the boat. I had some hope on him despite the fact that he was being a dick most of the time and turning hot&cold every week. I think what helped him was his prince charming behavior, his "damsel in distress" attitude and his promises, all of those always managed to make me feel bad for him and see the good in him, so I kept talking to him and comforting him whenever he needed it (not when I did, I gotta point it out! When I needed him he was "busy").
We acted like a couple every time we saw each other and he kept telling me how in the future we will get married, be happy, etc...
However! One day I found out he was still talking to the girl he cheated me with! He actually confessed it to me and told me he was feeling very depressed because "Betty" was having some issues. So..

So I told him that despite the fact that I was in love with him, as long as she was in his life I will not be in his (This girl knew I was his gf when he cheated).So he broke all my hope of even considering getting back together with him when he told me that he was sorry but he didn't know how long this girl was going to stay in his life (because it's his dad's gf daughter) but he seriously didn't see anything wrong in why we couldn't be friends! He also told me that I was making him feel bad because whenever he talked about the future with me he was just doing it just to get my opinion but not to give me false hope! (I didn't know telling someone you will get married is not giving false hope lol but anyways...)

So I stopped talking to him and him agreeing on leaving me alone, only to have him a week later texting me and calling me like crazy just to say hi or to tell me how much he needed me and how depressed he was, or how his life sucked. However I finally had the guts to block his number, email and everything when I heard an old Sagittarius buddy and flame was going to be in town! And it worked, Sagittarius broke my spell and I couldn't be happier, he was starting to become emotionally and physically draining.

My conclusion(I don't know if all Libra's are like that but from the ones I've dealt with): They do their best to manipulate you unconsciously, to make them stay near them (not with them) and to always have you as a backup, just in case something goes wrong they have a security blanket to fall into. They make you think they are good deep inside them and all the wrong things they do in their lives is only because they cannot find balance and nothing is their fault btw! They make themselves the victim all the time. They make you believe they will be always there for you if you ever need something just so you don't run away and so you see how good and caring they are when in reality they only do it for themselves, they say they do everything to please others however in reality it's only to please themselves.
Well that's it!

@ silentdoll

I strongly agree with your conclusion! My experience with this sign has been the same. They need a security blanket to fall into, and the ex gfs are going to remain constant in their life unless you, as the ex-gf, ditch him. Don't ever associate with a cheater. The best punishment or lesson for them is to withdraw from them. Staying with a cheater just shows him that it's ok for him to treat you like a doormat.

Agree % 100 with your conclusion!!! I can't speak for all Libra's but sounds like mine.

I've been back and forth with him for months now and trying to break free for good but everytime I start to get over him he says and does all the right things just enough to think he's finally ready to commit and then he starts with his "I'm confused" routine again.

I also found out his ex was still around a few months ago. Turned out to be nothing but she was still around when I thought he didn't have anything to do with her anymore. I know he doesn't want to be with her but of course he is probably keeping her around as a safety net and trying to do the same with me.

I changed my number and have done pretty good with ignoring him as much as I can but every few weeks as soon as I start to forget him he comes back and starts the whole process again..

I do agree that they only act so caring and like they are there for you for themselves.. It's obvious that even if he doesn't want to be with me he still wants to make sure that he keeps me wanting him and keeps around just in case he decides he does.. Seems like he just keeps coming back just to make sure that I haven't forgot him yet and still care.

It's just crazy how someone can seem so honest and caring and sincere and at the same time keep hurting you because they are so selfish. Somehow I always end up feeling like I am the one being a bitch and coming back because he is so good at playing the victim..

I can't complain anymore at this point though it's my fault for allowing him to remain in my life. I know I'm the only one who can put a stop to this for good.

Posted by luvlylady2010
Agree % 100 with your conclusion!!! I can't speak for all Libra's but sounds like mine.

I changed my number and have done pretty good with ignoring him as much as I can but every few weeks as soon as I start to forget him he comes back and starts the whole process again..

I do agree that they only act so caring and like they are there for you for themselves.. It's obvious that even if he doesn't want to be with me he still wants to make sure that he keeps me wanting him and keeps around just in case he decides he does.. Seems like he just keeps coming back just to make sure that I haven't forgot him yet and still care.

It's just crazy how someone can seem so honest and caring and sincere and at the same time keep hurting you because they are so selfish. Somehow I always end up feeling like I am the one being a bitch and coming back because he is so good at playing the victim..

I can't complain anymore at this point though it's my fault for allowing him to remain in my life. I know I'm the only one who can put a stop to this for good.

I like that you accept responsibility because after all it is you who is allowing him to play with your emotions while he fulfills his need for a security blanket. Now all you have to do is kick that loser to the curb. He doesn't deserve even that 1 min of attention that you give him when he calls you to keep you hooked on him. What I'm seeing is that he gets what he wants for his selfishness. He gets to string two girls along and he doesn't even need to worry about neither of the girls leaving him. Bottom line is that he's selfish but he's good in what he does

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Posted by luvlylady2010
Agree % 100 with your conclusion!!! I can't speak for all Libra's but sounds like mine.

I changed my number and have done pretty good with ignoring him as much as I can but every few weeks as soon as I start to forget him he comes back and starts the whole process again..

I do agree that they only act so caring and like they are there for you for themselves.. It's obvious that even if he doesn't want to be with me he still wants to make sure that he keeps me wanting him and keeps around just in case he decides he does.. Seems like he just keeps coming back just to make sure that I haven't forgot him yet and still care.

It's just crazy how someone can seem so honest and caring and sincere and at the same time keep hurting you because they are so selfish. Somehow I always end up feeling like I am the one being a bitch and coming back because he is so good at playing the victim..

I can't complain anymore at this point though it's my fault for allowing him to remain in my life. I know I'm the only one who can put a stop to this for good.

I like that you accept responsibility because after all it is you who is allowing him to play with your emotions while he fulfills his need for a security blanket. Now all you have to do is kick that loser to the curb. He doesn't deserve even that 1 min of attention that you give him when he calls you to keep you hooked on him. What I'm seeing is that he gets what he wants for his selfishness. He gets to string two girls along and he doesn't even need to worry about neither of the girls leaving him. Bottom line is that he's selfish but he's good in what he does

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Oh girl I know.. I'm not letting him string me along. I'm moving on and I changed my number and I've only given in to a few FB messages and as soon as I see he hasn't changed I cut him off again.. I just know that I have to be strong and cut off all contact FOR GOOD and let him know that I am not one of his options anymore.. I'm sure that as soon as I respond he gets more and more confident thinking I will always be there for him. I know what I have to do I just have to stick with it..

Posted by luvlylady2010
Agree % 100 with your conclusion!!! I can't speak for all Libra's but sounds like mine.

I've been back and forth with him for months now and trying to break free for good but everytime I start to get over him he says and does all the right things just enough to think he's finally ready to commit and then he starts with his "I'm confused" routine again.

I also found out his ex was still around a few months ago. Turned out to be nothing but she was still around when I thought he didn't have anything to do with her anymore. I know he doesn't want to be with her but of course he is probably keeping her around as a safety net and trying to do the same with me.

I changed my number and have done pretty good with ignoring him as much as I can but every few weeks as soon as I start to forget him he comes back and starts the whole process again..

I do agree that they only act so caring and like they are there for you for themselves.. It's obvious that even if he doesn't want to be with me he still wants to make sure that he keeps me wanting him and keeps around just in case he decides he does.. Seems like he just keeps coming back just to make sure that I haven't forgot him yet and still care.

It's just crazy how someone can seem so honest and caring and sincere and at the same time keep hurting you because they are so selfish. Somehow I always end up feeling like I am the one being a bitch and coming back because he is so good at playing the victim..

I can't complain anymore at this point though it's my fault for allowing him to remain in my life. I know I'm the only one who can put a stop to this for good.

I understand you, I was in that same boat a couple of weeks ago, it's just so hard to break free from them. I tried so hard to block him and to tell myself that I was not going to speak to him anymore but the minute he called me crying or I felt like I needed to talk to someone I would run back to him, then he will tell me what I wanted to hear, he will act caring and loving for a couple of days then cold again, we will fight, make up and it kept going like that... it was just a vicious cycle.
Honestly if I haven't had met that Sag guy I would probably still be talking to him but thanks god I haven't and I am not even thinking about it. Even if my Sag guy is gone now(he was only here on a business trip) he made me rea

he made me realize that there's still a lot of good fishes in the ocean and he made me realize how much of a douche this libra is, someone who claims to love you so badly (like they do) should show it (and not only once in a while) and make you believe it instead of just saying it(and repeating it over and over) and not doing anything about it (like they do).

My advice to you is try your hardest to break free from him meaning break communication 100% , think that he is doing this for him, not for you. Then you will see that after a couple of weeks you won't feel anything for him anymore and you will be less stressed and more relaxed! You don't need someone like that in your life 😉.

Posted by silentdoll9
he made me realize that there's still a lot of good fishes in the ocean and he made me realize how much of a douche this libra is, someone who claims to love you so badly (like they do) should show it (and not only once in a while) and make you believe it instead of just saying it(and repeating it over and over) and not doing anything about it (like they do).

My advice to you is try your hardest to break free from him meaning break communication 100% , think that he is doing this for him, not for you. Then you will see that after a couple of weeks you won't feel anything for him anymore and you will be less stressed and more relaxed! You don't need someone like that in your life 😉.

^^^Indeed!! You will be less stressed and more relaxed afterwards to find someone worthy of your affection. Good luck to you ladyluv2010 from cutting down all ties with this douchebag.