what does a libra man want?

ive always been there for him, helped him through all his tough times. we were seeing eachother but then it stopped and he went out with some other girl. he split up with her so has been talking to me again. we meet up and he was kissing my hand

what i want to know is.. does this mean im just something to flirt with when hes bored or is he genuinely interested?

Posted by ginger09
ive always been there for him, helped him through all his tough times. we were seeing eachother but then it stopped and he went out with some other girl. he split up with her so has been talking to me again. we meet up and he was kissing my hand

what i want to know is.. does this mean im just something to flirt with when hes bored or is he genuinely interested?

He could be coming back to you because you were always there for him and he misses that.
Or he could also be coming back to you to occupy himself in the meantime before he weasels his way back into the exes good graces...


I would be careful, don't let him let you down.

Make a stand and make him work for you if he wants you, that's the only way you are going to know what he wants. Stop being a doormat to him!

It could be that he doesn't know yet what/ who he wants.... A Libra's scale has to be balanced in order for their life to be harmonious. Sometimes they can't make up their mind, and maybe he's back with you because he missed you supporting him. But sweetie let me tell you one thing, doesn't matter how much you like him or care about him, don't give into his needs, because if he decides that he doesn't want you at all, he'll just leave you out cold, he won't even feel remorse.... So guard your feelings, don't worry about his. He's a guy, guys can handle pain WAY better than women. Worry about yourself not him, because you know you want him, but he doesn't know what HE wants, so protect yourself from being hurt.

libra males have problems when they first commit to any relationship, its not that there is anyone else in competition with you in fact he wants you, but he likes to be pursued a little by you just to reassure him that his interest in you is not unwanted he will not make a nuisance of him self for too long if he does not think you are interested. having said that don't forget he is a flirt but it doesn't mean he is perusing you because he flirts with you. conversation is the winner of the day. its not really his trait to step on other peoples shoes but if your present relationship is breaking up he will not do anything until he is sure that it is over, no one wants to be a rebound. he likes women and will not be offish to any women unless she is to him for some period of time, if you are aloof and think that making him jealous is the key to getting him don't over do it he will not commit he will think you putting him off and will loose him in blink of an eye, seems to me that he got burned by this other women he sees you as possibly as a friend now but it could also be that he regrets splitting with you. you could find this out by posing the question, this is difficult for you but unless you tell him what you want then he will adjust if you want him back he might need that reassurance that you want him. it is also possible he started to feel that he had become a burden to you with his problems and thats the reason he went with her, he needs a good kick in the butt to pull him self together but you have do it in a tactful way, don't forget he's sensitive. in all honesty he would not come to you if there was no feelings for you. i think he proberly has the greatest respect for you witch is 99% the way he loves. sorry i think waffled to much now all the best paul.

Sorry ginger09 for doing this on your topic, but Paul(Libra male) I was going to ask for your opinion on a Libra male (My husband). The whole story is here.... http://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/messages.asp?id=1644431

Unless he said clearly that he broke up with this other girl because he wants to be with you and he was an idiot to turn you away romantically than he probably just figures that your caring and support means that he can be opportunistic with you.

Most likely he is confused. He is taking your actions the wrong way, he isn't sure if your such a good friend because you are in love with him or you are an awesome person who would do this for anyone you felt needed your support. If it is the latter he is probably taking it the wrong way thinking it is all about him and missing the point in seeing it's not.

He has probably been trying to figure out this whole time if he is in love with you or if he wants to be with you, the ugly truth is that it's possible he is trying to convince himself that he should have these feelings with you because of how well you have taken care of him.

Just tell him that his behavior confuses you and you can't read what is going on with him. Then just let him talk because he probably will. Bringing it up as a statement takes away the pressure and gives him the feeling that he is informing you rather than answering to you and you will get everything you need.