100% LEO LADY HERE....I WANT TO THANK U LIBRAS FOR THE ADVICE ON LIBRAS....SO NOW MY LIBRA MAN IS SHOWING A BIT MORE PUBLIC AFFECTION.....HE'S INITIATING THE BEDROOM SEX....AND I'M LOVING IT....SO HERE'S WHAT'S HAPPENING NOW AND CONFUSING ME... 1) MY LIBRA IS VERY QUIET....WON'T TALK MUCH....BUT I WON'T LET IT GET TO ME...JUST GOT USE TO IT..I'VE LEARNED TO BE ALOOF ABOUT IT JUST LIKE HE IS...BUT WHY? WHY MUST IT BE QUIET ALL THE TIME.
2) HE DOES ALL THE COOKING...HE PAYS FOR ALL OUR DINNERS...HE REFUSES TO ALLOW ME TO PAY FOR ANYTHING WHICH IS SOMETHING AN INDEPENDENT LEO IS NOT USE TO....I WON'T COOK FOR HIM CAUSE I SUCK....SO THE OTHER NIGHT I ORDERED PIZZA AND TOOK IT TO HIS APARTMENT...WE ATE...AND HE GOT SICK....DID I FEEL LIKE CRAP....WHAT ELSE CAN I DO TO SHOW HIM I APPRECIATE ALL HE DOES FOR ME.....WHAT CAN I BUY HIM OR HOW CAN I EXPRESS GRATITUDE?
3) MY LIBRA MAN LOVES THE OUTDOORS...SO DO I BUT ONCE IN AWHILE I LIKE TO GO TO THE MOVIES....OR SHOPPING....BUT HE DISAGREES SAYS IT'S A WASTE OF TIME INDOORS...I'M WILLING TO DO ANYTHING HE LIKES OUTDOORS WHY WON'T MY LIBRA MAN BUDGE?
4)WHEN MY LIBRA MAN IS WITH HIS FRIENDS...HE SHOWS PUBLIC AFFECTION, SHOWS POSSESIVENESS....HE TELLS HIS FRIENDS, "HANDS OFF" DON'T TOUCH HER...PLAYFULLY OF COURSE BUT HE'S SERIOUS...HE DOESN'T WANT THEM ANYWHERE NEAR ME...BUT WHEN WE'RE BY OURSELVES....HE'S COMPLETELY THE OPPOSITE....WON'T HUG ME...TOUCH ME....WONT' TALK MUCH...WHY?
5) AND FINALLY, LEOS LOVE COMPLIMENTS....I ALWAYS COMPLIMENT HIM IN ANYTHING HE DOES OR HOW HE LOOKS....BUT HE NEVER RETURNS ONE SINGLE COMPLIMENT....HE'LL LOOK AT ME UP AND DOWN....HE'LL SMILE AT ME...BUT NEVER RETURNS OR OFFERS A COMPLIMENT...I CAN HANDLE IT BUT IT'S DRIVING ME NUTS....WHY LIBRAS WHY—?
All will come in time.. You are in a good place with him, so my advice would be to ask him. Seems like you guys are in a real relationship. So, it is OK to ask these questions, nicely.
1) he is either listening with resepct or afraid to say something stupid.
2) just say thank-you with a grateful heart. compliment everything about the meal, the location, etc.
3) because he is a guy. men generally want there way. just say no to what you don't want to do, yes to what you do want to do. don't allow yourself to become resentful. If you want to go to a movie and he wants to go hiking, say no thanks and go to the movie.
4) not sure. he is showing ownership of you. not sure about what is going on in private. does he have a low libido? maybe he sees you as a status symbol not a real person? (complete guesses)
5) I don't know. I compliment people all the time. I think people should compliment each other more, even strangers, just tell everyone how wonderful they are. If everyone did this, think how happy the world would be.
Ask yourself if you really care about these little things. I don't believe people should nitpick a relationship to death. choose the stuff that REALLY matters and that you can't live with, just accept the rest.
Everyone wants to be accepted for who they are. If you criticise everything about someone, you destroy their confidence and love, one comment at a time.
Welcome to a Libra relationship. For the time you've spent with him, that's about as good as it gets---so far. Hang in there. Hang in there for a long time. Enjoy. See what happens. And a gentle reminder, please try to type your e-mails without all CAPS---in cyberspace it's considered yelling---unless, of course, you meant to do that! Ha!
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To sum up history -- Leo female here met Mr. Scorpio 13 months ago. At different single stages respectively - my having been divorced from a 12 yr marriage for 6 years, and his in the midst o
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1) MY LIBRA IS VERY QUIET....WON'T TALK MUCH....BUT I WON'T LET IT GET TO ME...JUST GOT USE TO IT..I'VE LEARNED TO BE ALOOF ABOUT IT JUST LIKE HE IS...BUT WHY? WHY MUST IT BE QUIET ALL THE TIME.
2) HE DOES ALL THE COOKING...HE PAYS FOR ALL OUR DINNERS...HE REFUSES TO ALLOW ME TO PAY FOR ANYTHING WHICH IS SOMETHING AN INDEPENDENT LEO IS NOT USE TO....I WON'T COOK FOR HIM CAUSE I SUCK....SO THE OTHER NIGHT I ORDERED PIZZA AND TOOK IT TO HIS APARTMENT...WE ATE...AND HE GOT SICK....DID I FEEL LIKE CRAP....WHAT ELSE CAN I DO TO SHOW HIM I APPRECIATE ALL HE DOES FOR ME.....WHAT CAN I BUY HIM OR HOW CAN I EXPRESS GRATITUDE?
3) MY LIBRA MAN LOVES THE OUTDOORS...SO DO I BUT ONCE IN AWHILE I LIKE TO GO TO THE MOVIES....OR SHOPPING....BUT HE DISAGREES SAYS IT'S A WASTE OF TIME INDOORS...I'M WILLING TO DO ANYTHING HE LIKES OUTDOORS WHY WON'T MY LIBRA MAN BUDGE?
4)WHEN MY LIBRA MAN IS WITH HIS FRIENDS...HE SHOWS PUBLIC AFFECTION, SHOWS POSSESIVENESS....HE TELLS HIS FRIENDS, "HANDS OFF" DON'T TOUCH HER...PLAYFULLY OF COURSE BUT HE'S SERIOUS...HE DOESN'T WANT THEM ANYWHERE NEAR ME...BUT WHEN WE'RE BY OURSELVES....HE'S COMPLETELY THE OPPOSITE....WON'T HUG ME...TOUCH ME....WONT' TALK MUCH...WHY?
5) AND FINALLY, LEOS LOVE COMPLIMENTS....I ALWAYS COMPLIMENT HIM IN ANYTHING HE DOES OR HOW HE LOOKS....BUT HE NEVER RETURNS ONE SINGLE COMPLIMENT....HE'LL LOOK AT ME UP AND DOWN....HE'LL SMILE AT ME...BUT NEVER RETURNS OR OFFERS A COMPLIMENT...I CAN HANDLE IT BUT IT'S DRIVING ME NUTS....WHY LIBRAS WHY—?
ADVICE PLEASE