what is the deal—?

I am a Capricorn and I have a very jealous nature. Im dating a Libra/Scorpio who also has a jealous nature! It doesnt really bother him how I am, and he doesnt really bother me with the whole jealous thing, but.... It bothers me that I am that way.... Okay so we dated other people before we met, which shouldn't bother me. However, it really does in fact get to me. Also... Ive met so many of the girls he used to date. Hes met 2 people that I used to date. He met them before we started dating, Ive met most of these girls while we're dating. Or if I didnt meet them they were all hanging around where we were at. Hes "faithful" I guess.. I havent caught him doing anything really, except... He left his email open on his computer one day and of course I was snoopin and I deserve what I get when I snoop. But OMG sooooo many emails from females on his myspace trying to get back in his life!!!!! Hes ignoring them to the best of knowledge, but I guess whats bothering me is that no one I used to date is constantly trying to get back in my life. Like I did a better job of getting rid of the guys that used to be in my life then he is at getting these girls out..Its been a year of us being together, so why is anyone writing him at all—

i am a libra/scorp. we are faithful as long as we feel wanted, that you are devoted to us, stand by us through thick and thin... if not, we look elsewhere.

i am surprised he is still friends with ex's. we seldom stay friends with our ex's. all or nothing but we do love the attention we get from ex's trying to rekindle things. it is an ego boost. nothing more.

Yeah it's an ego thing. I know everyone wants them. It sucks.😢

Everyone does want him 😢 darnnnn it. He isnt friends with them they keep trying to be friends with him.

Mine stayed friends with his last ex for quite awhile. Lots of drama in their relationship and he didnt want to offend her or set her off. Even tho she got on his nerves. Tho only through email as he wouldnt return her calls or meet up with her. I know her and committed Libras aren't cheaters in my experience.

He does have a lot of girls from his past that seem to try to reconnect w/ him from time to time. They are just naturally so charasmatic it is hard to keep away I suppose!

If your looking through his email you don't truly trust him and if their are no signs that he's cheating your the one with the problem. I can't imagine he would have you meet these women if he was sleeping with them, if anything that would be the last thing he would do! So don't be blind but try to trust him a little more and your relationship will grow deeper. This site can make you paranoid too but their are so great Libra men out there!

"I know her and committed Libras aren't cheaters in my experience."
i have to agree/disagree with that

1) an ex, not a cheater during our times together and i know that for a fact despite having doubts..

2) a friend, married to a capricorn for almost 20 years but cheated half way through marriage until today.. good thing about him is that he said he will never leave his wife despite the playing around..