PARANOID!

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by fragm3nt3d_mind on Monday, October 20, 2008 and has 13 replies.

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@fragm3nt3d_mind
17 Years

So, im in love with this really sweet and cool scorp...the thing is no matter what i do...he keeps thinking that im playing with him...

how do i prove to him that im for real—?

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@cappysweetie
20 Years10,000+ Posts

You can't make him belief that you are real, he has to come to terms with that himself.

My ex-Scorp boyfriend was like that -- I was always a liar but some how he had trust in me wtf ——? But that was a relationship that shouldn't have started. It was too crazy lol

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@P-Angel
21 Years25,000+ PostsPisces

"how do i prove to him that im for real—?"

By not trying to prove it, and just being real.

When a person has to prove something, then they become false to themselves, because thier aim is to make an impression upon another for approval of themselves.

To be real means .... no approval seeking from another.

Just be >>>> real.

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@someonespecial
18 Years

oh yeah, we do that a lot, promse not to go crazy again then do it again anyway. Maybe just try the calm route and just don't even play into it or respond to it. Just ignore it or change the subject when he brings it up....don't let him get you all worked up about it.

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@Mystic Dreamer
18 Years500+ PostsGemini

Dating the Scorpio man

If you want to win over a Scorpio man, you will have to stir his primary instincts first. When you feel very attractive, look him straight in the eye and smile mysteriously. Ask him out but leave him tactfully and unexpectedly after an hour. Make sure your next date is a late dinner at your place or his. This time enslave him sexually and emotionally at the candle light.

If you want to keep a Scorpio man, always take him seriously, flatter and praise him, but only as much as to make him feel safe. Ask for his advice and admire his competence. Leave modesty and shyness aside, put on tight clothes and wear expensive perfumes.

Don't flirt with other men, the Scorpio man is extremely possessive and his jealousy is well known. Don't make him suspicious in any way because he will not hesitate to search your purse when you are not around. Assure the Scorpio man of your love and faithfulness, but don't let him dominate you. Fight calmly and firmly to gain his respect and to benefit from an equal position in the couple.

If you succeed, you will enjoy an exceptional relationship: profound, fascinating and lasting.

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@someonespecial
18 Years

seriosly, just don't play that game with him. Nicely tell him you're sorry HE feels that way and change the subject. You're a TAURUS you're stubborn! Tell him you're not going to talk about it any more and then don't. He's got to work it out in his own head. There's probably little else that you can say or do if you really are being sincere with him.