will he be back, or is he gone for good?

He'll be back in time......

"believe me, in any woamn's lifetime, if she has encountered a libra once on a relationship level, she will encounter him again. Once he can sit down and think about how wrong he is, he will be back he was acting out of confusion and now he is just trying to balance those famous scales."

What if he's got many exes - which of the ladies will he choose?

he will be back even if u run him over with a truck.

...again and again and again.

lol

I just had to ask this: What if its a bit too late, like she's married to someone else, or too hurt to go back to him? Will he remain a bachelor? haha..

But you do have a point - sounds totally libra

((What if he's got many exes - which of the ladies will he choose? ))

When I started reading this thread . I had the same thought.My ex-libra are still friends with all of his exes, except me(I cut off ties).And they all still love and care about him.

I for one think that you shouldn't wait around in the hope that he will be back eventually, because that's what Libra's do.

yep they normally come back but having said that, the more aloof you are, the more they want to come back.....

And 5 minutes after I sent that post off guess who pops back up out of nowhere? yep my Libra (after no contact from one another for 7 weeks)...I didnt allow him too much time to chat so Im not sure as to what he wanted but he KNOWS what I want and what I'll accept so why he bothers? not sure....coz Im not sure he can give what Im after....afterall it was HIM who kept saying he wasnt ready, it was HIM who said he wasnt in the right place....so what? he's ready after no communication for 7 months, then pops up out of nowhere and then we dont communicate for 7 weeks again and back he pops up again— WTF for?

Again, the more aloof? the more they want to come and find you....I dont get it.

3rd time lucky? somehow I doubt it....sorry for being negative but I kinda feel stupid for even hoping the 2nd time round, should I do it again? probably not.

would you really want him back? he might take flight, if he does come back, when things get too sticky for him again. even after marriage, the unevolved libras do this. i have a lot of friends who are married to these guys. one friend's libra husband would disappear on her with out warning. once day she went to work and come back only to find her husband has packed and went to brazil for 6 weeks with out even discussing it with her the night before. they are not even brazilian. he would do things like this to her quite often. but... when they were together, he would tell her "i love you" backed up with gifts, trips together, etc...

I'm hurt, and nervous. My libra is still ignoring me! This is hurting myself esteem cause It makes me look like a bitch! And I know I am not, but this kid needed to be told the truth and I will never think that's wrong. My best friend is dating his best friend and I'm sure he just thinks I'm a bitch! And normally I wouldn't really care, but were close connected like that so it's different. And he's friend told my friend that he has been wanting me to be his girlfriend this whole on and off period we had which was over a year. And it's like how was I suppose to know this! TELL ME. Look, like just because we sleep together I'm not gonna amuse you love me or want to be with me. I don't think like that. And I really doubt he viewed it that way. But Of course...I'M WRONG/ the bitch...yeehaaaaa!

i am having one of those days, too. just riding this out. today, i miss him badly. i don't think i would risk putting myself through this again... if he should cool off and decide to show his face. he is being unfair and his indignance is insulting. handsome men, by societal standards, have treated me way better than this. in my eyes he is handsome but he didn't believe me. at the beginning, he told me he feared rejection but needed to pursue me anyway. his humility and determination won me over. now, he is telling others he doesn't need this fear losing me to other men and doesn't feel like competing with other men to keep me. wtf does that mean?! so he is so worried about getting hurt but hurts me instead?! i am not high maintenance and i accepted him as is. i know going into his cave is part of this fken package but come on! he is being so fken selfish and self-absorbed. licking his imaginary wounds. like i said, i am just riding this out... these feelings will pass and i will be myself again.

@ashleysagstar, Thanks! Yeah, I sent him a text eailer today and I was just like..."we'll it seems like you have moved on or don't care about are realtionship anymore, and I will respect that if it's your choice because I respect you. I hope you have a good birthday cause I think it's comin up right? We'll see ya man. " I guess that's all I can do🙂

how long does it take to get over one of these guys?