okay why is this happening to me, it's not fair.

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Long story short. My "friends" are pothead losers. Go to school to pass instead of getting an education and to actually learn. They're just horrible people and negative influences. Idk why I was friends with them to begin with, guess I didn't realize my worth obviously.
Needless to say, I cut them out of my life.
But unfortunately that was like most of my circle of friends.. now I'm lonely and bored.
So one day I'm in the library and I run into someone from my class, this kid sits right next to me in class so we recognize each other and talk until our class begins.

Exchange numbers, blah blah. We remained in touch after the class ended. Began to talk a lot, fast forward 7 months, and I realize this is the most inspiring and intelligent friend that I have thus far. He is there for me, he encourages me to be a better person, he doest drink or smoke, he's genuine and insightful. And whenever I have an issue he'll stay on the phone with me for like 2 hours just talking to me about everything.

NOW THIS, he has the same fucking birthday as my tf.
LIKE WHY, I can't leave. I can't move on or away. Everytime I'm close to moving on, nope, I get pulled right back.
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Lol @ the cosmic joke.
What's the cosmic joke? Me? Haha
The shared birthday with your TF. The universe is speaking to you, what does it tell you?
Or maybe you're just desperately looking for signs?
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I don't think so. I mean it's not like they have the same haircut or something basic. It's their birthday. They were even born in the same year. My friend says similar things like my tf. He kinds acts like him too but a more stable and mature version. I appreciate your attempt at bringing me back to reality though 🙂
Idk maybe it is a coincidence or maybe it's not...time will tell
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I don't think I am looking for signs. I am trying to forget him but I honestly feel that these "signs" are just being thrown in my face. I also enjoy it because it makes me feel a sort of clarity that there is something else out there. I am a Catholic, we believe in angels. Maybe there are angels around me helping and protecting me. Who knows!

I was hoping my new friend was a Pisces or something, I llalalove Pisces
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I don't think I am looking for signs. I am trying to forget him but I honestly feel that these "signs" are just being thrown in my face. I also enjoy it because it makes me feel a sort of clarity that there is something else out there. I am a Catholic, we believe in angels. Maybe there are angels around me helping and protecting me. Who knows!

I was hoping my new friend was a Pisces or something, I llalalove Pisces
If you don't feel it's a coincidence, then it's not. The universe must be speaking to you then. Only you and your TF will know what it's saying. Spirit guides and angels will help with this.

Tbh the only reason why I entertain thoughts of my TF is because God told me to. Crazy, isn't it?

Just follow your intuition, it's your spiritual compass.
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Thank you hun, does this have anything to do with your religion or are you just strictly spiritual?
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There's lots of people who are like the guy you're describing. If you were surrounded by others who were similar, then I imagine you wouldn't have given him all this extra thought.
Also, it's quite common for people to share birthdays. Usually in a classroom, you'll have at least one pair of people who share a birthday. Usually more. Look it up on youtube or search for studies on google.
I've met many people with my own birthday, actually. Usually different years, but I have two who were born the same year, too. Nothing special about it. I'm not trying to deny the existence of coincidences or twin flames, but from an outside perspective, it appears you're being very emotional rather than logical about this situation. I think you need to find some ground to stand on. Or not. I'm just sharing my own view of this.
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What sign is ur tf.
Anywho it's good sign n a sc to help u towards a healthier lifestyle.
Leeb. Is it a good sign?
I,guess, it just sucks I'm constantly reminded of him.
Sure it does, but please don't lose a great friendship because of the person's birthday.
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Oh no definitely not! I'm saying how it's ironic that he's so positive to my life and he's an amazing friend, one of the best I ever had
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What sign is ur tf.
Anywho it's good sign n a sc to help u towards a healthier lifestyle.
Leeb. Is it a good sign?
I,guess, it just sucks I'm constantly reminded of him.
Sure it does, but please don't lose a great friendship because of the person's birthday.
Oh no definitely not! I'm saying how it's ironic that he's so positive to my life and he's an amazing friend, one of the best I ever had
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Great! I was just worried there for a while. Carry on. 🙂
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What sign is ur tf.
Anywho it's good sign n a sc to help u towards a healthier lifestyle.
Leeb. Is it a good sign?
I,guess, it just sucks I'm constantly reminded of him.
Sure it does, but please don't lose a great friendship because of the person's birthday.
Oh no definitely not! I'm saying how it's ironic that he's so positive to my life and he's an amazing friend, one of the best I ever had
Great! I was just worried there for a while. Carry on. 🙂
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hahah thanks for your concern 😄
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A soul connection That's guiding u in Positivity is always a good sign. N that it's ur tf bday even better
i honestly feel like my new friend is a god sent, my old friends were so shitty, i was SO lost, like im talking bad news... drug dealing and such. horrible people, i never participating in any of those activities but i was near it, it was a nightmare, i was in so deep i didnt know how to get out, until this kid came along and showed me the light... it was a miracle.
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Yeah.

When your heart is still set on another, its hard to not notice those coincidences.

And yeah, it sucks. It sucks a lot.
I mean that's a huge coincidence.. and yeah definitely
Want to share your story? The woman, what happened, and how long ago it occurred? Feel free to share. That's my dxp motto as " hopeful tmi nominee" ...

It is a huge coincidence. Did you continue to hang out with her and learn about her? What did you do or what will you do?
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sure i'll share, what happened with what specifically? yes, my new friend and I continue to talk frequently, if not everyday, then every other day. Yes I am continuing to learn from him, he motivates me to read more, stop smoking and drinking, and be a healthier person all around. What will I do about what?
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Yeah.

When your heart is still set on another, its hard to not notice those coincidences.

And yeah, it sucks. It sucks a lot.
I mean that's a huge coincidence.. and yeah definitely
Want to share your story? The woman, what happened, and how long ago it occurred? Feel free to share. That's my dxp motto as " hopeful tmi nominee" ...

It is a huge coincidence. Did you continue to hang out with her and learn about her? What did you do or what will you do?
sure i'll share, what happened with what specifically? yes, my new friend and I continue to talk frequently, if not everyday, then every other day. Yes I am continuing to learn from him, he motivates me to read more, stop smoking and drinking, and be a healthier person all around. What will I do about what?
You allow it. And I think you should
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Can you be more specific please.
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I don't think I am looking for signs. I am trying to forget him but I honestly feel that these "signs" are just being thrown in my face. I also enjoy it because it makes me feel a sort of clarity that there is something else out there. I am a Catholic, we believe in angels. Maybe there are angels around me helping and protecting me. Who knows!

I was hoping my new friend was a Pisces or something, I llalalove Pisces
If you don't feel it's a coincidence, then it's not. The universe must be speaking to you then. Only you and your TF will know what it's saying. Spirit guides and angels will help with this.

Tbh the only reason why I entertain thoughts of my TF is because God told me to. Crazy, isn't it?

Just follow your intuition, it's your spiritual compass.

Thank you hun, does this have anything to do with your religion or are you just strictly spiritual?
I am more so spiritual but I incorporate multiple religious doctrines that resonate with me. But love is my religion.
How about yourself?
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I am more spiritual myself and I incorporate my catholicism into my spirituality 🙂
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I don't think I am looking for signs. I am trying to forget him but I honestly feel that these "signs" are just being thrown in my face. I also enjoy it because it makes me feel a sort of clarity that there is something else out there. I am a Catholic, we believe in angels. Maybe there are angels around me helping and protecting me. Who knows!

I was hoping my new friend was a Pisces or something, I llalalove Pisces
If you don't feel it's a coincidence, then it's not. The universe must be speaking to you then. Only you and your TF will know what it's saying. Spirit guides and angels will help with this.

Tbh the only reason why I entertain thoughts of my TF is because God told me to. Crazy, isn't it?

Just follow your intuition, it's your spiritual compass.

Thank you hun, does this have anything to do with your religion or are you just strictly spiritual?
I am more so spiritual but I incorporate multiple religious doctrines that resonate with me. But love is my religion.
How about yourself?
I am more spiritual myself and I incorporate my catholicism into my spirituality 🙂
Hm. Is your family Catholic or did you choose?
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Both of my parents are. One more than the other. I love it though, especially the whole concept of angels.
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I don't think I am looking for signs. I am trying to forget him but I honestly feel that these "signs" are just being thrown in my face. I also enjoy it because it makes me feel a sort of clarity that there is something else out there. I am a Catholic, we believe in angels. Maybe there are angels around me helping and protecting me. Who knows!

I was hoping my new friend was a Pisces or something, I llalalove Pisces
If you don't feel it's a coincidence, then it's not. The universe must be speaking to you then. Only you and your TF will know what it's saying. Spirit guides and angels will help with this.

Tbh the only reason why I entertain thoughts of my TF is because God told me to. Crazy, isn't it?

Just follow your intuition, it's your spiritual compass.

Thank you hun, does this have anything to do with your religion or are you just strictly spiritual?
I am more so spiritual but I incorporate multiple religious doctrines that resonate with me. But love is my religion.
How about yourself?
I am more spiritual myself and I incorporate my catholicism into my spirituality 🙂
bas, enti surié?
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There are Catholics in syria... not a lot but they are there.
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I don't think I am looking for signs. I am trying to forget him but I honestly feel that these "signs" are just being thrown in my face. I also enjoy it because it makes me feel a sort of clarity that there is something else out there. I am a Catholic, we believe in angels. Maybe there are angels around me helping and protecting me. Who knows!

I was hoping my new friend was a Pisces or something, I llalalove Pisces
If you don't feel it's a coincidence, then it's not. The universe must be speaking to you then. Only you and your TF will know what it's saying. Spirit guides and angels will help with this.

Tbh the only reason why I entertain thoughts of my TF is because God told me to. Crazy, isn't it?

Just follow your intuition, it's your spiritual compass.

Thank you hun, does this have anything to do with your religion or are you just strictly spiritual?
I am more so spiritual but I incorporate multiple religious doctrines that resonate with me. But love is my religion.
How about yourself?
I am more spiritual myself and I incorporate my catholicism into my spirituality 🙂
Hm. Is your family Catholic or did you choose?
Both of my parents are. One more than the other. I love it though, especially the whole concept of angels.
Yeah. The spiritual echelon is quite interesting. Curious: How deep is your relationship with angels?
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Very very deep.