Psychological Vampire

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http://www.lynnkoiner.com/astrology-articles/the-psychological-vampire-astrologically-viewed<BR>
"Vampires are insidious in taking away your self-esteem. When around them, you feel tired, you feel flawed, insufficient and your self-esteem deflates. They attack your self-esteem with snide comments that serve to undermine your sense of self worth. You feel a need to shop or eat in order to replenish yourself. It is important at this point to give to yourself what the vampire seems to be offering in order not to be drawn into their web. If around these people for prolonged periods, your long-term health will be impaired!

Vampires do not like —Mirrors.?? These people are not in touch with their dark side, they lack self-reflection and, in their need to see themselves as perfect, they avoid anyone who reflects back to them their Shadow Self. They do not want any feedback about any imperfections! They do not like or seek therapy where they could have to confront their Shadow.

They are often obsessive-compulsive. They can have a Borderline Personality Disorder??_ and some can even have a schizophrenic personality disorder. In many cultures, the most effective way to escape a vampire is to scatter poppy seed, mustard seeds or rice grains between one's self and the monster. The vampire will be compelled to stop and count all of the grain, giving its intended victim sufficient time to flee the vampire or kill it.

Vampires do not know who they are. They can be narcissistic but Janet feels that not all narcissists are vampires. Anyone who is Perfect, such as —the perfect man,?? is likely to be a vampire — they have no shadow. They are perfect! They never admit stupidity or failure. They cannot see this in themselves.

Vampires go through many relationships. Once people are drained out or refuse to allow themselves to be further siphoned, then move onto another victim. Not only do they go through friendships easily but their partner often looks pale and drawn. And, when someone says, —You??re my ONLY friend?? or —I have never had any friends but you.?? Do not take this as a compliment— they are likely vampires. Get away!

It is sometimes very difficult to get rid of a vampire, as long as they feel that you have something that they want. They prefer to end the relationship, usually when they find a new victim. They do not want to be without an energy source. They cannot survive!

Vampires are known to loiter at the crossroads. Tha
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A natal Mars-Neptune aspect can make one vulnerable to vampires. This aspect describes a parent, like a vampire, who did not want you to grow up or grow away. They did this by siphoning off your energy, your initiative to move on with your own life. They talk you out of and you learn to talk yourself out of doing on your own behalf. It is essential that you activate your Mars and learn to act on your own behalf. Vampires talk you out of this, discourage you in ways that make it seem —better?? or easier not do act.

Vampires suffocate others, making people often feel that they cannot breathe. They use flattery. And, while many of us see compassion as a positive trait, the Vampire sees this as a weakness, a weakness that can benefit them in a major way.

Vampires often ask a lot of personal questions. They want to get to know you better for a reason — knowledge, to them, is power. They reveal little of the truth about themselves to others but they are always interrogating their Victim. The information they acquire will be used against you later on, to manipulate you or to tear you down. Never give the Vampire personal information. Respond to their questions with your own questions about them. Remember, the cross examination is to acquire information that will be used later on to control you. To the vampire, knowledge is power.

Since the increased use of the Internet, vampires can now attack you through chat rooms and e-Lists. They drain your energies through acquiring information and solicit your help in solving their problems??_ problems that never get solved. They are not seeking solutions, only your energy!

Remember, the Vampire is never concerned about your life, only what they can take from you. The vampire is only concerned with their personal survival."
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Some people are more susceptible than others to psychic vampires. What hints can we get from our birth charts of our tendency to attract and be attracted to the vampire? Scorpios or predatorily with Pluto aspects will smell a rat immediately when they meet a Vampire but Pisces/Neptune types, the most sensitive, will be totally vulnerable. Compassion is the main characteristic of Pisces/Neptune types. So even if they recognize the Vampire, they feel that with love and compassion they can cure them. This is a BIG MISTAKE!

What house is your Neptune in? That is where you are the most vulnerable. If its in the 7th house, you would attract Vampire types as partners. If in the 5th, it could be one of your children, or in the 4th, it could be one of the parents, or both.
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Posted by e11e
1st house Neptune....and I've experienced them before.

They are the ones who start rumours and try to make me into something I am not. 1st house = identity.

If you look at my history here on dxp....you can kind of tell the type of things I've dealt with in real life.

I can be minding my own business, spending the evening alone...on the sofa, watching tv with a cup of tea and someone will create an entire story about me that becomes bigger than life.

Most of the time, the life they make up for me is more exciting than my real life 😛



wow.

that actually sounds awesome people make up fabulous stories, while you're just sitting there watching Netflix, maybe some Disney films, with family along with a cup of tea, cookies, or fruit.

Then you're pegged as ala-Jane Bondette, secret first cousin of James Bond, working undercover.

Hell of a lot better than a boring life of cleaning dishes, making everyone's sandwiches, shopping for the freshest vegetables, inspecting for bruises on a tomato, and biking to and fro to the gym and library.

😛
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Some people are more susceptible than others to psychic vampires. What hints can we get from our birth charts of our tendency to attract and be attracted to the vampire? Scorpios or predatorily with Pluto aspects will smell a rat immediately when they meet a Vampire but Pisces/Neptune types, the most sensitive, will be totally vulnerable. Compassion is the main characteristic of Pisces/Neptune types. So even if they recognize the Vampire, they feel that with love and compassion they can cure them. This is a BIG MISTAKE!

What house is your Neptune in? That is where you are the most vulnerable. If its in the 7th house, you would attract Vampire types as partners. If in the 5th, it could be one of your children, or in the 4th, it could be one of the parents, or both.




jeeeez....re reading this about neptunian types, jeeez. love and compassion can "cure" them. ugh.

saviour mentality.

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1st house Neptune....and I've experienced them before.

They are the ones who start rumours and try to make me into something I am not. 1st house = identity.

If you look at my history here on dxp....you can kind of tell the type of things I've dealt with in real life.

I can be minding my own business, spending the evening alone...on the sofa, watching tv with a cup of tea and someone will create an entire story about me that becomes bigger than life.

Most of the time, the life they make up for me is more exciting than my real life 😛



wow.

that actually sounds awesome people make up fabulous stories, while you're just sitting there watching Netflix, maybe some Disney films, with family along with a cup of tea, cookies, or fruit.

Then you're pegged as ala-Jane Bondette, secret first cousin of James Bond, working undercover.

Hell of a lot better than a boring life of cleaning dishes, making everyone's sandwiches, shopping for the freshest vegetables, inspecting for bruises on a tomato, and biking to and fro to the gym and library.

😛
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LOL 😄
We need to ward off psychological vampires by eating lots of Red Velvet cake! 😄