Twin Flame

Hi I'm new here and was reading over some of the twin flame posts. It's amazing how so many people have the same experiences. I know for me I have questioned whether or not he is my TF because we aren't together. I get crazy signs all the time but then again what do they mean?? For instance I haven't seen him in I think its been three years. Well a mutual friend was having a party but because he lives out of state I didn't think he would be there. I started getting signs again pretty fierce so it crossed my mind that I may see him there, but I really didn't think it would happen. Well he was there and he acted so awkward toward me...he walked past me and pinched me so I turned and he smiled and kept walking so I said walked toward him and he stopped and I hugged him and we exchanged hellos...that was it. Later I attempted to go talk to him at his table but it was just awkward I stood there for a bit and then felt stupid so I turned to go and he said something but I didn't know if he was talking to me or the guys so I just kept walking. My heart aches for him so much and I just want to move on with my life and I don't want to pine for him and be alone my whole life. The last time 3 yrs ago he told me he didn't have feelings for me etc...so when that happens with a guy it takes a bit but I move on...but he has told me this on and off for 8 yrs...

If anyone has any good advice on how to maneuver this situation and get over a TF I would love to hear it. My heart cant take this it feels like death. I do recommend a book by Steve Gunn ..When Two Souls Connect...its amazing...how the experiences really are similar.

Thank you

Is he committed elsewhere?

Care yo share your charts?

*to share

I don't really know his situation. He lives out of state but he came to the party alone.

What do you mean by my charts?? my bday?? 12/22/71

when is your tf's birthday

To do your charts you need birthdates, times, and places. You can either give that info here to us or do the charts on a website like www.cafeastrology.com then post them here.

I know my info. I was born in Reading England at 11:02 am 12/22/71
I only know his bdate 7/31/73 I don't know times or places..it maybe Ohio that's where he grew up.

I guess what I really want to know is how to move on from all this. I have a hard time putting him out of my heart. When I see him its the same emotions over and over again..regardless of he last time I have seen him. Its weird because on some websites its like he is my twin flame other websites would suggest he isn't. But I have never had this kind of connection with all sorts of signs. Then I am told Im looking for signs..but the signs started coming before him and continue after him. I mean I got them for a few weeks before this bbq which I never thought he would be at because he lives out of state..and bam he shows up. Then I find out from my sister he had contacted her through fb to ask if they were going to the bbq. He doesn't keep in touch with them which is strange I think. He is friends with my brother in law but they aren't really tight..

any assistance on how to heal and move on would be greatly appreciated.

If he is truly ypur TF, you can never completely heal and move on. You can only do your best to learn about yourself and be kind to yourself. To nurture yourself and hope to heal despite the scars that will run deep.

Do I have any hope of meeting someone else and having a relationship??

Have you tried talking to him about a possible future for you two and/or confessing your feelings for him?

Good question MT.

Britlady, of course, you could end up with a soulmate.

Actually I make a clear distinction between a soulmate and a twin flame:

http://www.psychicsuniverse.com/articles/love-relationships/relationships/marriage/soulmates-vs-twin

hey all

yes I have told him several times how I felt and he ran. Right now I am planning on moving to another state so I am just trying to work on me and my issues after seeing him this past wkd I realize I have a lot of healing to do and whether he is in my life or not I have to fix that first.

Just not sure where to start or to figure out all my issues that need to be fixed..🙂

Posted by britlady33
hey all

yes I have told him several times how I felt and he ran. Right now I am planning on moving to another state so I am just trying to work on me and my issues after seeing him this past wkd I realize I have a lot of healing to do and whether he is in my life or not I have to fix that first.

Realizing that you need to work on you is the first step and the most important.

Good luck! We're rooting for you!

Btw, on his side, he will also need to come to the same conclusion...but of course on his own time...in his own way.