accusations

Ever been accused of playing games with someone when you really truly weren't?

So insulting.

ya wanna talk about it?

oh, i see u did already. 🙂

I did? lol. A couple people have told me somewhat recently to "stop playing games", and I was dumbstruck, because I wasn't. So either I am completely crazy and play games without knowing it (not possible), or the people who said that are really paranoid and stupid. lol.

Yeah, I know what that's like. I'm just very honest with people and they can't believe it.

Exactly!

In my own mind, the way I look at it is, "I would rather be honest with you even if it's complicated and makes no sense, than lie to you even if that lie simplifies things and pacifies you" type of thing. I mean, I never say outright *mean* things, white lies are perfectly a.o.k in my book, but I'm talking about the sort of situation where, let's say you are asked to state your opinion on something. Or better yet, someone wants to know how you feel about something or someone...I either don't discuss it at all, or I give the unedited real deal to them, even if it makes me look indecisive or whatever, because I'd rather someone think to themselves, "she is the most indecisive person on the planet" rather than "she is the most dishonest person on the planet".

So, to sum it all up, I got accused of playing games when really I simply stated my emotional feelings about something and my emotions happen to be complicated and often contradict each other. Wow, I hope somebody actually understands this post. lol.

i am accusing u of making no sense at all phoenix. lol

*sticks tongue out at cj7*

lol, meanie!

its not nice to tease. 🙂

the other person could just be confused of what you were pointing out but they couldn't say it in a nicer way so they said.."quit playing games"...lol

just an input.

you might also be right about paranoia... its a form of insecurity too. we all have them. we all have to work with them.

what were you doing BTW?

Well, I was talking to my significant other and we were discussing my life plans, and I was throwing some "hypothetical situations" out there to see how he would react based on different possible decisions I could make in the near future...one of them being moving up to this big city (same state I'm already in) and living with some "strangers"...and he was all pissy all of a sudden and basically told me to stop playing games, which I wasn't, I was just talking...he didn't know that a lot of these "hypothetical situations" are actual possibilities with people who aren't so much strangers as...well, let's just call them "friends". Maybe something in my eyes gave me away or something.

HA! I LIVE!!!!!!!!!!!

are these friends men?... maybe?

if they are... he is just protecting his charming asset...YOU. (is it still the leo guy or taurus?). he might be sensing that you might be interested in one of your friends...

although it is good that you are weighing things out on what the future holds. i think that is the best way to look at things... you are doing the right thing no doubt about that.
live life and have fun, you don't have any major responsibilities you have to take care of. do it if it makes you happy

okay Luz...I'm confused by your post...lol.

M_ays0n (wow, that's harder to write than your old name! lol), yes, these (actually THIS) "friend" is indeed male...I knew him a long time ago and we've recently started talking again, he's actually a Virgo. I told you about him a long time ago I think...I can't recall. Thanks for your support, I appreciate it.

Um, you called me a "charming asset", I'm all blushy now, thank you! 🙂 (this is exciting, I've never been called a "charming asset" before. lol. coolness)

don't get all gitty now... lol. i think you are. but anyways... the virgo guy ey. heath, is it me or is it that all the previous men are popping back in your life... i.e the cancer guy from aussie, now this guy?... does your leo buddy know your past? if he does. again he just preserving what is present with you, or protecting his "charming asses"

OOPs!!!!!my bad typo

lol, that was funny about the charming asses.

My Leo bf knows bits and pieces of my past, but things are really bad between us right now for some reason...it's a long story but basically, I think I'm going to have to break this relationship off with him because it's draining the life out of me and we're too different, he's never going to change, I find his priorities to be weird and immature, and he generally grates on me ninety nine percent of the time. He has a very chaotic life and personality and I just want simplicity and calmness now. Blah blah blah, boring boring boring of me to go on about it, so I'll stop here. But yes, you're right, the past is all up on me now, basically because I wanted it to be, but I don't regret it being in my life again. I'm happier than I was before, other than being with the Leo.

thats just fantastic.... its about time. don't you think?
well, you're all grown up now. lol... making that decision will change your life for the better. just, be carefull.

i wish you luck and happiness with the one you choose. as your better half.