bisexual men

Profile picture of Lawgoddess
Lawgoddess
@Lawgoddess
21 Years500+ Posts

Comments: 0 · Posts: 539 · Topics: 18
Oh I don't know ppl. Maybe you all have to think outside of the 'box'. Maybe a bi person is bi b/c they don't place much emphasis on gender but instead focus on connections made and qualities a person has which is their basis for attraction.

I can say that I am straight, but at the same time I can find some women attractive. I have never kissed a woman, but I know I could. But that would be the end of the line for me...I couldn't go any further than that. (Have major issues with bodily fluids!!!).

I don't think it matters whom you choose to love BUT I am sure as some here have suggested, that some ppl who choose to label themselves 'bi' or 'gay' or 'straight' may only be experimenting and that the label may not ultimately be the correct one that they have placed upon themselves at that particular time.

The question should be, why we need to conform to labels in the first instance and why we should feel the need to conform to the view society places upon us in regards to relationships and what is 'right' and what is 'wrong'?
Profile picture of Morganofmind
Morganofmind
@Morganofmind
21 Years1,000+ Posts

Comments: 0 · Posts: 3286 · Topics: 263
LOL. . . The funny thing is that we have different tastes in guys. We'll be walking down the street and he'll say: "oh that guy in the street is hot", and I'll not find hime particularly attractive at all. . . LOL. . . He's into too much jocky guys. . . He says he thinks it's that way because he has a low self image and the guys he finds attractive are actually guys that he wishes he looked like. . . He's insecure, go figure, a pisces.
Profile picture of Alana
Alana
@Alana
21 Years1,000+ Posts

Comments: 0 · Posts: 1857 · Topics: 45
I really like your thinking Lawgoddesss on this particular point....you have put it succinctly and correctly -...why are we all caught up in the label and category game anyway— At certain times in our lives, the pendulum may swing one way....but who knows the time or the hour it may swing the other way? - or it may even get stuck in the middle for a while (bi!!)—? Always be open to persuasion:-)!!!! as Joan Armatrading sings:-)!!!!!
Alana x
Profile picture of Lawgoddess
Lawgoddess
@Lawgoddess
21 Years500+ Posts

Comments: 0 · Posts: 539 · Topics: 18
April, I could very well be interested in a woman in a romantic sense, finding her both attractive in the sense I may find a man attractive.

My dislike for bodily fluids however goes both ways..both for men and women. It is not that I dislike the whole oral sex thing, it is perhaps a pyschological problem rather than me finding it offensive.

Bi=confused. Maybe for sure in some cases, but I know plenty of ppl who swing both ways, and these are mature age ppl who are quite happy and secure with the way their lives are. Once again I believe it comes down to labels and the need for society to categorise everything into neat little packages.

I understand the point you are trying to make, but I disagree. It all comes down to perspective I guess.