Is it wrong to desperately wish that a guy would break up with his girlfreind and go out with you?
ERRR>>> The frustration!!!!
homewrecker!!!! LOL haha no. J/k 😄 erm no, its not. Besides, you dont know the girl.
'Tis not wrong, until you act on it. I've seen many a relationship sabotage mission backfire with girls trying to somehow get the guy to like them and get him to see how much happier he would be with them. lol. It can get very ugly, and many guys will briefly um...mess around with the temptress but end up going back to the girlfriend after he's had his fun.
We've all wished for that certain guy to dump his girlfriend for us at some point in our lives though, so don't feel abnormal. I would get a voodoo doll....no no, I'm kidding.... Actually what I would do, is platonically befriend the guy, and be the best friend to him that you can possibly be without making catty remarks about the girlfriend. Chances are, he will at least consider you as a romantic possibility and the though will be at least in his mind, but depending on how good for him the girlfriend is, will determine what decision he ends up making. In which case, if he stays with the girlfriend, you gotta just suck it up and be happy for them, or happy away from them. The less accessible you are in a romantic sense though, the more intrigued he'll likely be...so don't make your desires known at this point. 🙂
Good luck, it's a rough one, but we've all been through it.
We've all wished for that certain guy to dump his girlfriend for us at some point in our lives though, so don't feel abnormal. I would get a voodoo doll....no no, I'm kidding.... Actually what I would do, is platonically befriend the guy, and be the best friend to him that you can possibly be without making catty remarks about the girlfriend. Chances are, he will at least consider you as a romantic possibility and the though will be at least in his mind, but depending on how good for him the girlfriend is, will determine what decision he ends up making. In which case, if he stays with the girlfriend, you gotta just suck it up and be happy for them, or happy away from them. The less accessible you are in a romantic sense though, the more intrigued he'll likely be...so don't make your desires known at this point. 🙂
Good luck, it's a rough one, but we've all been through it.
*thought, not "though", will be in his mind...
Hmmm... Thanx phoenix, that's usually the way I do act, and I think it's because I've already been freinds with him for a while. You know that old advice which says never fall in love with your best freind? Well, hmph, I'm a perfect example of why they made that up. UGH!!!
I just don't usually see a guy romantically unless I've known him for a while already, and then I'll start realize that I like him. But then he thinks of me as just a freind, and it's a hopelessly lost cause. Yuck. That's it, I'm simply going to renounce relationships forever.
I just don't usually see a guy romantically unless I've known him for a while already, and then I'll start realize that I like him. But then he thinks of me as just a freind, and it's a hopelessly lost cause. Yuck. That's it, I'm simply going to renounce relationships forever.
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