How do you deal?

How do you deal with being hopeful when the opposite always happens? Do you stop hoping and think the worst? Just how do you deal with hope? It's killin me and making me feel like why even bother?

I always think of every possible scenerio and believe me, my mind can do some paranoid scenarios 🙂 I will never stop hoping, I will just replace people (or myself from the situation) and continue with eternal hope 🙂

Anticipate the worst and hope for the best.

Posted by rockyroadicecream
Anticipate the worst and hope for the best.

Rocky, dont anticipate the worst, all the scenerios should include positive scenerios as well (as well as paranoic scenerios)

Approach every stiuation with hope, and if they fail you, then replace them (or yourself from the situation) and the next person or situation deserve the same hope..... they are not responsible for the butter people or butter situation, we experienced with others or in other situations

New people or new situations deserve the same hope you had for the others

Posted by tiziani
I make changes to my approach.

How?

Posted by Pandora101

Posted by rockyroadicecream
Anticipate the worst and hope for the best.

Rocky, dont anticipate the worst, all the scenerios should include positive scenerios as well (as well as paranoic scenerios)

Approach every stiuation with hope, and if they fail you, then replace them (or yourself from the situation) and the next person or situation deserve the same hope..... they are not responsible for the butter people or butter situation, we experienced with others or in other situations

New people or new situations deserve the same hope you had for the others

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How do you replace it? & how do you intertwine the positive and the negative...like ur approach to it? How do u set it up? & when u say replace them or urself meaning relationship wise? If it's not going good u remove urself & cut communication?