Is he gay ??

ok i use to hook up with this dude a couple of yrs ago, we still hang out periodically but now no screwing is going on my friends thinks hes gay cause i basically say lets f**k n he wont. i try to interpert things he do to c if he might b gay i dont think he is but i cant help but ponder. Is there a on the money way to detect a gay guy?

maybe your just ugly

I am not ugly at all thank u ! He kind of told why he doesnt want to have sex r better yet wants to but cant. Maybe hes just 1 of a kind in a million. The thing is i am legally married. I dont think hes gay it was kinda put in my head. N I have tried to get him to say something incrimating he hasnt. Its not like guys to turn down the goodies( n trust they r goodies) when there is no strings attached none of that us crap just a bone. I hope i dont sound like a super slut im horny!!

N for the record I will love him reguardless gay r not I love gay men just dont wont 2 f**k 1! I feel like freak Grace Adler

perhaps the legally married part turns him off.

He told me the married part is it, cause otherwise we be bangin all the time. Its just some guys dont care they would screw ne n ever1 who let them. he aint like that. i havent been wit him since i been married, we have fooled around just didnt have sex. my husband has his own life full of hoes n friends hes never around. He can't get me off no how...
I know if i keep going over something might happen but he's sick of bein a tease,just cant bring his self to do it.

p.s i have some ugly ways but who does'nt?

He told me the married part is it, cause otherwise we be bangin all the time. Its just some guys dont care they would screw ne n ever1 who let them. he aint like that. i havent been wit him since i been married, we have fooled around just didnt have sex. my husband has his own life full of hoes n friends hes never around. He can't get me off no how...
I know if i keep going over something might happen but he's sick of bein a tease,just cant bring his self to do it.

p.s i have some ugly ways but who does'nt?

i really care 4 him n fact love im not sure bout a relationship ,i wouldnt even push 1 if he wasnt ready. but i beleive we r soul mates. We have so much n common which is how the "is he gay" got cross my mind. i told him ever1 thinks he is, cause they r not acustomed 2 men turning down ass. I would've been wit him if he wanted thats 4 damn sure. Its crazy how sometimes u dont end up wit the person who makes ur blood boil.. cause this dude is HOT!!

Thanks 4 the words ,he truly is an amazing guy. I really feel bad for questioning his sexuality especially since i know his relegion really looks down on adultry. He dont want his eternal soul to pay for what his earthly body did cant b mad at that just respect it. thanx a bunch!!