Sex and the City Question...

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cancerlady
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I wanted to ask this on here because I thought it was an interesting question. Well set of questions....

1. Can a woman ever really change a man?

2. If a man is changed to EXACTLY what you want him to be, doesn't that take away some excitement?

3. Why is the woman always expected to adapt, but not the man?

We can start there....

To answer my own question...I don't think a woman can truly change a man. If you did change him he might end up resenting you for it, even if not in the immediate future. And I think it would be VERY boring if I was with a man who did everything as I wanted him to.

I really don't know about the last one. Maybe the world of double standards we live in?

Cancerlady
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1. Can a woman ever really change a man?

She can change an man by inspiring him, not by telling him.

2. If a man is changed to EXACTLY what you want him to be, doesn't that take away some excitement?

Sounds very boring. Where's the chase? Maybe for those old control freak housewives! lol

3. Why is the woman always expected to adapt, but not the man?

Are we still expected to? opps!
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besos
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Good questions CL~~

1. Can a woman ever really change a man?
-I don't think so. Can you imagine a man trying to change you as a women - not happening is it? TG what you said about inspiring a man is correct but I believe it goes both ways.

2. If a man is changed to EXACTLY what you want him to be, doesn't that take away some excitement?
-Not only the excitement but the challenge - yuck!

3. Why is the woman always expected to adapt, but not the man?
-I sure hope someone can answer this one correctly b/c I'm interesed in knowning the answer myself (lol).