love/hate relationship

My daughter is a libra with her moon in scorpio and Im a cancer with a moon in aries. It becomes very difficult to deal with her. I love her very much but she is very explosive when angry. There are days when she is moody where i try to confort her and she doesnt even want to be talked to. Just recently, she has been having problems in her relationship and I sometimes offer her my advice. In the beginning it was fine but lately she doesnt want to talk about it or blows up if I ask her. She gives me the LEAVE ME ALONE attitude. Which I do but never comes forward to talk. I have a hard time getting her to open up and talk about her feelings. She is very loving and affectionate but very moody and gets exasperated at everything. She gets easily frustrated also. What can I do to improve my relationship with her? I admit that I am very explosive too and get very angry at her at times and it becomes a tug of wars. If I say something she will snap back at me in no time. She is also very resentful. Something I try to teach her not to be. Please give me some tips on how to deal with a moon in scorpio. I appreciate it!

I was extremely difficult when I was a kid especially in my teens for my mum, every day she would unload the stress of work onto me when she came home, I had no life outside of school because I had to look after my little bro, everyday she would tell me how ungrateful I am, everyday she would tell me how lucky I am even though I was severely depressed, everyday she would tell me "this is my house and if you don't like it then leave" I have never felt at home at my mothers house or at my dads house, if it got too much at one place I would go to the other....I truly felt she would be better off without me because she complained about me all the time, it got to the point that if she complained about anything I would think it was me.

Scorpio moons get really frustrated when their feelings are disregarded and are swept under the rug, yes we are volatile, unstable and we hold onto shit making us hard to deal with but for fucks sakes if we ever open up to you LISTEN to what the fuck we are trying to say and keep your mouth shut! Don't ever try and give input when we express ourselves because you're pretty much throwing our feelings back in our face. You need to understand that we are constantly tortured by feelings and emotions even more so than other signs and it's something we live with. So PLEASE try and exercise understanding and if you can't talk to her at least show kindness through actions! Make her a coffee or something to comfort her, make cookies or bring her chocolate when her mood is down, if you're already spooling her rotten and buying her stupid stuff already then start buying her practical stuff that she can use to get herself out of a rut.....

But yeh just don't disregard her feelings, if she doesn't want to talk don't talk to her but she her that you care somehow and don't make a big deal about it.

Thank you so much for your input eleventh sign. Disregarding her feeling, wow you hit the nail. She becomes super sensitive if she feels that I am not listening to her and becomes super frustrated. This is one of the reasons she had problems in her relationship. Her boyfriend rarely listened to her when she spoke up. He criticized her and she would either explode or became silent which was worse. She is 19 years old and she is in college. She is a criminal justice student. I am super proud of her and who she is as a person. I wanted to add that her father and I are having problems in our marriage. He is an alchoholic who comes home everyday fighting. He doesnt take it out on her but the situation makes her stressful. I have noticed that ever since my home has turned into a battlefield, she has changed. Locks herself into the room often. She hates violence, confrontations, arguments anything that disrupts peace and harmony at home. She used to have a wonderful relationship with her father but now he is rarely home and somehow I feel as though she feels abandoned by him although he does take the time to talk to her once in a while. However, it has never been the same since. I am considering leaving home because of the huge level of stress we are both under and because of the psychological effects. There is alot of explosiveness at home, I am under a great deal of stress because of this and I admit I sometimes have become difficult with her. Thanks for the insight. Any other tips are deeply appreciated.

honestly it doesn't sound like leaving her would be the best idea. give it time with her and let her hormones relax a little so she can learn to be your friend as an adult.

Oh dont get me wrong, when I said leaving home, I meant with her
. I would never leave her alone.