Full Moon in Aries is making me pissy !!

This topic was created in the Libra forum by libragemmale on Sunday, September 30, 2012 and has 6 replies.

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@libragemmale
14 Years

I hope it goes away soon , I am cranky as hell last couple of days (and Ive been getting laid too) . Any other Libras feeling this ? πŸ˜›

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@Nefer
17 Years1,000+ PostsPisces

My Libra's been ornery for a couple days too *shrug* I know it's not me, I know I've done nothing, so I don't take on his problem as my own. I don't let it bother me OR put me in a bad mood, I just carry on smiling with my fabulous life and let him do his thing. I just figured he was having his MANstrual cycle or something, and I accept that people have moods and no one is sunshine and bubbles all the time. So I don't make him feel worse by losing my own shit in the meantime, I've got plenty to do and ways to occupy myself when he's moody.

When I don't buy into his bad mood, when I don't let it get to me or put me on edge, when I know it's not worth fussing and fighting about (so I don't).. he comes out of it faster. When I leave him be to work out his own pissy mood, he makes a bigger effort to not take things out on me, to seek me out and be affectionate.

I've found the best way to handle a pissy Libra is to leave him be. But that's actually good advice for ANY man, regardless of sign. Call it going into his Cave, call it working his own shit out, call it his period, whatever. But it's HIS issue to work out, and you're better off not taking it on as your problem.

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@libragemmale
14 Years

Damn Nefer that's spot on ! My wife pretty much does the same thing when she see me 'unbalanced' and I can sense it .In fact I love her for that and I usually clear up much faster because I know it is her way of 'helping'. It's when she busts my balls and I'm allready in a bad mood things can get really rough .and you know too much fighting can really wipe me out , I HATE it . Thanks for your input !

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@libragemmale
14 Years

When she came home from work today I was curt when she started with the "1000 questions" routine , she quickly left me alone and was calm ,relaxed and upbeat. An hour later she was watching TV in bed and I came in and gave her some gentle rubs and petting and my bad mood went away pretty quickly. i did'nt know we were that easy to figure out πŸ˜› thanks !

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@Nefer
17 Years1,000+ PostsPisces

LOL Libras are actually VERY easy to figure out, seriously (well, for me anyway) -- you're mostly predictable and follow patterns, like a damn ant scent-trail haha.. but I know there will always be another "Confused by my Libra" thread created by someone who doesn't understand the way a MAN works, much less how a Libra works.

And.. your wife's got your number, boy. Bet that impresses you, ramps up the "She's amazing" factor for you, eh? Mine thinks I'm incredible, my "handling" of him totally bowls him over. So he's 100% hooked, he ain't going anywhere haha

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@libragemmale
14 Years

I let the cocky bandleader AVE IT at band practice tonight .I unloaded on his chippy ass and he had it comin', everyone knew it but did'nt have the balls to stand up to him. It felt good, REAL GOOD !! πŸ˜‰