VIRGO MOON?

Taurus sun Virgo moon here... I notice they said Taurus are lazy... But only cause they go at their own pace. And snobs but that's a lie for me cause I don't have old but mess bothers me... I think it's due to my Virgo moon... I'm also a perfectionist though I know I can't get there I aim for it... I didn't understand these traits until I realize I had a Virgo moon... Anything else I should be aware of?

Oh and someone said I'm controlling but I am not trying to be... I'm hard on myself so maybe I just want the best for people and they take it as controlling?

I am a Scorpio w a Virgo moon. I have a lot of air influence so I am very good at avoiding being controlling, as I was in a toxic controlling relationship for 3 years and am cautious regarding those who I'm with friends or significant others. I know what you mean though I think. I do give out advice or my two cents on a subject if I think it can be done a different way. however I'm always very cautious with that too because I never want to sound rude or offensive. I'm very quiet until I open up. then my libra ascendant shines through. my Virgo moon makes me very self-aware. in new social settings I can be very shy and closed off, worried I'll make a bad first impression. when around crushes at first I get completely frazzled and my entire face turns beat red and I never know what to say! it's like living a double life with my ascendant lmao. once I open up I can ramble about anything.

my major traits I've noticed w the Virgo moon:
picky (with food etc)
notice all details
analytical
self-aware to the point of self-conscious
shy
quiet
cautious
not very emotional outwardly at all- people who are crying freak me out- I don't know how to comfort people though I feel bad they are crying, I just kind of stand there dumbfounded and don't know what to do or say. I never know how to handle an emotional person period lol

Posted by degenerate_ingenue
I am a Scorpio w a Virgo moon. I have a lot of air influence so I am very good at avoiding being controlling, as I was in a toxic controlling relationship for 3 years and am cautious regarding those who I'm with friends or significant others. I know what you mean though I think. I do give out advice or my two cents on a subject if I think it can be done a different way. however I'm always very cautious with that too because I never want to sound rude or offensive. I'm very quiet until I open up. then my libra ascendant shines through. my Virgo moon makes me very self-aware. in new social settings I can be very shy and closed off, worried I'll make a bad first impression. when around crushes at first I get completely frazzled and my entire face turns beat red and I never know what to say! it's like living a double life with my ascendant lmao. once I open up I can ramble about anything.

my major traits I've noticed w the Virgo moon:
picky (with food etc)
notice all details
analytical
self-aware to the point of self-conscious
shy
quiet
cautious
not very emotional outwardly at all- people who are crying freak me out- I don't know how to comfort people though I feel bad they are crying, I just kind of stand there dumbfounded and don't know what to do or say. I never know how to handle an emotional person period lol

No wonder why I have the shyness yes! Self aware most def! And then the unemotional front... I thought this was from my Taurus sun but seeing my Virgo side it does make me even more stoic! Great details... Thanks!

Oh and yes I really need a little more advice on how to be less "controlling" cause I swear I wasn't trying to be

it's natural sometimes! we find more efficient ways to do things (in our opinion). I just learned how to control that tendency more with time, but i always have internal thoughts on how to make things more efficient. it's like we have to hold our tongue even though we want to terribly. that's how it's been for me anyways. I think all my air influence helped me with that too. my parents are air signs and I have 26-27% air influence in my chart!

it's soooo easy to want to correct things I totally understand. 🙂

omg the shyness is the worst!! since you're also an earth sun that may double it up. what's your ascendant?

Posted by degenerate_ingenue
omg the shyness is the worst!! since you're also an earth sun that may double it up. what's your ascendant?

No clue ‚‚ I've never been able to read my chart or know how to look for it properly

Posted by degenerate_ingenue
it's natural sometimes! we find more efficient ways to do things (in our opinion). I just learned how to control that tendency more with time, but i always have internal thoughts on how to make things more efficient. it's like we have to hold our tongue even though we want to terribly. that's how it's been for me anyways. I think all my air influence helped me with that too. my parents are air signs and I have 26-27% air influence in my chart!

it's soooo easy to want to correct things I totally understand. 🙂

Im gonna take head of this. I need to not give advice. Or say what someone needs to do... I will definitely think before I do that from now on. Had no idea that was the controlling part. Thanks

yeah sometimes people take it the wrong way! no idea why. I've done it too and people take it wrong and I'm like "wait what? that's not what I meant" lmao. and do you know your birth time and location?! basically he exact time determines the ascendant🙂 the ascendant changes every two hoursish

Posted by degenerate_ingenue
yeah sometimes people take it the wrong way! no idea why. I've done it too and people take it wrong and I'm like "wait what? that's not what I meant" lmao. and do you know your birth time and location?! basically he exact time determines the ascendant🙂 the ascendant changes every two hoursish

May 1st born in the island of Jamaica around noonish?

what year? 🙂 and city? I have an app so I'll do it real quick!

Posted by degenerate_ingenue
what year? 🙂 and city? I have an app so I'll do it real quick!

1984... Kingston, Jamaica

And thank you!!!! ❤❤❤

it looks like you are a Taurus sun w a Taurus moon according to my app!
Taurus Sun/moon
Aries Mercury/Venus
Scorpio Mars/Saturn/Pluto
Capricorn Jupiter/Neptune
Sagittarius Uranus
with a Leo ascendant! 🙂

when I get on my computer I'll send you the link/image!

That's my only placement I hate about me..

Posted by degenerate_ingenue
it looks like you are a Taurus sun w a Taurus moon according to my app!
Taurus Sun/moon
Aries Mercury/Venus
Scorpio Mars/Saturn/Pluto
Capricorn Jupiter/Neptune
Sagittarius Uranus
with a Leo ascendant! 🙂

when I get on my computer I'll send you the link/image!

Cooooool...I can look for the similarity in dating now!! Help big time ., thank you!!!

Posted by degenerate_ingenue
it looks like you are a Taurus sun w a Taurus moon according to my app!
Taurus Sun/moon
Aries Mercury/Venus
Scorpio Mars/Saturn/Pluto
Capricorn Jupiter/Neptune
Sagittarius Uranus
with a Leo ascendant! 🙂

when I get on my computer I'll send you the link/image!

Can you do him? July 7, 1978.... Athens, ga unsure of birth time though? Pleeeeeease? Thank you!

sure! I'll be on my computer in about 2 hours too to keep you updated. still using my phone currently.

he's a cancer with
Leo moon, Mercury, Venus, Saturn
Virgo Mars
Cancer Jupiter
Scorpio Uranus
Sagittarius Neptune
libra Pluto

oh shoot I did the wrong location. well it should still be the same! haha give me a minute

Posted by EmotionalAries
That's my only placement I hate about me..

same. 110%

Posted by degenerate_ingenue
sure! I'll be on my computer in about 2 hours too to keep you updated. still using my phone currently.

he's a cancer with
Leo moon, Mercury, Venus, Saturn
Virgo Mars
Cancer Jupiter
Scorpio Uranus
Sagittarius Neptune
libra Pluto

Thank you!! What's the ascendant?

@Shaniajam well we won't know without his birth time 😢

ascendants change every two hours. I just put noon in case. if he was born at noon he has a Virgo ascendant!

Posted by degenerate_ingenue
@Shaniajam well we won't know without his birth time 😢

ascendants change every two hours. I just put noon in case. if he was born at noon he has a Virgo ascendant!

Gotcha! Thanks sooooo much!

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Posted by degenerate_ingenue
@Shaniajam well we won't know without his birth time 😢

ascendants change every two hours. I just put noon in case. if he was born at noon he has a Virgo ascendant!

Gotcha! Thanks sooooo much!

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One more thing... What does ascendant mean?

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Posted by degenerate_ingenue
@Shaniajam well we won't know without his birth time 😢

ascendants change every two hours. I just put noon in case. if he was born at noon he has a Virgo ascendant!

Gotcha! Thanks sooooo much!

One more thing... What does ascendant mean?

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ok sorry... I'm so slow. So the ascendant is who we outwardly portray. It represents our outward personality. So if you were born at noon, yours is Leo so you outwardly have a personality similar to Leo.
Mine is Libra so I outwardly have a similar personality to a Libra!

Leo Rising attracts attention. They have a personal magnetism that makes them stand out. Whether it is their charisma or their appearance, they never fail to make an impression. Leo Ascendant is self-aware and conscious of their effect on others. They are acutely aware of their personal "set dressing"… that is who they are seen with, where they are seen and how they are perceived. They are always "onstage" even when they're relaxing at home.

Leo Rising is known for temper tantrums, jumping to conclusions and self-indulgences. They also have a lot of ambition, drive and idealism. They may appear bossy just because they want to be the driving force in their circle. Leo Ascendant makes a terrific manager or organizer.

Leo Rising tends to overestimate themselves a bit. They are naturally enthusiastic and get excited about new projects. They make excellent promoters and spokespersons. Leo Ascendant is very demonstrative, and they like drama and grand gestures. They may get caught up in exaggeration without realizing it, but they will do anything to get admiration.

Leo Ascendant has a strong constitution. They are very concerned with their appearance and how they behave in public. They like to dress in a youthful manner, and their bearing is strong with a sense of authority. They can pull all this off because they are just big kids at heart. This Ascendant is warm, generous and fun to be around.

Leo Rising is usually of sunny disposition, although they usually speak their mind. They can be extremely stubborn, and it can be challenging for them to break bad habits or behaviors. Their innate tenacity is one of their greatest assets, though. Even when everyone else is tired out and ready to give up, Leo Ascendant is still ready to inspire everyone to keep up the good work. Leo Rising is full of energy and enthusiasm. Once they are excited about something, they're ready to jump right in. Despite this, they may be inclined to lie back and watch the activity. Some negative aspects to this Ascendant may result in a manipulative, power-hungry person whose ego must constantly be massaged. With a slightly different angle, Leo Ascendant could be loud and aggressive, or overwhelming. They can be self-absorbed to the point that it is difficult for them to take advice from others. They sometimes think asking for advice is a sign of weakness.

Leo Rising is usually creative and may have talents in art, music or acting. They are prone to overwork, heart problems, anxiety and other ailments associated with overdoing everything. They are very competitive… it doesn't matter what the contest may be. Confidence is not a problem with Leo Ascendant. They exude it in gallons. Don't embarrass them, especially in public. Their dignity is of utmost importance.

Leo Rising is vital, courageous and full of pride. They can be impulsive, faithful and take risks others may cringe from. They love nice clothes and a nice environment to call their own. While their anger is quick to rise, they let it go easily once they've had their say. They are natural romantics and love to dream… the difference is they may have the drive to make them come true.

that was from: http://www.alwaysastrology.com/leo-rising.html

So this is how we portray ourselves to others. Our moons are our emotions. Comparing your ascendant to mine:

Libra Rising is pleasant and nice to be around… charisma is their middle name. They attract people to them easily. With their charming demeanor and gentle take on life, you'd think their relationships would be smooth sailing. This isn't always the case. Many times, Libra Ascendant will have many problems in their personal relationships. Despite this, they don't like to be alone. They really don't know what to do with themselves if their partner isn't with them. They often will do anything to preserve a relationship, because not only do they not want to be alone, they don't like conflict. At the same time, in times of crisis, Libra Rising will meet the challenge and then some.

Libra Ascendant usually looks good. They know the best way to walk, dress their hair, and what colors suit them best. They like physical comfort, personal luxuries and anything that is pleasing to the senses. This ascendant can be very persuasive, preferring to use a "soft sell" when they want to influence others rather than a heavy hand. They have a tendency to pass blame when they can so they can keep up the image of being nice. They make wonderful mediators and are very accommodating.

Libra Rising is attracted to those who are competent and active. They may argue a lot or compete with their partners until they learn it is okay to just be themselves. They can appear learned, even if they are not. Libra Ascendant is usually a fan of art, music and literature. They may have their own creative and artistic talents as well that reach beyond their appearance. Even though they are friendly, they may appear emotionally detached and shallow. If they sense an imbalance around them, they can get upset, demanding and even bossy until they feel all is in balance again.

Libra Ascendant is usually polite. Some may see them as insincere, but that isn't necessarily true. They feel most comfortable when they can grease the wheels to balance and harmony. Libra Rising is romantic and gracious. It is difficult to say no to this ascendant.

On the negative side, Libra Ascendant can be antisocial, rude or shy. They may be vain and obsessed with remaining young no matter the cost. They may be terribly indecisive. They may be stronger than you think. They may come across as soft, but behind that silky exterior is a will of iron. They are good at getting their own way through diplomacy.

Libra Rising is a social butterfly, and they have many friends and acquaintances. For all this, they can't help but see themselves through the eyes of others. This causes them undue amounts of worry that they don't come across at their best at all times. At the same time, Libra Rising has an amazing ability to reflect others back at themselves. They have a tendency to try to be all things to all people, which can make some people wonder if they have an opinion to call their own

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Posted by degenerate_ingenue
sure! I'll be on my computer in about 2 hours too to keep you updated. still using my phone currently.

he's a cancer with
Leo moon, Mercury, Venus, Saturn
Virgo Mars
Cancer Jupiter
Scorpio Uranus
Sagittarius Neptune
libra Pluto

This is basically my chart. Is he my twin?

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lmao maybe!!! your long lost astrological twin. I still am curious what his ascendant is. She's unsure of birth time. All the Leo energy! OP has a Leo ascendant so I'm curious about his.

We're in a no contact now and haven't spoken. If I hear from him ( I'm doubting now) I'll let you know. 5 days no contact.

Posted by degenerate_ingenue
I am a Scorpio w a Virgo moon. I have a lot of air influence so I am very good at avoiding being controlling, as I was in a toxic controlling relationship for 3 years and am cautious regarding those who I'm with friends or significant others. I know what you mean though I think. I do give out advice or my two cents on a subject if I think it can be done a different way. however I'm always very cautious with that too because I never want to sound rude or offensive. I'm very quiet until I open up. then my libra ascendant shines through. my Virgo moon makes me very self-aware. in new social settings I can be very shy and closed off, worried I'll make a bad first impression. when around crushes at first I get completely frazzled and my entire face turns beat red and I never know what to say! it's like living a double life with my ascendant lmao. once I open up I can ramble about anything.

my major traits I've noticed w the Virgo moon:
picky (with food etc)
notice all details
analytical
self-aware to the point of self-conscious
shy
quiet
cautious
not very emotional outwardly at all- people who are crying freak me out- I don't know how to comfort people though I feel bad they are crying, I just kind of stand there dumbfounded and don't know what to do or say. I never know how to handle an emotional person period lol

I am very attuned to details too and notice when a single thing is out of place/doesn't look good. I am very critical of my own looks and also self-aware to the point of creating insecurities. I am not shy or quiet and I'm VERY emotionally outward, but I rarely cry unless I'm drunk.