Taurus ex is crazy

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by thefierybull on Monday, August 10, 2015 and has 17 replies.

How to Handle a Stubborn Taurus Ex Who Won't Stop Contacting You

If your Taurus ex is persistently reaching out despite your clear boundaries, consider blocking his number and informing your friends to avoid enabling his behavior. Stay firm and avoid engaging with him to prevent escalation. If harassment continues, seek legal advice or contact authorities for assistance in stopping unwanted contact.

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@thefierybull
11 YearsTaurus

I dumped my Taurus 3 months ago, and haven't spoke to him since. He cheated on me, so I left him. Now his psycho ass is trying to get my phone number like a mad man. He woke my bestfriend and her bf up (my bestfriend is dating his brother) in the middle of the night trying to get my phone number. And now he keeps texting my bestfriend and asking for my #.

He's "dating" the girl who he cheated on me with (the girl is his ex, we got together months after they broke up) now, so I don't know wtf he wants from me. I just feel bad for my friend (his brother) because he has to hear about our drama all day, and he's sick of hearing about it, and sick of his brother constantly getting him involved in our drama.

Will he eventually stop asking? I know Taurus are stubborn (I am a Taurus lol) and I just want him to stop bugging my friends, but I DON'T want to talk to him ever, or see him. Wth do I do?

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@MsTeeq1974
12 Years1,000+ Posts

Don't re-engage. Let them handle him and just hope that they don't give him your number. Also, don't really talk about him to t hem or he might find out and keep on badgering them. The best way to get a Taurus to go away is to completely ignore them and any mention of them or any situation having to do with them. if someone else brings him up, change the subject. Trust me, he'll find out and eventually, he'll go away. He'll stay mad forever, but he'll go away. My kids' father is a Taurus and so is my latest casual sex buddy. He's been hitting me up constantly for the past week now and even when I left him to get into my last relationship, he contacted me every now and then trying to see if there was an open door.

He already told me that he's always going to be "around". I'm like...shit...cool, if that's the position you want to play, because if my relationships don't work out...it's nice to deal with someone who you know. You know? I mean, it's not like I'm giving him play or the time of day. He wants to hover...stay up there...hovering. lol ha ha ha ha

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@thefierybull
11 YearsTaurus

Posted by MsTeeq1974
Don't re-engage. Let them handle him and just hope that they don't give him your number. Also, don't really talk about him to t hem or he might find out and keep on badgering them. The best way to get a Taurus to go away is to completely ignore them and any mention of them or any situation having to do with them. if someone else brings him up, change the subject. Trust me, he'll find out and eventually, he'll go away. He'll stay mad forever, but he'll go away. My kids' father is a Taurus and so is my latest casual sex buddy. He's been hitting me up constantly for the past week now and even when I left him to get into my last relationship, he contacted me every now and then trying to see if there was an open door.

He already told me that he's always going to be "around". I'm like...shit...cool, if that's the position you want to play, because if my relationships don't work out...it's nice to deal with someone who you know. You know? I mean, it's not like I'm giving him play or the time of day. He wants to hover...stay up there...hovering. lol ha ha ha ha

I know for a fact my bestfriend won't give him my #. She never liked us together, and she doesn't like him at all, she doesn't want us talking lol. I stopped talking about him to both because his bro doesn't wanna hear the bs, but I do talk to my bf about him. Just venting really, but I don't do it as much. I'm going to continue to ignore him, I just feel bad for his bro lol he always has to hear about his drama, and I don't want him to resent me for it!

Lol he's a dumbass for hovering! I don't get what the point is, or why they think our views will change lol

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@Taurus Visionary
11 Years

Taurus males. Gosh they can be clingy. I feel for you. It takes time. How much depends on how stubborn and persistent he is but you can't give him any sign or shred of hope or he will take it and run with it.

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@whitedream
11 Years

ahhh i wish i was in your situation..lol..

Sag wouldn't do this to me. ><

Hopefully he gives all his dedication to my ex. LOL

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@FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
11 Years10,000+ Posts

@DMV- I know loyalty really well, and yes I just do it.. I was just wondering for me it is natural to be loyal maybe it was what I went through in life as child, watching my parents go through whatever was happening.

Then it's the ex bff who didn't understand loyalty and still did not get revenge I stay fucking loyal anyways. It's alot of temptation out there. Lord I know.

@ ANDS-The VIT is just kinda like Taurus in Sun, once we make our mind up it is fixed and stable enough to move on without judgment especially in the early phrases. But then again once we do hit our older ages I believe we give alittle too much leeeway and are not taking seriously when it comes to trust, and loyalty, and respect.. It's not out here irl..So far. Lol