Virgo moon people and trust?!

Do you ever feel like it is truly hard to trust people or let someone get too close? Specially if it was a close friend that betrayed your trust?
Sometimes I wonder if its just me, but when I feel this way I definitely become reserved and shut off my emotions for that person

Any virgo moon people feel this way as well?

I know what you mean. I have cut plenty of good friends from my life because I felt that what they have done to me wasn't right. I'll admit, I can be hasty but I do what feels right in the moment. It has left me lonely for a long while. I haven't had a close friend in 6 years. But granted I'm still in high school.

I'm really uncomfortable talking about my problems or showing emotions in front of people. I just feel like everyone is going to turn around and talk about it or use it against me. It's happened before and I won't let it happen again.

Lisa lopes said it best:

"What you want me to cry on your shoulder
So you can turn around and laugh and talk about it when it's over"

Posted by AriesIntrovert16
I know what you mean. I have cut plenty of good friends from my life because I felt that what they have done to me wasn't right. I'll admit, I can be hasty but I do what feels right in the moment. It has left me lonely for a long while. I haven't had a close friend in 6 years. But granted I'm still in high school.

I'm really uncomfortable talking about my problems or showing emotions in front of people. I just feel like everyone is going to turn around and talk about it or use it against me. It's happened before and I won't let it happen again.

Lisa lopes said it best:

"What you want me to cry on your shoulder
So you can turn around and laugh and talk about it when it's over"

Yes i know exactly what you mean! im glad im not the only one that feels this way. Its hard to get close to someone when you have been done wrong by many people. But hey you know what, always stay positive and never lose your charm 🙂

So how would someone with good intentions get close to you eventually? Rephrasing, what would it take for someone to prove to you they're not like the rest?

I'm a virgo mooner, and i do agree about trust. I once had a close friend, who misused my trust. From that time on, i never talk about my personal things.I became very careful. Now we dont have contact, i just ignored her, after all she had done to me.

I have to admit that I find myself in the "This is to good to be true" mode pretty often. An example is that I find myself thinking something like, "this person can't possibly find me all that interesting, what do they really want?" Not paranoid, not suspicious, but certainly cautious.

If you have truly betrayed me, I usually put on a friendly face, and make doggone sure you know as little about me, what I am doing, what I am thinking and what I am feeling as I possibly can without being outright offensive. Oh wait, "That is none of your damn business" does leave my mouth off and on.

Posted by TheSweetTaurus
Do you ever feel like it is truly hard to trust people or let someone get too close? Specially if it was a close friend that betrayed your trust?
Sometimes I wonder if its just me, but when I feel this way I definitely become reserved and shut off my emotions for that person

Any virgo moon people feel this way as well?

Yes I feel this, the guy I'm talking to right now has a Cap sun/Virgo moon, so I figured it would take a reaaaaallly long time to gain his trust which is fine I don't mind. But then he shocked me today and said he trusts me...and in my mind I said (well I don't trust you lol) So even despite someone trusting me it still takes me a while to get to that point. As far as someone who's done me wrong..it's pretty much a wrap for them, I may still talk to them depending on the severity of it, but things will never be the same..I'm this way even with family.

Posted by TheSweetTaurus
Do you ever feel like it is truly hard to trust people or let someone get too close? Specially if it was a close friend that betrayed your trust?
Sometimes I wonder if its just me, but when I feel this way I definitely become reserved and shut off my emotions for that person

Any virgo moon people feel this way as well?

Absolutely...

Posted by truecap
So how would someone with good intentions get close to you eventually? Rephrasing, what would it take for someone to prove to you they're not like the rest?

I feel people out, and if there's a connection, I'll reach out to them (talk/hang out/whatever). They'd have to "prove themselves" by reaching out to me, and not just for the purpose of getting something out of me (even if it is just emotional support), but because they actually care about/have a genuine interest in me and my well being. This is where almost everyone has failed.

It's as simple as calling me to see how I'm doing, it really is. But, it rarely happens.

Hello!
I agree with you all. With me, though, I am very open and friendly, and it makes people think they know alot about me, so usually within a couple weeks of getting to know me they'll say things like, "Wow! We're like long lost sisters!/ I feel like I've known you my whole life!/ You're my best friend! No one else gets me!" And my response is always, "Great! Glad you feel that way! That's wonderful!"

Really? lol. How can you just through that kind of statement out there with such passion, as if you take it so lightly? I can't take them seriously when they say that kind of thing, though it's flattering, because it's usually those same people who are dragging your name through the dirt or throwing you under the bus a couple more weeks later. And it's probably because they ran to me with some crazy idea thinking i'll totally understand and jump on the bandwagon, only to come to a screeching hault when I say, "but... that doesn't make any sense..." 😛