Tinxy
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Worried about weird scorpio moon guy behaviour
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Yeah, why is he hurting because of you?
Posted by Mystik_Enigma
Yeah, why is he hurting because of you?
Posted by mariathesagWe've known each other almost a decade
What did you do to him?click to expand
I was just a total bitch , i argued with him and basically ripped into him about every insecurity he has , he is insecure and low confidence I know this bc he told me he had trusted me with such personal stuff but deep down he knows I was just angry and didn't mean it I guess I was being a "little" insecure too lol and I doubted his intentions when actually I knew what he thought of me.
We've had blazing arguments always me being the evil agressive one and he always lets me back into his world. I guess the last one did some damage to his ego/feelings.
I know I know I childish but it's in the past it was months and months ago and he's being very well weird a new set of behaviours I've never seen before. !!
Don't know how to approach him in him defensive mode
Posted by NevermoreHow do I deal with him and the stalkerish weird messages ?!Posted by TinxyHe will always hold that past. Especially what you did to him that was really fucked up through your insecurity.Posted by Mystik_Enigma
Yeah, why is he hurting because of you?Posted by mariathesagWe've known each other almost a decade
What did you do to him?
I was just a total bitch , i argued with him and basically ripped into him about every insecurity he has , he is insecure and low confidence I know this bc he told me he had trusted me with such personal stuff but deep down he knows I was just angry and didn't mean it I guess I was being a "little" insecure too lol and I doubted his intentions when actually I knew what he thought of me.
We've had blazing arguments always me being the evil agressive one and he always lets me back into his world. I guess the last one did some damage to his ego/feelings.
I know I know I childish but it's in the past it was months and months ago and he's being very well weird a new set of behaviours I've never seen before. !!
Don't know how to approach him in him defensive mode
So either way he transformed into much better that you cannot handle that. kudos to him btw.click to expand
What's the point hes making here
He wants me there but pushes me away at the sane time
He is angry but won't let me go
Posted by NevermoreI'm a scorpio too revenge works both ways
Except for revenge, but either way you're doomed for that.
Good luck with that.
He could have had revenge 100 times but always backed down to me and I backed down too
"I know this bc he told me he had trusted me with such personal stuff"
This statement says it all.
He trusted you and in your insecurity you threw it in his face.
......good luck
This statement says it all.
He trusted you and in your insecurity you threw it in his face.
......good luck
Posted by thestruggleTrue TruePosted by Tinxyidgaf if you were angry. you sound like a huge cuntPosted by Mystik_Enigma
Yeah, why is he hurting because of you?Posted by mariathesagWe've known each other almost a decade
What did you do to him?
I was just a total bitch , i argued with him and basically ripped into him about every insecurity he has , he is insecure and low confidence I know this bc he told me he had trusted me with such personal stuff
if you betray a scorp moon after they entrust you with info
then you deserve much worse than what he's doing to you now.
this is tame.click to expand
Posted by mariathesagNo I bloody don't
Do you think you are in a relationship with him?
I just don't know how to deal with this we been friends for almost 10 years and dated on and off the last year
Posted by TinxyYou have scorp sun or moon?Posted by NevermoreI'm a scorpio too revenge works both ways
Except for revenge, but either way you're doomed for that.
Good luck with that.
He could have had revenge 100 times but always backed down to me and I backed down tooclick to expand
Posted by Mystik_EnigmaSunPosted by TinxyYou have scorp sun or moon?Posted by NevermoreI'm a scorpio too revenge works both ways
Except for revenge, but either way you're doomed for that.
Good luck with that.
He could have had revenge 100 times but always backed down to me and I backed down tooclick to expand
I get it I really do I didn't know he was a scorp moon till a few months ago
Posted by TinxyThen you get that scorp moon is better at revenge...you really shouldn't have started this gamePosted by Mystik_EnigmaSunPosted by TinxyYou have scorp sun or moon?Posted by NevermoreI'm a scorpio too revenge works both ways
Except for revenge, but either way you're doomed for that.
Good luck with that.
He could have had revenge 100 times but always backed down to me and I backed down too
I get it I really do I didn't know he was a scorp moon till a few months agoclick to expand
Like I said - good luck
Posted by blackphaseI was a total arshole cunt I really wasPosted by TinxyWe can be pretty brutal when hurt. He is lashing back.. chances are he won't stop until you let him back in or he finds someone else. The hurt runs deep in us and we can be very spiteful and will try to bite you back hard if you hurt us. I know where he is coming from.. I can be nasty when hurt as well but I also will let them back in. If I am not biting back at you after you've hurt me then you didn't really matter that much to me.Posted by Mystik_Enigma
Yeah, why is he hurting because of you?Posted by mariathesagWe've known each other almost a decade
What did you do to him?
I was just a total bitch , i argued with him and basically ripped into him about every insecurity he has , he is insecure and low confidence I know this bc he told me he had trusted me with such personal stuff but deep down he knows I was just angry and didn't mean it I guess I was being a "little" insecure too lol and I doubted his intentions when actually I knew what he thought of me.
We've had blazing arguments always me being the evil agressive one and he always lets me back into his world. I guess the last one did some damage to his ego/feelings.
I know I know I childish but it's in the past it was months and months ago and he's being very well weird a new set of behaviours I've never seen before. !!
Don't know how to approach him in him defensive modeclick to expand
He is letting me back in but thinks I won't with him because of the argument we had I keep backing off to allow him space because I was wrong and I know this.
Posted by Mystik_EnigmaI'm actually a bit scared tbh lolPosted by TinxyThen you get that scorp moon is better at revenge...you really shouldn't have started this gamePosted by Mystik_EnigmaSunPosted by TinxyYou have scorp sun or moon?Posted by NevermoreI'm a scorpio too revenge works both ways
Except for revenge, but either way you're doomed for that.
Good luck with that.
He could have had revenge 100 times but always backed down to me and I backed down too
I get it I really do I didn't know he was a scorp moon till a few months ago
Like I said - good luckclick to expand
If I'd had known he was a scorp moon I'd have kept my blabbing mouth shut
Posted by thestruggleHim aqua sun lol scorp moon and many scorp placements
Questions.
What his sun sign?
What is your moon sign?
Did you ever apologize?
Be honest
Me scorp sun and libra moon and 9 placements in libra
I apologised I poured my blood into my apologies
I wrote an apology letter I took total blame since it was my fault I acknowledged what I did and asked for nothing TOTAL BLAME no excuses none.
He knows me and I know him more than anyone
He told me I'm the only person he had ever spoken with about everything ... I'm a cunt yes but this cunt is sorry very fucking sorry
Posted by TinxyIf you apologize profusely and back this up with ACTIONS...not just words....you might be okPosted by Mystik_EnigmaI'm actually a bit scared tbh lolPosted by TinxyThen you get that scorp moon is better at revenge...you really shouldn't have started this gamePosted by Mystik_EnigmaSunPosted by TinxyYou have scorp sun or moon?Posted by NevermoreI'm a scorpio too revenge works both ways
Except for revenge, but either way you're doomed for that.
Good luck with that.
He could have had revenge 100 times but always backed down to me and I backed down too
I get it I really do I didn't know he was a scorp moon till a few months ago
Like I said - good luck
If I'd had known he was a scorp moon I'd have kept my blabbing mouth shutclick to expand
Having said all of this, it's going to take a long time, if ever, for him to trust you again. He will NEVER forget what you did.
Posted by Mystik_EnigmaWhy the fuck didn't I see his scorpio heart beforePosted by TinxyIf you apologize profusely and back this up with ACTIONS...not just words....you might be okPosted by Mystik_EnigmaI'm actually a bit scared tbh lolPosted by TinxyThen you get that scorp moon is better at revenge...you really shouldn't have started this gamePosted by Mystik_EnigmaSunPosted by TinxyYou have scorp sun or moon?Posted by NevermoreI'm a scorpio too revenge works both ways
Except for revenge, but either way you're doomed for that.
Good luck with that.
He could have had revenge 100 times but always backed down to me and I backed down too
I get it I really do I didn't know he was a scorp moon till a few months ago
Like I said - good luck
If I'd had known he was a scorp moon I'd have kept my blabbing mouth shutclick to expand
About 7 years ago I stood him up and it took a million apologies for him to accept I didn't do it on purpose Loool
In dumb seriously why didn't I see it
Blind
This whole thing has taught me a BIG lesson indeed
Posted by blackphaseYes ma'am
And if you were really that bad, he will be ten times worse until he feels that you acknowledge and sincerely apologize for your wrong doings.
And even though he may let you back in, it will take a long time for him to trust again. Expect a different kind of relationship from this moment forward.
Posted by blackphaseCheating !!!!Posted by TinxyKnowing myself.. he likely doesn't want space.. he wants you back in his life. Hence all these attempts just to be in contact with you. Unless you cheated, he just wants you back in his life. A sincere apology is all it will take.Posted by blackphaseI was a total arshole cunt I really wasPosted by TinxyWe can be pretty brutal when hurt. He is lashing back.. chances are he won't stop until you let him back in or he finds someone else. The hurt runs deep in us and we can be very spiteful and will try to bite you back hard if you hurt us. I know where he is coming from.. I can be nasty when hurt as well but I also will let them back in. If I am not biting back at you after you've hurt me then you didn't really matter that much to me.Posted by Mystik_Enigma
Yeah, why is he hurting because of you?Posted by mariathesagWe've known each other almost a decade
What did you do to him?
I was just a total bitch , i argued with him and basically ripped into him about every insecurity he has , he is insecure and low confidence I know this bc he told me he had trusted me with such personal stuff but deep down he knows I was just angry and didn't mean it I guess I was being a "little" insecure too lol and I doubted his intentions when actually I knew what he thought of me.
We've had blazing arguments always me being the evil agressive one and he always lets me back into his world. I guess the last one did some damage to his ego/feelings.
I know I know I childish but it's in the past it was months and months ago and he's being very well weird a new set of behaviours I've never seen before. !!
Don't know how to approach him in him defensive mode
He is letting me back in but thinks I won't with him because of the argument we had I keep backing off to allow him space because I was wrong and I know this.click to expand
We were "dating" but still I detest cheating on every level
I feel his pull on my soul it's fucking weird man the day I blocked him after weeks of no contact straight away the messages started I unblocked him now he's talking
Posted by Tinxy....oh shitPosted by blackphaseCheating !!!!Posted by TinxyKnowing myself.. he likely doesn't want space.. he wants you back in his life. Hence all these attempts just to be in contact with you. Unless you cheated, he just wants you back in his life. A sincere apology is all it will take.Posted by blackphaseI was a total arshole cunt I really wasPosted by TinxyWe can be pretty brutal when hurt. He is lashing back.. chances are he won't stop until you let him back in or he finds someone else. The hurt runs deep in us and we can be very spiteful and will try to bite you back hard if you hurt us. I know where he is coming from.. I can be nasty when hurt as well but I also will let them back in. If I am not biting back at you after you've hurt me then you didn't really matter that much to me.Posted by Mystik_Enigma
Yeah, why is he hurting because of you?Posted by mariathesagWe've known each other almost a decade
What did you do to him?
I was just a total bitch , i argued with him and basically ripped into him about every insecurity he has , he is insecure and low confidence I know this bc he told me he had trusted me with such personal stuff but deep down he knows I was just angry and didn't mean it I guess I was being a "little" insecure too lol and I doubted his intentions when actually I knew what he thought of me.
We've had blazing arguments always me being the evil agressive one and he always lets me back into his world. I guess the last one did some damage to his ego/feelings.
I know I know I childish but it's in the past it was months and months ago and he's being very well weird a new set of behaviours I've never seen before. !!
Don't know how to approach him in him defensive mode
He is letting me back in but thinks I won't with him because of the argument we had I keep backing off to allow him space because I was wrong and I know this.
We were "dating" but still I detest cheating on every level
I feel his pull on my soul it's fucking weird man the day I blocked him after weeks of no contact straight away the messages started I unblocked him now he's talkingclick to expand
Posted by blackphaseAin't nobody got time for that woman....Posted by Mystik_EnigmaYes, the trust will be hard to build. But hey, I've been dealing with someone that i haven't really trusted from the start and I am still pushing through it. He will likely never have my trust, but it doesn't stop me from loving him, it just makes for a messy relationship 😢Posted by blackphaseYes ma'am
And if you were really that bad, he will be ten times worse until he feels that you acknowledge and sincerely apologize for your wrong doings.
And even though he may let you back in, it will take a long time for him to trust again. Expect a different kind of relationship from this moment forward.
click to expand
Life's too short
Posted by Mystik_EnigmaWhat do u mean "oh shit"Posted by blackphaseAin't nobody got time for that woman....Posted by Mystik_EnigmaYes, the trust will be hard to build. But hey, I've been dealing with someone that i haven't really trusted from the start and I am still pushing through it. He will likely never have my trust, but it doesn't stop me from loving him, it just makes for a messy relationship 😢Posted by blackphaseYes ma'am
And if you were really that bad, he will be ten times worse until he feels that you acknowledge and sincerely apologize for your wrong doings.
And even though he may let you back in, it will take a long time for him to trust again. Expect a different kind of relationship from this moment forward.
Life's too shortclick to expand
I'm scared I'm shaking looooool
Posted by blackphaseI am not going to lecture you, because you already know.
I know, I know.. What a Scorp moon doing with a Pathological Liar? It's dysfunctional af, but he is the only one to have ever stirred up my intense passionate emotions that I am not wanting to let go of.
Posted by blackphaseSorry your dealing with that
I know, I know.. What a Scorp moon doing with a Pathological Liar? It's dysfunctional af, but he is the only one to have ever stirred up my intense passionate emotions that I am not wanting to let go of.
I'm sorry on behalf of all the cunts
Posted by thestruggleEven I can laugh at that
ugh this is why i hate scorp moon threads
they always devolve into smelling each others farts
LOL
I just want to thank y'all for your input
This cunt appreciates your help , insults and w.e
Honest thank you from my cold dead heart
I thought I'd say it now just incase
This cunt appreciates your help , insults and w.e
Honest thank you from my cold dead heart
I thought I'd say it now just incase
Cheating !!!!
We were "dating" but still I detest cheating on every level
The way this is worded makes it sound like cheating was involved. If not then ok BUT fact remains he opened up to you and later you threw it out in an argument. I don't care if he dies take you back or even if he begs for you back. The trust won't be the same because every time he goes to open his mouth to share with you his scorp moon will remind him to stfu.
We were "dating" but still I detest cheating on every level
The way this is worded makes it sound like cheating was involved. If not then ok BUT fact remains he opened up to you and later you threw it out in an argument. I don't care if he dies take you back or even if he begs for you back. The trust won't be the same because every time he goes to open his mouth to share with you his scorp moon will remind him to stfu.
Posted by Mystik_EnigmaNo cheating at all
Cheating !!!!
We were "dating" but still I detest cheating on every level
The way this is worded makes it sound like cheating was involved. If not then ok BUT fact remains he opened up to you and later you threw it out in an argument. I don't care if he dies take you back or even if he begs for you back. The trust won't be the same because every time he goes to open his mouth to share with you his scorp moon will remind him to stfu.
End of I'd admit it if so
Posted by febyYep libra moon herePosted by Rambunctious76I think the OP has a libra moon too. And screw you ram ok? We don't offend anyone!!!Posted by thestruggleI laughed till I nearly choked on my dinner. LMAO.
ugh this is why i hate scorp moon threads
they always devolve into smelling each others farts
Well OP, a libra moon offending a Scorpio moon is nothing new. The rest have already told you how best to deal with that Scorpio moon, and I'm pretty sure feby can help too (she has a Libra moon as well).click to expand
It was the evilness of the scorpio sun that made me hurl words of cuntishness
Fuck scorpios I hate myself
Posted by febyYes I havePosted by TinxyThe scorpio sun + the mel Gibson moon! I don't think you're evil but I bet you are patient. I feel like things will get better in time.Posted by febyYep libra moon herePosted by Rambunctious76I think the OP has a libra moon too. And screw you ram ok? We don't offend anyone!!!Posted by thestruggleI laughed till I nearly choked on my dinner. LMAO.
ugh this is why i hate scorp moon threads
they always devolve into smelling each others farts
Well OP, a libra moon offending a Scorpio moon is nothing new. The rest have already told you how best to deal with that Scorpio moon, and I'm pretty sure feby can help too (she has a Libra moon as well).
It was the evilness of the scorpio sun that made me hurl words of cuntishness
Fuck scorpios I hate myselfclick to expand
I'd wait a lifetime for many things
So after all the drama
Wtf do I do now
Continue with the space thing I just wait for him to talk ATM and then answer
Or annoy the fuck out of him
I'm scared to say anything right now I've only kept things light lol talking about random shit
But I sense him waiting for me to talk about what happened but I skirted around the subject bc
IM SCARED to death lol
Wtf do I do now
Continue with the space thing I just wait for him to talk ATM and then answer
Or annoy the fuck out of him
I'm scared to say anything right now I've only kept things light lol talking about random shit
But I sense him waiting for me to talk about what happened but I skirted around the subject bc
IM SCARED to death lol
Posted by tizianiOk that's what i was thinking saying it to his eyes so he knows I'm sorry
If you make amends I wouldn't do it in words. Just be present and there.
I swear if I hadn't of written that letter I'd be dust
Posted by Rambunctious76He told me before if I pushed his buttons too hard he'd find it hard not to lash out physicallyPosted by TinxyLol.Posted by tizianiOk that's what i was thinking saying it to his eyes so he knows I'm sorry
If you make amends I wouldn't do it in words. Just be present and there.
I swear if I hadn't of written that letter I'd be dust
Why are you so damn scared of him anyway?
Does he have a history of violence? A history of instigating epic sabotages that his victims never recover from?click to expand
I think that's partly why he stayed away for so long but kept contact to a minimum to show he was there but not there
It's only now he talking again
Lol waiting for the madness to erupt now on dpxnet
Hehehe
Posted by blackphaseYes he did but since he initiated contact I've kept it cool and talked very briefly with himPosted by TinxyAhhhhh.. this is the problem. You are avoiding the issue. You have to face it head on. That is what he is waiting for. Like I had said, he needs you to acknowledge your wrong doing and sincerely apologize.
So after all the drama
Wtf do I do now
Continue with the space thing I just wait for him to talk ATM and then answer
Or annoy the fuck out of him
I'm scared to say anything right now I've only kept things light lol talking about random shit
But I sense him waiting for me to talk about what happened but I skirted around the subject bc
IM SCARED to death lol
And I am a bit confused now. I thought he was the one annoying you with these random msgs and you were playing it cool. Either way, he wants to discuss this. Nothing is going to change until you do.click to expand
I'm waiting now till he contacts me next then I will say it
Yesterday I spoke to him and said "drop the defensive attitude it's boring" during a short convo
Haven't mentioned what happened even though he tried to go there
Next time I'm gonna hit him with it
This behavior is weird indeed. Immature actually. Who goes and sends messages from a hidden number? Like what is that going to do or prove? It's hard for me to give advice from a scorpio moon perspective because I myself wouldn't do this. If someone hurts me I personally want to get as far away from them as possible and fill the empty void they left with new. I'm actually the safest person to hurt, which sucks to admit.
Anyway my advice is the obvious. Maybe you could try and take advantage of the scorpio moon paranoia? That alone is one reason why I wouldn't fuck with a person that hurt me unless they attempted to talk to me after the fact. If a hurt person scares the person that did then wrong enough the tables might turn, and they will not only heartbroken but in jail. Did you threaten to call the cops?
If that doesn't work simply change your number. Problem solved. If that doesn't work and he's stalking you get the cops involved and a restraining order if he's scaring you. Are you a woman? If so the cards are normally in your favor.
Anyway my advice is the obvious. Maybe you could try and take advantage of the scorpio moon paranoia? That alone is one reason why I wouldn't fuck with a person that hurt me unless they attempted to talk to me after the fact. If a hurt person scares the person that did then wrong enough the tables might turn, and they will not only heartbroken but in jail. Did you threaten to call the cops?
If that doesn't work simply change your number. Problem solved. If that doesn't work and he's stalking you get the cops involved and a restraining order if he's scaring you. Are you a woman? If so the cards are normally in your favor.
I think the Sun plays a great deal in the personality also. Like despite having scorpio I can't hold a grudge. I'm kind hearted by nature, and after things cool down I'd even and have helped people who betrayed me in the past. I wouldn't trust them, but I'd come to terms and get over it because it heals the past
Scorpio moon*
Posted by blackphaseI feel so sad inside almost broken I've lost weight can't eat he's like the light to me
I don't think I actually truly forgive... but enough to allow them back into my life. I never actually let go of it unless they go above and beyond to set things right.. which rarely ever happens.. But I still take them back and shower them with my love. I'm starting to think this is beyond Astrology though and that I'm just a tad insane.. 😛
I thought I was doing the right thing by not discussing it I thought it would cause more pain
Oh my dear god I'm a fucking monster
I wish i had something positive or encouraging to say to you 😢
As others have said, i think it's really dependent on the Scorpio moons sun sign.
My father is Scorpio Sun, Brother Taurus- I'm a leo- and i've never heard or have seen them doing anything like that- nor have i.
Besides the text messages- the fact that he wants to communicate about what you did....Like, i find that really odd. Obviously like any family we have had issues, but it has never been something really up for discussion. Maybe passive aggressively- But na- like all our stuff just gets swept under the mat- Erased- When your hurt- talking about it...makes the pain 100 x's more intense. For us it seems anyhow.
I did however have a Libra friend with a Scorpio moon...and, she has done some really bad things..in her pursuit of balance, and popularity. All her actions were non violent however, if that lightens things up? lol :p Something similar to your situation tho- is that if she was upset she would want to talk about it- Even if it meant at 3am .....
So it may be an air thing?
If he wants to talk- talk to him. I'd also bring up about these weird freaking text messages. regain control- and tell him those actions are uncalled for. If you expose his actions and he still keeps sending you weird stuff, get the authority's involved. Life is to short to deal with creepos.
As others have said, i think it's really dependent on the Scorpio moons sun sign.
My father is Scorpio Sun, Brother Taurus- I'm a leo- and i've never heard or have seen them doing anything like that- nor have i.
Besides the text messages- the fact that he wants to communicate about what you did....Like, i find that really odd. Obviously like any family we have had issues, but it has never been something really up for discussion. Maybe passive aggressively- But na- like all our stuff just gets swept under the mat- Erased- When your hurt- talking about it...makes the pain 100 x's more intense. For us it seems anyhow.
I did however have a Libra friend with a Scorpio moon...and, she has done some really bad things..in her pursuit of balance, and popularity. All her actions were non violent however, if that lightens things up? lol :p Something similar to your situation tho- is that if she was upset she would want to talk about it- Even if it meant at 3am .....
So it may be an air thing?
If he wants to talk- talk to him. I'd also bring up about these weird freaking text messages. regain control- and tell him those actions are uncalled for. If you expose his actions and he still keeps sending you weird stuff, get the authority's involved. Life is to short to deal with creepos.
Posted by febyI'm the same as you, and I'm mutable.Posted by blackphaseYou're better than I am. I'm not sure I really ever forgive. I'm fixed so it stays with me forever and just kind of fades away. It seems like I move on but it's always there on tap. It depends on how deeply I was hurt too.Posted by SoulI'm exactly the same. I can forgive easily but never forget, which creates a lot of inner turmoil.
I think the Sun plays a great deal in the personality also. Like despite having scorpio I can't hold a grudge. I'm kind hearted by nature, and after things cool down I'd even and have helped people who betrayed me in the past. I wouldn't trust them, but I'd come to terms and get over it because it heals the pastclick to expand
Posted by Soul
I think the Sun plays a great deal in the personality also. Like despite having scorpio I can't hold a grudge. I'm kind hearted by nature,...
Your Lilith sign?
Posted by TinxyThe worst thing anyone could do to me is NOTHING. I want direct eye contact and verbal communication - tell me what you did wrong and why, it has to be talked out and sincerely. I can tell if it's sincere or not.Posted by blackphaseI feel so sad inside almost broken I've lost weight can't eat he's like the light to me
I don't think I actually truly forgive... but enough to allow them back into my life. I never actually let go of it unless they go above and beyond to set things right.. which rarely ever happens.. But I still take them back and shower them with my love. I'm starting to think this is beyond Astrology though and that I'm just a tad insane.. 😛
I thought I was doing the right thing by not discussing it I thought it would cause more pain
Oh my dear god I'm a fucking monster
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Posted by febyYes I'm scorp moonPosted by Mystik_EnigmaAnd that's the thing with water moons (I'm assuming you are a scorp moon)...you can't lie to them. And that's good. I like being open about my feelings. Sometimes though I'm really stubborn and have trouble making the first move. Although in my dealings with water moons I have always made the first move to open the discussion. It's like a volcano about to boil over though. Not necessarily with anger, just emotion. Like, I can't take this anymore let's just talk, usually with a 'you know why I'm upset, right?' 😄 Door opened so I can plow through 😛Posted by TinxyThe worst thing anyone could do to me is NOTHING. I want direct eye contact and verbal communication - tell me what you did wrong and why, it has to be talked out and sincerely. I can tell if it's sincere or not.Posted by blackphaseI feel so sad inside almost broken I've lost weight can't eat he's like the light to me
I don't think I actually truly forgive... but enough to allow them back into my life. I never actually let go of it unless they go above and beyond to set things right.. which rarely ever happens.. But I still take them back and shower them with my love. I'm starting to think this is beyond Astrology though and that I'm just a tad insane.. 😛
I thought I was doing the right thing by not discussing it I thought it would cause more pain
Oh my dear god I'm a fucking monster
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And lololol I hear ya
Posted by blackphaseI contacted him first yesterday after a week of silence from me bc I wasn't sure abt it allPosted by febyYes, we do know when you are lying!! You can imagine how much fun I've been having with a Pathological Liar. That's why things are never resolved between us. I am suspicious by nature and he hasn't settled any of my distrust in him. But I feel bad for him and care too much to let go. It takes a lot to shake us off 😛 You haven't cheated Tinxy, he is still yours.Posted by Mystik_EnigmaAnd that's the thing with water moons (I'm assuming you are a scorp moon)...you can't lie to them. And that's good. I like being open about my feelings. Sometimes though I'm really stubborn and have trouble making the first move. Although in my dealings with water moons I have always made the first move to open the discussion. It's like a volcano about to boil over though. Not necessarily with anger, just emotion. Like, I can't take this anymore let's just talk, usually with a 'you know why I'm upset, right?' 😄 Door opened so I can plow through 😛Posted by TinxyThe worst thing anyone could do to me is NOTHING. I want direct eye contact and verbal communication - tell me what you did wrong and why, it has to be talked out and sincerely. I can tell if it's sincere or not.Posted by blackphaseI feel so sad inside almost broken I've lost weight can't eat he's like the light to me
I don't think I actually truly forgive... but enough to allow them back into my life. I never actually let go of it unless they go above and beyond to set things right.. which rarely ever happens.. But I still take them back and shower them with my love. I'm starting to think this is beyond Astrology though and that I'm just a tad insane.. 😛
I thought I was doing the right thing by not discussing it I thought it would cause more pain
Oh my dear god I'm a fucking monster
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Should I contact him today to "talk" or shall I wait ? I don't want to pressure him
It sounds stupid but I know how important this is right now
Posted by DwellingOnMoveScorpio lol.Posted by Soul
I think the Sun plays a great deal in the personality also. Like despite having scorpio I can't hold a grudge. I'm kind hearted by nature,...
Your Lilith sign?click to expand
Posted by TinxyI wouldPosted by blackphaseI contacted him first yesterday after a week of silence from me bc I wasn't sure abt it allPosted by febyYes, we do know when you are lying!! You can imagine how much fun I've been having with a Pathological Liar. That's why things are never resolved between us. I am suspicious by nature and he hasn't settled any of my distrust in him. But I feel bad for him and care too much to let go. It takes a lot to shake us off 😛 You haven't cheated Tinxy, he is still yours.Posted by Mystik_EnigmaAnd that's the thing with water moons (I'm assuming you are a scorp moon)...you can't lie to them. And that's good. I like being open about my feelings. Sometimes though I'm really stubborn and have trouble making the first move. Although in my dealings with water moons I have always made the first move to open the discussion. It's like a volcano about to boil over though. Not necessarily with anger, just emotion. Like, I can't take this anymore let's just talk, usually with a 'you know why I'm upset, right?' 😄 Door opened so I can plow through 😛Posted by TinxyThe worst thing anyone could do to me is NOTHING. I want direct eye contact and verbal communication - tell me what you did wrong and why, it has to be talked out and sincerely. I can tell if it's sincere or not.Posted by blackphaseI feel so sad inside almost broken I've lost weight can't eat he's like the light to me
I don't think I actually truly forgive... but enough to allow them back into my life. I never actually let go of it unless they go above and beyond to set things right.. which rarely ever happens.. But I still take them back and shower them with my love. I'm starting to think this is beyond Astrology though and that I'm just a tad insane.. 😛
I thought I was doing the right thing by not discussing it I thought it would cause more pain
Oh my dear god I'm a fucking monster
Should I contact him today to "talk" or shall I wait ? I don't want to pressure him
It sounds stupid but I know how important this is right nowclick to expand
Posted by SoulPosted by DwellingOnMoveScorpio lol.Posted by Soul
I think the Sun plays a great deal in the personality also. Like despite having scorpio I can't hold a grudge. I'm kind hearted by nature,...
Your Lilith sign?
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so your Sun must have really big power over you.
Don't get me wrong, at the time of the betrayal it's obvious I want to end someone. If they try to speak or contact me whatsoever they get nothing but the cold honest hurtful truth I feel inside.
I don't seek them out to keep the end going though. How does that make any sense? Why stay in the painful end when it's long gone? It's time to start somthing new. I think this might actually be my Capricorn Saturn and Uranus in the 7th house speaking.
I have a good defense from dealing with pain from a relationship. That's to keep a certain state of mind from the very beginning. "I'll be just happy with you as I would be without you". I force myself to stay true to this phrase.
I don't seek them out to keep the end going though. How does that make any sense? Why stay in the painful end when it's long gone? It's time to start somthing new. I think this might actually be my Capricorn Saturn and Uranus in the 7th house speaking.
I have a good defense from dealing with pain from a relationship. That's to keep a certain state of mind from the very beginning. "I'll be just happy with you as I would be without you". I force myself to stay true to this phrase.
This is why I love people who make threads and the dxp community. If I wasn't so worried of failure I'd make more myself.
You never know where a thread will end up though. Anything could derail or completely change the outcome of one.
You never know where a thread will end up though. Anything could derail or completely change the outcome of one.
Idk what else to do.. Oh i know
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