I Hate Sluts (Cap Sun, Scorpio Moon)

I'm more of the suffer in silence type, but suffice it to say a date I went on ended badly and I went full on Bull rage in a public place and exposed a cheating, fake, insincere, lying, slut. Did I mention I hate Fake, Sluts? Obviously I'm still pissed but I felt the world needed to know my thoughts.

That is all.

I think you still like her lol.

Posted by DMV
I think you still like her lol.

Lol...

So, your date was the slut?

I don't like a partner that had too many sex partners the most is 1-10 over the decades haha.

Taurus males are picky...and they want stable, consistent relationships.. In the beginning we ask alot of questions about you as friends. We're just different from other people.

I asked an Aquarius male first one...how many gff have you had. He said 17. That was a major red flag. But I went one with it so much after second date was his gf. Fast forward few months. It ended...so I became 18 gffs he has had.

Damn I have to say I had to experience this just to see what's acceptable and what's not. And this was a turn off BUT because I thought we had more in common I let it go..but now I know not to be with someone who has lots of friends or exes. and the reason was logical based and it's unstable.

Perhaps the initial post was vague. Hopefully this clears up any confusion.

We met up at a Cafe and within the first few minutes of talking, shit deteriorated. She didn't want to answer simple questions and kept changing the subject. The usual what did she do, what school did she go to, did she have any kids etc. She instead wanted to flirt with me, she was laying it on rather thick and kept attempting to touch me which was a turn off. I explained I wasn't that kind of guy and blocked her advances which only made her try harder.

Now I enjoy compliments as much as the next person but I mean come on I'm not clueless. I'm nothing special as more than enough superficial twats have made that crystal clear to me over the years. So having this hot woman all over me was alarming and sent up red flags galore. Nearly every man in that place was checking her out and she knew it which is why she kept bending over and putting on a show for everyone. Maybe those games work on other guys, but it just puts me off in the worst way.

The few questions she did answer was that she was Single, never married and didn't have kids.
She also gave different answers to the same questions I asked previously which was irritating me, I'm a Virgo Moon and very true to my chart.

The kicker was when her Husbands sister just happened to show up with a group of friends which obviously caught her off guard. She proceeded to introduce me as a "Co-Worker" who had just suffered a pretty bad breakup and was "Consoling" me. Despite the fact she was dressed like a skank and wasn't even wearing a fucking ring.

It had been not even forty minutes since the beginning of our date and I was angry, humiliated, and pissed off so I got up and exposed her in front of everyone and explained the situation. I could have done it more diplomatically perhaps but I was very rude, cursed her out and generally lost my cool. In the end cops came cause someone called and reported me after I shattered the glass door to the Cafe when I flung it open too hard on my way out. I paid the Cafe for the damages, in exchange I didn't get charged and home I went.

@MysteriousPresence

Yeah, it was definitely the worst experience I've ever had. I've met plenty of Cap women and usually they are much like me shy and reserved to an extent. At least in the beginning. I don't know what her dysfunction was but it made me snap. I rarely ever snap, it takes a lot usually but she did cross several of my lines all at once time so maybe that was it.

I've had many other dates some awkward, others disappointing but never anything to that extreme. Worst feeling in the world. I'm kind of tired of dating personally.It's always a disappointment. Some women are honest and upfront which I welcome. Then there are those who beat around the bush and refuse to be real. I wouldn't have gone on this date but someone encouraged me and unfortunately it ended like it did.

Jeez... Someone's being a drama queen...

Posted by AgentP911
Jeez... Someone's being a drama queen...

Being a Drama Queen would be if I placed bias on EVERY Scorpio based on the actions of one person with just Scorpio aspect. 😛

Oh be careful.. the temper is harsh and can cause damage obviously. Lol..

I have MIT so that shit that girl was doing would have put you straight into friend zone and wouldn't bother explaining. It's a waste of energy,effort, and time.

A bull will give you a chance but start getting attention when you are on a date while you're with me from others, yup not happening..

I would have been livid if that group of friends came in and she introduced me as a co worker knowing it was a date. And we're not co workers either. Haha damn. Lmao. Shit that's crazy..

Posted by busyeyes88
@OP. You are very similar to me!! Are you sure you've not got a Leo moon like mine?! Lol _—

I am Leo Rising. 😛

Which might explain my temper, lol.

Boy, I tell ya. Caps can get some of the strangest reactions out of people lmao. I didn't read anywhere where she intentionally tried to piss you off...but I guess maybe if it was intentional it would've been easier to walk away?

You hate sluts huh? In the future, keep in mind that you don't have to deal with what you dislike. You could have easily wrapped that date up at the start of the weirdness.

Whoa, she was married? I read that as her sisters husband.

Lolll

Posted by DMV
So you went out on a date with a married woman?

You make it read like it's no big issue. That's a deal breaker for a lot of Taurus, myself included. Anyone who has to Lie and keep secrets is the opposite of what most of us seek as we're all about security and stability.

If she's not married. i think you should call her. Sounds like fireworks. it also sounds like she leads with sex which happens.

maybe you can mold her to be the woman she was always meant to be.

Posted by AnomalousBull

Posted by DMV
So you went out on a date with a married woman?

You make it read like it's no big issue. That's a deal breaker for a lot of Taurus, myself included. Anyone who has to Lie and keep secrets is the opposite of what most of us seek as we're all about security and stability.

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howd you find out that she was married?

virgo moons can be good for scorp moons sometimes.

Meeting a total stranger at a cafe... What did you expect?

Posted by busyeyes88
@DMV. The moons don't count if the other is married!! Lol lol Typical sag!! Lol lol Too liberal lol

watch yourself Busy. you get real slick out the mouth when you go on your rants about saggis.

meanwhile, you have a efficiency apartment built over on the sag board.

Posted by AnomalousBull

Posted by AgentP911
Jeez... Someone's being a drama queen...

Being a Drama Queen would be if I placed bias on EVERY Scorpio based on the actions of one person with just Scorpio aspect. 😛

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Being a drama queen in this case isn't about astrology or being bias.

So you had a date with a woman. You met in a cafe.
She wasn't dressed to your particular taste.
She didn't act to your particular taste.
It was revealed she was married or otherwise unavailable.
You thanked her for her time, said its not a match, and politely left.

Except you didn't do that. You became an unnecessary drama queen!

Where are you selecting these delightful women from?

There's no need to be so judgemental about it. People are people.

I normally wouldn't give a married woman the time of day, unless she's been separated for years. Even then, I would want to know why she hasn't gotten a divorce. To me, its a breach of loyalty and I hate loose ends.

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Posted by DMV
If she's not married. i think you should call her. Sounds like fireworks. it also sounds like she leads with sex which happens.

maybe you can mold her to be the woman she was always meant to be.

This is like Lion King levels of optimism right here. I dig it.

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lol. im a scorp moon and i know how i can be.

Posted by tiziani

Posted by DMV
If she's not married. i think you should call her. Sounds like fireworks. it also sounds like she leads with sex which happens.

maybe you can mold her to be the woman she was always meant to be.

This is like Lion King levels of optimism right here. I dig it.

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That's not optimism, that's slut supporting and drama making.
Why on earth anyone would encourage another person to ignore major red flags is beyond me.

Posted by DMV
If she's not married. i think you should call her. Sounds like fireworks. it also sounds like she leads with sex which happens.

maybe you can mold her to be the woman she was always meant to be.

Sounds like a restraining order and 10 to life for murder in the first degree.

Posted by Infinite8

Posted by AnomalousBull

The kicker was when her Husbands sister just happened to show up with a group of friends which obviously caught her off guard. She proceeded to introduce me as a "Co-Worker" who had just suffered a pretty bad breakup and was "Consoling" me. Despite the fact she was dressed like a skank and wasn't even wearing a fucking ring.

It had been not even forty minutes since the beginning of our date and I was angry, humiliated, and pissed off so I got up and exposed her in front of everyone and explained the situation. I could have done it more diplomatically perhaps but I was very rude, cursed her out and generally lost my cool. In the end cops came cause someone called and reported me after I shattered the glass door to the Cafe when I flung it open too hard on my way out. I paid the Cafe for the damages, in exchange I didn't get charged and home I went.

Wow.... Why such an explosive response? Why did she (a stranger) have such a huge power over you where you lost it? Was it because she wasted your time?
She needed to be exposed... She's a liar and that was awesome that you got the chance to expose her like that... But, why such volatile anger?

If anything... I understand how the situation was annoying and a waste of your precious time. But other than that... I don't see how she deserved such emotions from you. You gave her so much credit by doing that. You actually made her important.

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I don't think he validated her at all.
Some people just express anger differently.

Posted by AnomalousBull

It had been not even forty minutes since the beginning of our date and I was angry, humiliated, and pissed off so I got up and exposed her in front of everyone and explained the situation. I could have done it more diplomatically perhaps but I was very rude, cursed her out and generally lost my cool. In the end cops came cause someone called and reported me after I shattered the glass door to the Cafe when I flung it open too hard on my way out. I paid the Cafe for the damages, in exchange I didn't get charged and home I went.

LMAO

That woman did nothing to deserve that, married or not. It was the FIRST date smh.

There was NOTHING invested, not even worth exposing her. I just don't get it.

Im not about to sit anywhere where Im uncomfortable and putting effort into basically a stranger, absolutely not.

But before any of that he was supposedly turned off by her. He said she wouldn't answer questions, kept flirting so he figured her type, kept getting attention from others...so he was already turned off. What flipped the switch ON like that. Makes no sense to me.

If I find out a dude Im not attracted to, and already having a horrible date with, is married Im grateful for the opportunity to be able to leave earlier than expected or it would all be hilarious to me. Idk

You're a fuckin idiot anonymous bull or whatever the hell you call yourself. Caps are nervous when meeting someone and we certainly arent going to answer your resume of question until WAY further down the the line. Her flirting was a way of covering up her nervousness but your too dumb to get it. And you couldnt just quietly excuse ypurself? You sound like such a lil bitch. Thank GOD that poor girl got away from u. U sound like a homo.

Posted by KittenLaRouge
You're a fuckin idiot anonymous bull or whatever the hell you call yourself. Caps are nervous when meeting someone and we certainly arent going to answer your resume of question until WAY further down the the line. Her flirting was a way of covering up her nervousness but your too dumb to get it. And you couldnt just quietly excuse ypurself? You sound like such a lil bitch. Thank GOD that poor girl got away from u. U sound like a homo.

If she isn't married, this would be the case.

I rarely answer questions, I deflect. I may even be a tad bit sexual as to distract you and feel more at ease.

She wouldn't act like that if she wasnt interested.

@dmv I wont answer questions either, ill giggle. And trust, im no dummy, its simply my way of deflecting and saying "Im not comfortable answering your questions. Ill let you know when im good and ready." This isnt a job interview, lighten up. As far as married, she had a ring? Is there proof of marriage. Anyway, calling a chick out in public and breaking a door is beyond lame. But obviously has garnered applause from the forum as if hes some sort of vigilante slut shamer when in reality he sounds incredibly immature. A real man would have quietly excused himself. Possible the OP is trying out for a real housewives spot idk

Posted by leomoondoucherat
^don't pay attention to this woman she's probably a dude. she was exposed as a catfish years back and still has the balls to post here. tough scales on this fish. she will giggle and deflect from the fact that she has a dick.

oh look its the "king of dxp". the one who has never logged off day after day after day for YEARS! Your such a closet homo and a "wanna be american" seriously why anyone would by any of your fake "affluence" is beyond me. lol

Posted by leomoondoucherat
wanna be american? i'm canadian lmao.

i get it this cap woman presented herself as something she is not, which made you empathize with her being a catfish yourself lolol!

no, you taurus homo's cant handle cap women! "oh she wouldn't answer my laundry list of questions on the FIRST date" "oh she was flirting with me and she was hot and everyone was looking at her". My gosh, can someone pull the stick out of the OP's azz geez!! lol

"and i feel like a CHAMPION coz i called her out and broke a door!" "FIST PUMP!" LULZ SO LAME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Posted by busyeyes88
@R76. My best friend has a scorpio moon. Thanks!!

The OP was humiliated and bulls hate disappointment and humiliation especially in public and at the same time! We are also quick tempered. Before judging put yourself in the OP's position before judging!

To be honest I can't stand water signs in general... I find them WEAK... Too much water turns earth to mud!!! Get it!!

hell naw, this earth sign loves pisces (preferably if they have a lil fire lol) so GTFO! lol

Posted by leomoondoucherat
^don't pay attention to this woman she's probably a dude. she was exposed as a catfish years back and still has the balls to post here. tough scales on this fish. she will giggle and deflect from the fact that she has a dick.

I had no intention of it. The fact shes sticking up for someone whom cheats, lies, and has no self respect for themselves speaks volumes about what type of person kitten is and in my opinion she shot herself in the head especially with using "homo" as an insult. That's the most immature thing I've read in quite awhile. But anyway, enough about that charming individual. smh.

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Posted by Infinite8
It would have been hilarious for me too. But.... I'm a Scorp and sometimes a little devil 😈 I would have taken great pleasure out of exposing her and embarrassing her like that. It just would have given me pleasure to see her get caught in her own ugly game.

But it's like you say - feelings are irritation, perhaps boredom, 😈 evil pleasure and humor. Not volatile anger... I wouldn't be THAT emotionally invested (I keep that for when I actually care)!

lol, I can only tell you one thing if I was an observer. Even if he was screaming and putting the slut on blast, I could only see a man who lost his shit and out of control.

But I do agree with the OP that she was lying to his face and wasted his time. The rest he allowed himself to feel or react was on him.

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I accepted full responsibility for the aftermath. I shouldn't have snapped, but for me it's a lot more complicated than that. She lead me on, pretended to care, and knew that we'd have no future together. I mean who does this!? Yes I shouldn't have lost it but she shouldn't have done what she did either. It normally takes a lot for me to snap, I usually keep my emotions under check but she crossed so many lines in a short amount of time. I don't expect others to understand.

I think we'd understand if you were a bit more honest. You posted initially as if you had no interest at all in her, like you wrote her off very early on in the date. Many were confused because of your reaction after you claimed she basically wasnt your type.

Now, its starting to read as if you did have hope and was extremely disappointed. That angle makes a bit more sense.

I bet she feels bad now.

It may have been the type of explosion she needs to snap out of her behavior.

Yeah, but you have to wonder whats going on in her marriage for her to go to this extent. Many are known for rebound relationships, which I always feel is wrong because of this feeling...being lead on, and it seems this was that type of situation except she was married...but it's like she was either looking for attention or a quick rebound hookup. Who knows, but this stuff unfortunately happens. For her, Im sure it'll be a lesson to not use someone in the midst of her drama. We get our karma quick...the sis catching her and the blowup.

Yeah, who knows. She'll definitely think twice though lol.

Hahaha.

AnomalousBull.

Don't get me wrong. You met her online and went to cafe. She won't dressed up like a slut and no ring in her finger if it was oops just stumble a stranger along the way. lol

My ex bull: Virgo moon , leo rising. nah... he likes dating online. cheap. lol.

My ex bull is such a liar. The moment I announced it in front of him. He immediately react instead of responding.

Me: You are such a liar.
Him: there you go - I am done.
Me: really? you did this blah blah blah. Here's the evidence.
Him: whatever.
Me: You can't fool me. Fool!! ( yelling at him).

hahaha. I know how to spot a lie... I mastered the taurus communication tactics. 😆

Posted by dontgetmewrong
Inana -you're missing the point...there shouldn't even have been a 1st date. She's MARRIED!!! She showed up dressed like a street walker..not so much of a "hi" she ready to dry hump him in the cafe, (while he's trying to do what normal people do on a date, trying to get to know her) and obviously seeking attention from other patrons. Just her luck, her sister in law shows up and all of a sudden she's a stepford wife just lending a sympathetic ear...

She just thought she was smart that's all, and she got called out on her shot and got caught instead. She had it comin..

Wish I was there to witness that, I'm sure the patrons had some good gossip to talk about on the way home. 😄

Still don't agree on breaking property though..

Thats only his side of the story, dont be so gullible!

Posted by lnana04

Now, its starting to read as if you did have hope and was extremely disappointed. That angle makes a bit more sense.

maybe it wasn't exactly hope in her per se but hope in the process, hope in achieving the long term goal.

isn't that why we go on dates? in the hope that the process will eventually lead us to loving someone and being loved by them?

People are different and not everyone goes on dates for the same reason.

Some people look for relationships, some people look for marriage material, some just look to meet people or have fun, then there's those like my mom that will go on a date for a free meal for the night lol. It depends.

It seems he is the type looking for long term potential. She showed big red flags early on, so typically expectations are lowered dramatically as you see this has potential to go nowhere. I almost dont see how he was lead on considering his mind seemed to be made about her from basically the start. Idk

Posted by lnana04
People are different and not everyone goes on dates for the same reason.

Some people look for relationships, some people look for marriage material, some just look to meet people or have fun, then there's those like my mom that will go on a date for a free meal for the night lol. It depends.

It seems he is the type looking for long term potential. She showed big red flags early on, so typically expectations are lowered dramatically as you see this has potential to go nowhere. I almost dont see how he was lead on considering his mind seemed to be made about her from basically the start. Idk

when i read your post I thought perhaps that was my Libra side showing; maybe I only go on dates when there is perhaps a romantic potential. I mean, ive met people and I didn't go on dates to do it and I'm perfectly happy buying my own food so maybe it was me, maybe I am out of touch. So I sought a definition...

"date
Two people getting together for an activity when the possibility of romance between them has been broached but not ruled out. Since the exploration of romance is the purpose of a date, merely asking someone out on a date is sufficient to broach the subject. Dates may or not continue once a couple have entered into a romantic relationship. The word "date" may be used to identify a get together between two people not romantically involved, but this usage is meant to convey irony, since such a meeting is not a date in the true sense of the word."

No, apparently that is what most people expect.

Lol. If you can't handle real dedicated and honest people, who are really interested in long term when it comes to dating, not into games, and are loyal and faithful, Look for a Taurus.

If not go somewhere else and look for an air sign or mutable. We are picky but of this very reason he went through. You guys and girls have it so easy than others. But not Taurus..we're different the odd balls..the high standards type, the expectations are because of what we go through in life.

To put everything upfront right away. And get lied to. Especially married people who claim to be single. Or whatever..who the fuck would accept that bullshit.. I mention it takes 1-100 really quick to do something wrong in front of a Taurus.

No we're not perfect, just look at what lies, manipulation, users, and cheaters do. That's why you can't find Taurus because we are working long hours and go home and are comfortable..cook a meal, sip on a drink, and a nice relaxing movie. And guess what I am not worried.. I'm happy.

Yes some of us bulls need anger management or just really walk the fuck away....I have slammed a door before but wasn't intentional it was a reaction, and the door really just flung open and hit the wall..

After that I felt bad because I wasn't mad I was frustrated, and communication at work wasn't right between me and a co worker.. the last minute changes unexpectedly type of thing. But really was an accident..

Definitions are always a nice reference, but folks tend to do what they want and clearly have their own agenda, as we saw here.

He's been on dates in the past and has been disappointed. He's use to his expectations not being met when it comes to dating, unfortunately. Same thing here. Besides, on a first date the world is not promised to you. You go and feel a person out, and decide if more is worth pursuing. Again, he was fortunate to see early on she was not it. Why the big deal about it.