Did I come on too strong?

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Scorpiomermaid
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We met a few months back, instant attraction, ended up seeing each other this past weekend for four days, slept together starting the third day. We have been texting since, but I have FALLEN for this guy. I'm obsessed with him, I can't stop thinking about him, I already want him to move to my city and for us to live happy ever after. It's an hour drive between us and he asked me to come yesterday and I couldn't but I said I could tonight. He never mentioned tonight much, then says his phone broke today, and he got a new one, and texted me at 9:30pm... Said he missed me and some other things that made me feel on top of the moon. At 1030 I offered to drive over but he just said... Tonight? Then a few texts later I tried to make weekend plans and he didn't commit to them either. What do u think, did I make myself too available? (Sex so soon and offering to go visit). How do I know if he's head over heels for me? Will we have to stay in this limbo for long? Will he fall in love easily/quickly? I'm Scorpio by the way. And this Pisces just had my heart flipping! Thanks for any insight!
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SomeWman
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10 Years1,000+ Posts

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Posted by Arrius
So, you've taken up with a Pisces male.

Let me give you a friendly warning. Remember Wendy Darling. You know. From "Peter Pan." Wendy found Peter enchanting-- literally. But when the time came to choose, Peter left Wendy and went back to Neverland.

There are more "Peter Pans" in the ranks of Pisces males than you can scatter with a fair sized pebble. You need to be very careful.
What's the best approach then in your opinion?
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SomeWman
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Posted by Scorpiomermaid
We met a few months back, instant attraction, ended up seeing each other this past weekend for four days, slept together starting the third day. We have been texting since, but I have FALLEN for this guy. I'm obsessed with him, I can't stop thinking about him, I already want him to move to my city and for us to live happy ever after. It's an hour drive between us and he asked me to come yesterday and I couldn't but I said I could tonight. He never mentioned tonight much, then says his phone broke today, and he got a new one, and texted me at 9:30pm... Said he missed me and some other things that made me feel on top of the moon. At 1030 I offered to drive over but he just said... Tonight? Then a few texts later I tried to make weekend plans and he didn't commit to them either. What do u think, did I make myself too available? (Sex so soon and offering to go visit). How do I know if he's head over heels for me? Will we have to stay in this limbo for long? Will he fall in love easily/quickly? I'm Scorpio by the way. And this Pisces just had my heart flipping! Thanks for any insight!
I think maybe you shouldn't have asked to go over at 10.30 after his text. You could've just let him say the sweet things and said some back and then waited until he initiated another date himself. Or given it a few days and then mentioned seeing him again yourself. Maybe just play it cool from now on but gradually build on the relationship.