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  • justagirl
    Crime fighting on rooftops by night.
    Now you gotta teach it tricks 😂😂
  • justagirl
    Crime fighting on rooftops by night.
    Posted by CuddleBug88
    Posted by justagirl
    Y'all need Jesus! Dirty pervs 😏


    Lol...mhmm, okaaaay 😋
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    You already know my mind lives in the gutter, even tho I am innocent 😇 🤣
  • justagirl
    Crime fighting on rooftops by night.
    Y'all need Jesus! Dirty pervs 😏
  • justagirl
    Crime fighting on rooftops by night.
    Posted by saggurl88
    Posted by justagirl
    Posted by saggurl88
    I’m boring and have no fantasies because I will just end up doing it.

    That's the Sag way. *cough sag doms too*


    Hahahaha. ***High Five****
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    LOL Life is about trying new things and adventure... right? Big Grin
  • justagirl
    Crime fighting on rooftops by night.
    Posted by Ixion
    Posted by justagirl
    Posted by Ixion
    Posted by justagirl
    Posted by Ixion
    Posted by justagirl
    Posted by Ixion
    Posted by justagirl
    Posted by Ixion
    Posted by LadyNeptune
    Posted by Ixion
    Posted by LadyNeptune
    I'm prolly not the best female to speak on this cause I'm confident, overly confident in my skin. Comes in part from living in a suit most of my life. You embrace what you got when your wearing next to nothing in the pool.

    But I can say don't deny her sex when she initiates. We haven't had to deal with romantic rejection as much as dudes have cause gender norms and all that. We aren't equipped to deal and shut down. We take it as a real insult.


    Lol that I already know...but hey lissen sometimes I'm just not up for it and she will have to deal just like I have to on the other 364 days of the year (365 if its a leap lol).

    I get what you're saying though and I do try to be mindful of rejecting affection even when I'm not feeling too affectionate.


    Ask her whats in the toy chest and tell her you want to try one out on her. Thats why vibrators were invented. Trust me on this one, women have perfected the art of the lazy orgasm in 3 mins flat lol.


    Lol there ain't nothing there ...I checked...my Gem Mars looks for Tortu----ergh...toys as a function of nature lol. I just gotta do it the old fashion way.

    Or suggest a visit to a shop to pick out something together.


    She may be more open to that...not sure though..food for thought.

    Aquas are freaks just like Virgos, actually more so. trust me.


    Ohhhhh??? Do Tell Big Grin

    You already know!


    Lissen Linda.... Paint a picture of the possibilities 😁

    *zippered mouth emoji*


    Nahhhhhhh budddyyyyy......c'mon where is that sag moon bluntness?
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    The aqua sun ate it.
  • justagirl
    Crime fighting on rooftops by night.
    I think most here have figured out I have a Cat woman/Batman fantasy.
  • justagirl
    Crime fighting on rooftops by night.
    ohhh boy.
  • justagirl
    Crime fighting on rooftops by night.
    Posted by saggurl88
    I’m boring and have no fantasies because I will just end up doing it.

    That's the Sag way. *cough sag doms too*
  • justagirl
    Crime fighting on rooftops by night.
    Posted by i-xy
    Posted by justagirl
    Posted by i-xy
    Swingers club

    Plenty of rooms with various themes. Health and safety crew 24/7. Encourage and require people to shower inbetween sessions. I play the music and get the money.



    New idea to make some money @Duncan


    Rooms that are meant for people to live out different fantasies.

    Probably have scripts laying around to stimulate people to participate effectively in given theme of the room.

    Of course, all participants require to hand in police clearance 😬

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    haha.
  • justagirl
    Crime fighting on rooftops by night.
    Posted by Ixion
    Posted by justagirl
    Posted by Ixion
    Posted by justagirl
    Posted by Ixion
    Posted by justagirl
    Posted by Ixion
    Posted by LadyNeptune
    Posted by Ixion
    Posted by LadyNeptune
    I'm prolly not the best female to speak on this cause I'm confident, overly confident in my skin. Comes in part from living in a suit most of my life. You embrace what you got when your wearing next to nothing in the pool.

    But I can say don't deny her sex when she initiates. We haven't had to deal with romantic rejection as much as dudes have cause gender norms and all that. We aren't equipped to deal and shut down. We take it as a real insult.


    Lol that I already know...but hey lissen sometimes I'm just not up for it and she will have to deal just like I have to on the other 364 days of the year (365 if its a leap lol).

    I get what you're saying though and I do try to be mindful of rejecting affection even when I'm not feeling too affectionate.


    Ask her whats in the toy chest and tell her you want to try one out on her. Thats why vibrators were invented. Trust me on this one, women have perfected the art of the lazy orgasm in 3 mins flat lol.


    Lol there ain't nothing there ...I checked...my Gem Mars looks for Tortu----ergh...toys as a function of nature lol. I just gotta do it the old fashion way.

    Or suggest a visit to a shop to pick out something together.


    She may be more open to that...not sure though..food for thought.

    Aquas are freaks just like Virgos, actually more so. trust me.


    Ohhhhh??? Do Tell Big Grin

    You already know!


    Lissen Linda.... Paint a picture of the possibilities 😁
    click to expand

    *zippered mouth emoji*
  • justagirl
    Crime fighting on rooftops by night.
    Posted by i-xy
    Swingers club

    Plenty of rooms with various themes. Health and safety crew 24/7. Encourage and require people to shower inbetween sessions. I play the music and get the money.



    New idea to make some money @Duncan
  • justagirl
    Crime fighting on rooftops by night.
    Posted by Ixion
    Posted by justagirl
    Posted by Ixion
    Posted by justagirl
    Posted by Ixion
    Posted by LadyNeptune
    Posted by Ixion
    Posted by LadyNeptune
    I'm prolly not the best female to speak on this cause I'm confident, overly confident in my skin. Comes in part from living in a suit most of my life. You embrace what you got when your wearing next to nothing in the pool.

    But I can say don't deny her sex when she initiates. We haven't had to deal with romantic rejection as much as dudes have cause gender norms and all that. We aren't equipped to deal and shut down. We take it as a real insult.


    Lol that I already know...but hey lissen sometimes I'm just not up for it and she will have to deal just like I have to on the other 364 days of the year (365 if its a leap lol).

    I get what you're saying though and I do try to be mindful of rejecting affection even when I'm not feeling too affectionate.


    Ask her whats in the toy chest and tell her you want to try one out on her. Thats why vibrators were invented. Trust me on this one, women have perfected the art of the lazy orgasm in 3 mins flat lol.


    Lol there ain't nothing there ...I checked...my Gem Mars looks for Tortu----ergh...toys as a function of nature lol. I just gotta do it the old fashion way.

    Or suggest a visit to a shop to pick out something together.


    She may be more open to that...not sure though..food for thought.

    Aquas are freaks just like Virgos, actually more so. trust me.


    Ohhhhh??? Do Tell Big Grin
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    You already know!
  • justagirl
    Crime fighting on rooftops by night.
    Posted by brianafay
    I didn’t really fantasize before, but these pregnancy hormones are crazy

    Saw a hot builder yesterday at work and now I’m having all kinds of weird construction worker thoughts 😂

    You want him to bend you over that pile of 2x4's and jackhammer away , don't you? Tongue
  • justagirl
    Crime fighting on rooftops by night.
    Posted by Ixion
    Posted by justagirl
    Posted by Ixion
    Posted by LadyNeptune
    Posted by Ixion
    Posted by LadyNeptune
    I'm prolly not the best female to speak on this cause I'm confident, overly confident in my skin. Comes in part from living in a suit most of my life. You embrace what you got when your wearing next to nothing in the pool.

    But I can say don't deny her sex when she initiates. We haven't had to deal with romantic rejection as much as dudes have cause gender norms and all that. We aren't equipped to deal and shut down. We take it as a real insult.


    Lol that I already know...but hey lissen sometimes I'm just not up for it and she will have to deal just like I have to on the other 364 days of the year (365 if its a leap lol).

    I get what you're saying though and I do try to be mindful of rejecting affection even when I'm not feeling too affectionate.


    Ask her whats in the toy chest and tell her you want to try one out on her. Thats why vibrators were invented. Trust me on this one, women have perfected the art of the lazy orgasm in 3 mins flat lol.


    Lol there ain't nothing there ...I checked...my Gem Mars looks for Tortu----ergh...toys as a function of nature lol. I just gotta do it the old fashion way.

    Or suggest a visit to a shop to pick out something together.


    She may be more open to that...not sure though..food for thought.
    click to expand

    Aquas are freaks just like Virgos, actually more so. trust me.
  • justagirl
    Crime fighting on rooftops by night.
    Posted by Ixion
    Posted by LadyNeptune
    Posted by Ixion
    Posted by LadyNeptune
    I'm prolly not the best female to speak on this cause I'm confident, overly confident in my skin. Comes in part from living in a suit most of my life. You embrace what you got when your wearing next to nothing in the pool.

    But I can say don't deny her sex when she initiates. We haven't had to deal with romantic rejection as much as dudes have cause gender norms and all that. We aren't equipped to deal and shut down. We take it as a real insult.


    Lol that I already know...but hey lissen sometimes I'm just not up for it and she will have to deal just like I have to on the other 364 days of the year (365 if its a leap lol).

    I get what you're saying though and I do try to be mindful of rejecting affection even when I'm not feeling too affectionate.


    Ask her whats in the toy chest and tell her you want to try one out on her. Thats why vibrators were invented. Trust me on this one, women have perfected the art of the lazy orgasm in 3 mins flat lol.


    Lol there ain't nothing there ...I checked...my Gem Mars looks for Tortu----ergh...toys as a function of nature lol. I just gotta do it the old fashion way.
    click to expand

    Or suggest a visit to a shop to pick out something together.
  • justagirl
    Crime fighting on rooftops by night.
    Posted by MyStarsShine
    Posted by Ixion
    Posted by MyStarsShine
    Don't just compliment her on the physical, although that is,lovely, if it isn't balanced with something a little deeper, it can become a little boring

    I've had partners tell me they loved my sense of humour, kindness, softness etc



    It's an important nuance.


    Sure is and will earn you some brownie points lol 👍

    One of the biggest turn ons for me is a bloke that can make me laugh my socks off .... that is very sexy to me, not a guy that's a bit pretensions and up himself, now that's a turn off
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    This is ssoooo important.
  • justagirl
    Crime fighting on rooftops by night.
    Posted by Ixion
    Posted by justagirl
    Posted by Ixion
    Posted by FantamRooster
    Posted by Ixion
    Posted by justagirl
    Posted by Ixion
    Posted by justagirl
    Posted by Ixion
    I am of the mind that of course, I can't make anyone feel something they don't themselves believe is or could be true but I am also of the mind that acceptance of oneself is something that can definitely be helped by your partner (maybe its just the Virguy in me). So if you have been helped by your partner to feel better about yourself what did they do, how did they go about what they did? Please share.

    What inspired this thread was the notion of body positivity and self-acceptance because despite that I am only 27... I have dated a lot of girls when I was teen, and more than few women in my short span as a full-fledged adult I have noticed that a lot of girls and women shared a number of self-esteem issues regardless of their cultural backgrounds, ages, fitness, interests, sexuality, and careers...so much so that I think there really is an epidemic of insecurity.

    Which is a shame...because the older I get the more relationships that I have, I find that insecurity is one of the most corrosive toxins that a relationship can succumb to.


    Media and social media has destroyed many a woman's self esteem. Not sure what to add as a positive solution other than just reinforcing that she is beautiful and remember she never looks fat in those jeans, EVER.


    You know...Jag...in all my short time...no girl has ever asked me if they look fat in those jeans...but then again I have always had a thing for a girl with booties so that might be it lol.

    haha, but you got what I was saying right? As stupid as it sounds, all woman compare themselves to other females, I don't care how good looking a person is they do it. Whether it triggers insecurities or not is a separate thing. They will also compare themselves mentally to your previous G/F's too.

    Not exactly sure what the answer is to stop all this but I do know that whenever I got the "oh wow you look nice today" or beautiful or just noticing if I wore something new, had a new hair style etc. it made me realize he noticed the little things and it in turn made me feel better, because he noticed. I can see how that can be tiresome after a long period of time, but hopefully the inner need to be soothed about this will dissipate after time together.


    Gawd I hope you're right. And it is something I work on. I notice a TON of lil things bout my past and current partners but I don't point out every little thing because I would think she knows. And often times I feel when I say something good they would brush things off...or say some truly annoying butter like "you're supposed to say that you're my bf" -that would make me feel like maybe words aren't demonstrative enough.


    Seconding that we want to hear the compliments even if we sometimes think that you're just saying it because you're the bf.



    Alright so profuse complimenting. What if she doesn't feel pretty...and when you say to the contrary you look good she's like "Nah, stop 🙄"

    I used to never ever take compliments, I still sometimes struggle, and that is because I myself have days I feel very horrible about myself and nothing anyone says will change that. I have actually told a few folks to treetrunk off in my youth.. which was totally unwarranted and I can tell those stories later lol You've seen my self deprecating humor first hand, does she do that? lol

    I like the authentic , truthful compliments and knowing I had his support, even on my fat days and when I knew I looked like butter lol I would lose respect for someone that told me I wasn't thic when I know for a fact I am. Always be authentic and truthful, but tactful, which I am sure you know how to do all that.

    If she herself doesn't have self esteem issues and just needs to acknowledgment of her BF caring/noticing. the small things being noticed every so often will be appreciated. If she has self esteem issues, encourage her to try to work through them, ask her what can you do to help support her through it and get to the other side.


    Lol a Leo Venus lie about his partner not looking their best? Blasphemy.

    Lol I get you...anything I say to her I mean it in the most authentic of terms and I never try to sugarcoat butter with her...she has never been the type to appreciate that. That last part of working through her insecurities...well let me ask you since you are an Aqua....how easy was it for you to even find words to describe those emotions, the things that you feel made you deficient? Was there a learning curve for you? If so how did you manage to become more able to articulate those feelings?

    Its just hard to even have a conversation about those insecurities with her Aqua Sun, Cancer Moon because she can't find the words.
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    Near to impossible lol I have had many a stumbling conversations and being misunderstood and it would take several attempts at communicating what I was trying to. Hopefully she has a strong positive merc to help with communication and not a blunt brash one. I still struggle, not going to lie, I kept/keep most of it to myself and just try to manage best I can. Sorry I'm no help lol
  • justagirl
    Crime fighting on rooftops by night.
    Posted by LadyNeptune
    Bae tells me I'm getting thicker and he likes it.
    My response: lemme bump my belly against your beer belly

    *chases him with my gut

    Must be that baby bump Tongue
  • justagirl
    Crime fighting on rooftops by night.
    Posted by Ixion
    Posted by FantamRooster
    Posted by Ixion
    Posted by justagirl
    Posted by Ixion
    Posted by justagirl
    Posted by Ixion
    I am of the mind that of course, I can't make anyone feel something they don't themselves believe is or could be true but I am also of the mind that acceptance of oneself is something that can definitely be helped by your partner (maybe its just the Virguy in me). So if you have been helped by your partner to feel better about yourself what did they do, how did they go about what they did? Please share.

    What inspired this thread was the notion of body positivity and self-acceptance because despite that I am only 27... I have dated a lot of girls when I was teen, and more than few women in my short span as a full-fledged adult I have noticed that a lot of girls and women shared a number of self-esteem issues regardless of their cultural backgrounds, ages, fitness, interests, sexuality, and careers...so much so that I think there really is an epidemic of insecurity.

    Which is a shame...because the older I get the more relationships that I have, I find that insecurity is one of the most corrosive toxins that a relationship can succumb to.


    Media and social media has destroyed many a woman's self esteem. Not sure what to add as a positive solution other than just reinforcing that she is beautiful and remember she never looks fat in those jeans, EVER.


    You know...Jag...in all my short time...no girl has ever asked me if they look fat in those jeans...but then again I have always had a thing for a girl with booties so that might be it lol.

    haha, but you got what I was saying right? As stupid as it sounds, all woman compare themselves to other females, I don't care how good looking a person is they do it. Whether it triggers insecurities or not is a separate thing. They will also compare themselves mentally to your previous G/F's too.

    Not exactly sure what the answer is to stop all this but I do know that whenever I got the "oh wow you look nice today" or beautiful or just noticing if I wore something new, had a new hair style etc. it made me realize he noticed the little things and it in turn made me feel better, because he noticed. I can see how that can be tiresome after a long period of time, but hopefully the inner need to be soothed about this will dissipate after time together.


    Gawd I hope you're right. And it is something I work on. I notice a TON of lil things bout my past and current partners but I don't point out every little thing because I would think she knows. And often times I feel when I say something good they would brush things off...or say some truly annoying butter like "you're supposed to say that you're my bf" -that would make me feel like maybe words aren't demonstrative enough.


    Seconding that we want to hear the compliments even if we sometimes think that you're just saying it because you're the bf.



    Alright so profuse complimenting. What if she doesn't feel pretty...and when you say to the contrary you look good she's like "Nah, stop 🙄"
    click to expand

    I used to never ever take compliments, I still sometimes struggle, and that is because I myself have days I feel very horrible about myself and nothing anyone says will change that. I have actually told a few folks to treetrunk off in my youth.. which was totally unwarranted and I can tell those stories later lol You've seen my self deprecating humor first hand, does she do that? lol

    I like the authentic , truthful compliments and knowing I had his support, even on my fat days and when I knew I looked like butter lol I would lose respect for someone that told me I wasn't thic when I know for a fact I am. Always be authentic and truthful, but tactful, which I am sure you know how to do all that.

    If she herself doesn't have self esteem issues and just needs to acknowledgment of her BF caring/noticing. the small things being noticed every so often will be appreciated. If she has self esteem issues, encourage her to try to work through them, ask her what can you do to help support her through it and get to the other side.
  • justagirl
    Crime fighting on rooftops by night.
    Posted by Ixion
    Posted by justagirl
    Posted by Ixion
    Posted by justagirl
    Posted by Ixion
    I am of the mind that of course, I can't make anyone feel something they don't themselves believe is or could be true but I am also of the mind that acceptance of oneself is something that can definitely be helped by your partner (maybe its just the Virguy in me). So if you have been helped by your partner to feel better about yourself what did they do, how did they go about what they did? Please share.

    What inspired this thread was the notion of body positivity and self-acceptance because despite that I am only 27... I have dated a lot of girls when I was teen, and more than few women in my short span as a full-fledged adult I have noticed that a lot of girls and women shared a number of self-esteem issues regardless of their cultural backgrounds, ages, fitness, interests, sexuality, and careers...so much so that I think there really is an epidemic of insecurity.

    Which is a shame...because the older I get the more relationships that I have, I find that insecurity is one of the most corrosive toxins that a relationship can succumb to.


    Media and social media has destroyed many a woman's self esteem. Not sure what to add as a positive solution other than just reinforcing that she is beautiful and remember she never looks fat in those jeans, EVER.


    You know...Jag...in all my short time...no girl has ever asked me if they look fat in those jeans...but then again I have always had a thing for a girl with booties so that might be it lol.

    haha, but you got what I was saying right? As stupid as it sounds, all woman compare themselves to other females, I don't care how good looking a person is they do it. Whether it triggers insecurities or not is a separate thing. They will also compare themselves mentally to your previous G/F's too.

    Not exactly sure what the answer is to stop all this but I do know that whenever I got the "oh wow you look nice today" or beautiful or just noticing if I wore something new, had a new hair style etc. it made me realize he noticed the little things and it in turn made me feel better, because he noticed. I can see how that can be tiresome after a long period of time, but hopefully the inner need to be soothed about this will dissipate after time together.


    Gawd I hope you're right. And it is something I work on. I notice a TON of lil things bout my past and current partners but I don't point out every little thing because I would think she knows. And often times I feel when I say something good they would brush things off...or say some truly annoying butter like "you're supposed to say that you're my bf" -that would make me feel like maybe words aren't demonstrative enough.
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    This is your first Aqua tho.. she will appreciate it.