Do you mean that it will make him more motivated towards work and want to have material things?If thats the case yes,my baby is alot more of a workaholic than he was before but thats driven by he wants to spoil me so yeah,wouldn't say it's a greed type thing.Also he beat himself up alot when he didn't have a job periods because he felt guilty that I wasn't getting gifts for holidays and was paying the bills by myself.It was still motivated by how he felt.
Thanks Tia. That was exactly what I've been asking for. Wow. I'm shocked. Hey, btw, what are the up's and down's of this situation? I mean if he gets mad at you or something like that, does he start to lose the motivation?
So far,the loss of motivation usually involves deaths.One of the jobs loss periods was when his grandfather died and he went into a depression because his intuition kicked in on his way to work and he ignored it.Then about ten minutes after getting to work he got the phone call that he died only three minutes before the phone call.We're more likely to just gripe back and forth and forget about it,we're a little too honest,it turns out being more funny than anything serious when it's over.
What I did to cause it?I don't know honestly.I was really,really withdrawn,negative and paranoid when he meet me.It wasn't until after he started picking at me and played psychologist on me,that I started actually being myself and learning who I am now.Beyond that he's just himself too,part of the reason some of you guys here confuse me by the whys that you can't be yourself and not be truely loved.There hasn't been any real downs yet that is a result of something I did.The grandfather thing he did take out on me a little verbally but realised it wasn't my fault on his own.I knew he was really upset about it so didn't argue with him much in my defense just basically played verbal punching bag so he'd feel better type thing and didn't take it personally.Theres alot I do for/give him in return but in different ways.
LOL,you know you don't have to play nice with me ya know,yes im avoiding the question as to the ups and downs.I don't care to much about the material stuff,whats behind it means more to me and the his being away for hours and stuff doesn't bother me much either because it gives me time to myself.Im not much of a nagger in either of those departments and if he had his way(unmaterialistic world)he wouldn't leave the house or let me leave.
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