A Question For the Ladies

Hi everyone!

I have found that every time I date a guy, he sticks to me like an extra appendage. We are talking level 10 cling factor. The sign does not matter. My Aries ex, cap ex, cancer ex, gem exes, etc... When I was with each one, they were around me almost 24/7 on their own accord, whether I want them around or not. Many a guy has lost his wing man/best bud to me and often I find myself unexpectedly brought along to "guy time". It makes me uncomfortable sometimes because I'm sure their buds are thinking that I'm the one being clingy.

What I am wondering is, do the rest of you experience this? Is this a Pisces thing?

Pesca, you must be the reason why I had to go Pesca75 😄 great name choice! Anyway its not that I want to be around for "guy time". I get dragged along to it. If this happened with just one guy, I wouldn't think anything of it but its happened with most of my exes. They had no reason to feel mistrustful of me so I thought either a. It's a pisces thing or b. I attract the cling-ons.

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.. whether I want them around or not.

Posted by Pesca75

.. its not that I want to be around for "guy time". I get dragged along to it.

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No, it must not be a Pisces thing because if I go somewhere, then it's choice to do so. If I don't want to do something, then I don't get dragged into it, only to later claim I had no control over myself.

And I am definitely a Pisces.

I can empathize. I never understood it myself but yeah, it happens with me wherever I go. I recently moved and I've found that wherever I am, people come to me.

My friends and their kids have their own cabinets in the kitchen. They keep toiletries in my spare bathrooms. I've never thought much of it but in general, mi casa, su casa.

This past year has been pretty tough for me emo-socially. I've needed time to myself to think and sort through some stuff and one can't do that when folks are always in your face.

So I dunno, maybe we share something in our charts but guaranteed, wherever I move no matter how introverted I am...people come to me and I think that's in part due to the fact that I'm never truly unavailable. Folks know I'm always up and if I'm not home, they just wait outside til I get home. Can't tell you how many times I've arrived home with a friends car in my driveway 😛

If you're anything like me, your environment is chill, drama free and whatever's on your mind. I can dig it. Out of curiosity, what's your mercury and do you have any tau placements?

@P-Angel, congratulations for always being able to do what you want to do in life! I guess you've never been a passenger in someone's car, thinking you're heading home, only to find out the driver decided to "stop by" his friend's house for a bit. Another scenario: my ex worked with his friends and carpooled with them. I worked with them too on occasion and after work, we would end up at the friend's house and I would be the only girl in a group of guys hanging out. That has nothing to do with me "not having control over myself". I certainly didn't feel trapped or miserable. Maybe I would've preferred to have been home or doing something else at times, but it was not the end of the world. Sure, the ex could have brought me home first, but he wanted me there or certainly didn't mind that I was.

@tubbyscubby Your year sounds like mine and yes, I do tend to have people in my face all the time, ESPECIALLY when I want to be left alone. As for my mercury, it is Aquarius. I have no taurus placements. No earth in my chart at all. All air and fire.

@pesca, hmm...I am very secretive but only because I'm guarding my feelings, etc. I see no reason to put it all out there. Maybe guys translate that as untrustworthy :/