All you men out there this is for you.

What is it with some of you and wanting to shelter all your feelings, concerns, worries, etc. inside? How do you do it? Please I am really interested.

Hi Stacey...

Hmmm...Stacey, my guess is that you are trying to get through to someone (a male someone) but don't know how or are not able to because you think he is hiding his feelings....am I right.

In any case if we men do hide our feelings I don't think that asking us why or how would yield too many results, in the form of replies to this question.

I may be wrong but there is a lot more to this than you have asked about and your question is very...and I don't mean to be rude at all but...nieve.

If people are introverted in any way with their feelings or what ever...a direct approach will never yield results. You need to tell us a bit more about the situation...fill us in a bit more if we are going to help.

I still think you have asked a question based on your feelings toward another but I also sense that you have based those feelings loosly, in that if you are trying to get through to someone who isn't opening up you need to find a medium through which they are comfortable to start spaeking of. What I mean is you need to coax the crab out of his shell.

Please don't tell me I am right and he is a Cancer...that would be WEY to freaky...hehe.

Take care Stacey...ooh yes and try opening yourself up...it sometimes has a positive affect on people...let the love that IS inside of you shine through...!

I understand how you can make the assumption that I am talking about a particular individual, the question comes from my past with a specific male, in fact he is a pisces🙂 But in general, I think it is easier for men to hide feelings, and I was just curious as to how ya'll do it. I am interested in learning more about men, and their mind. That's all.

I am male and I am a Pisces (this is already starting to sound like an AA meeting). Frankly, our ability to mask our emotions is a defense mechanism. To get past the shroud we mask ourselves in you have to spend a lot of time and gain our trust. We let people see what we want them to see and we are the masters of projecting our "dreams" out to others and creating the "perfect world" for them.

This ability to project a "dream world" for people is what most women find appealing about us. We are very cognitive in this respect as we can "read" people and determine what is is they want or need and we can produce this illusion for them. It's an inate ability we all have and most of us Piscean males are not aware we are doing it. This is also a natural mechanism that we use for socialising, or for geting close to a person.

We have the ability to be the knight in shinning armor, but if we are crossed, which is easy to do with our emotional nature, we can become your worst nightmare. Pisces is probably the most complex sign in the Zodiac as there are no "set" standards and each of us are very different from one and another. get a Pisces female and a Pisces male togather and we will kill each other lol!

Piscean males also make the best lovers 😉 We are very attuned to our own emotional, sensual nature, and we can easily pick up and attune to this aspect of our lovers.

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Pray, tell me... How are you SO SURE that you are the best lover— Don't you think it is also possible that you create that illusion.(As you've said yourself).

The few Piceans I know really do live in their heads.. A very serious natured person finds this quite frightening. How do you cope when you come down to earth. Reality can be very harsh as it is...

sometimes people just want their privacy. they arent hiding anything at all, perhaps they just dont want to talk about it, or that now is not the right time. eventually if your ment to know, you will find out.

i hate pisces men!!!

Ah no shame.. Don't hate them.. Just be very careful before getting too involved... Perhaps out on a date you should regularly click your fingers in front of their eyes. Make sure every now and again that they are with you on this earth and not in their dream world... Sometimes they don't know where they are themselves!!!

Everyone know that the fish is "THE BEST LOVERS" out there. Sorry but it is sooooo true.

Spoken from a true Capricorn

KNOWS

Hmmm...whether or no we are the best lovers us piscean men do hide our feelings untill we se it fit to reveal them...but then we all do regardless of race, colour or zodiac sign.

This is generally related to fear...fear of the unknown in that we don't know what the affect of releasing our emotions will have on both parties, and fear of being frowned upon if that affect is a negative one.

What we need to do...all of us...regardless of zodiac sign is understand that fear is a self created predisposition to a situation that only ourselves can overcome...so how then...?

I don't have all the answers but I reckon a good place to start is to live your life to a standard to which you are proud of and openly express yourself as that person you want to be.

You may be shouted at, you may be told off and you may be hurt but then that is just an indication of 1 of two things....

1.You need to re-think the person you want to be because you are constantly stepping on others toes or...and this is more to the point I think....
2.You need to work on and grow that person you are be, by a POSITIVE response to the negativity you encounter and say hang on...people don't seem to like it if I do this or that maybe my life needs a change in that direction...

Look not everyone will be always right in slandering you for something because they may just be a negative person or not be very versed in that aspect of life...but then that's their problem not yours and it doesn't mean you need to act upon it...least of all in a negative frame of mind.

Hey you!

Welcome back. Haven't heard from you in awhile, I was wondering where you were! As usual you have some very good advice, I'll take it as usual!~ Then I need to work on appling it! LOL a little harder to do! The last paragraph was especially good to hear.

Not much else to say for now! Hope you are doing well!

LS/C

That was to you, Sweet Durrie!