calling all pisces females

hey guys , i'm a Virgo man , that lets just say been contacted by a Pisces ex girlfriend , she first apologized because of how things turned and started telling me she still loves me and and and , after that we stopped talking again only rarely , now the thing is she recently got a boyfriend yeah and she contacts me again telling me stuff and all and never didn't bring anything about her so called boyfriend , after that she starts telling me that she wish's i was with her to cheer her up and stuff .. i don't know what to think , it's kind of confusing to me since i know that Pisces aren't the kind of people that play games and ones they got someone new in their life they don't keep contact with ex's unless i'm wrong , can someone maybe give me an idea or an explanation for her behavior

She isn't over you yet. Simple as that.

Posted by 88akka

Posted by davethebanana
hey guys , i'm a Virgo man , that lets just say been contacted by a Pisces ex girlfriend , she first apologized because of how things turned and started telling me she still loves me and and and , after that we stopped talking again only rarely , now the thing is she recently got a boyfriend yeah and she contacts me again telling me stuff and all and never didn't bring anything about her so called boyfriend , after that she starts telling me that she wish's i was with her to cheer her up and stuff .. i don't know what to think , it's kind of confusing to me since i know that Pisces aren't the kind of people that play games and ones they got someone new in their life they don't keep contact with ex's unless i'm wrong , can someone maybe give me an idea or an explanation for her behavior

what kind of stuff is she telling you?

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she literally told me she still loves me and wish we could go back like we were before and misses me and all that

Posted by 88akka
@ davethebanana


She misses you. If you feel the same way, ask her out on a date and make it known that you will not play games. If you want her back, tell her she has to decide if it is you or him.
If she chooses him, vanish from radar and do not be her shoulder to cry on.

If she chooses you then I suppose it would be sweet.

Yeah this one, especially her wanting you to be her shoulder to lean on, be careful!

She misses you and she is not over you, although... having a boyfriend and doing that doesn't speak very well of her... I wouldn't be we someone that i don't have feeling for, specially if my heart is still lingering somewhere else.

Rebound boyfriends only hurt an innocent person...

Posted by fullwaterpisces
She misses you and she is not over you, although... having a boyfriend and doing that doesn't speak very well of her... I wouldn't be we someone that i don't have feeling for, specially if my heart is still lingering somewhere else.

Rebound boyfriends only hurt an innocent person...

i just decided to back off , if she really wanted to be with me again i'm sure she wouldn't go running to the first guy that gives her attention , hope all the best for her and him
i just think its kind of low that shes with another guy and telling me that stuff because it's not fair for both me and the other guy ... seem like she's playing too much games

I would advise against going back to her. How do you know she wont be texting someone else when shes back with you? A pisces left me high and dry and then started texting and emailing me behind her new guys back. I think they just want to see if youre still hooked. Dont take it seriously. Find someone that really gives a crap about you.

Posted by davethebanana

Posted by fullwaterpisces
She misses you and she is not over you, although... having a boyfriend and doing that doesn't speak very well of her... I wouldn't be we someone that i don't have feeling for, specially if my heart is still lingering somewhere else.

Rebound boyfriends only hurt an innocent person...

i just decided to back off , if she really wanted to be with me again i'm sure she wouldn't go running to the first guy that gives her attention , hope all the best for her and him
i just think its kind of low that shes with another guy and telling me that stuff because it's not fair for both me and the other guy ... seem like she's playing too much games

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I completely agree. Although what it sounds like, is that she's being nostalgic. However, it's not fair to bring another person into your nostalgic thoughts and moments. I understand where she's coming from, because sometimes I'm tempted to do that with someone from the past, but I have to recognize that I'm in my own head and it's not fair to bring them into that space, potentially stirring up some shit that's better off dormant. How old is she? lol In other words, I don't think she's PURPOSELY playing games, but she's going through the sequence of events in her head...better that she just do it alone. It sucks, because often times I DO want the other person to know that they meant something to me or that I wish things could go back to how they used to be. I feel like that with my ex-Aries, but I wouldn't contact him if Jesus himself came down and said, "Give that man a call". I'd be like..forgive me father for I have sinned, because I told Jesus no. lol ha ha ha ha

It's really hard on a Pisces woman when we "revisit" the good times. Not that you should lower your standards for her, but I'm just explaining from a Pi woman point of view. However, it's like anything else in life, sometimes you have to go through the hard stuff on your own, leaving other people out of your bullshit.

I never contact my exes unless I have an interest in possibly getting them back. Did you reciprocate and tell her how you felt? If not she assumes you dont want her and it trying to move on...but doesn't really want to...