Calling all you beautiful fishes

Huge fan of the website. I always view the content, but never posted. I’m a cancer man, obviously.

I need advice about a Pisces girl. I’m at the point of either letting go completely or pursuing fully, but I don’t want to make the wrong decision so I figured some of you could help.

We met out and about approximately two months ago and there was a connection as soon as we locked eyes. She came up and introduced herself and we hung out for about an hour or so at the bar. We had a mutual friend that was there with her and she ended up getting my number from him and reaching out a few days later and asking me to go out for drinks. The first three attempts we tried to get together, something always popped up from her end whether it was work, her being tired or the weather.

We finally got drinks, but it wasn’t the chemistry or connection that I thought we would have and I have to take some of that responsibility as I remained sheltered and reserved. The texting would be on and off, sometimes she would respond quickly, sometimes she wouldn’t respond until the next day. When we would hang out in a group setting, we would always be together and she always told me how much she liked the way I dressed and always suggested that I was the sexiest guy in whatever place we were at.

There was a couple of instances where I got jealous that she was talking to other dudes, but I apologized for my actions and she forgave me. We went a week without texting or anything of that nature because I asked her if she wanted me to bring her some food when she was sick for a couple days, but she never responded so I didn’t attempt to text her back. We were supposed to have a date, but that day she abruptly sent me a text saying that she didn’t know what she wanted and wanted to remain “friends “. It seemed out of the blue and very random, but as of now, I’m going with the flow. I told her that it was no big deal and I kind of felt the same way. She sent me a text a couple of days later suggesting that we go get drinks when she came back from her vacation. I never followed up with that and every time I’ve seen her since then she would go out of her way to try to make me jealous, but I just ignore it. I’m confused by the behavior. Should I ask her to go on a date and be open about everything with her, or has she lost interest completely?

Damn nothing??

All cancer men are mentally disturbed not good for Pisces a pure soul woman need normal human been not a low self esteem man who does anything to grab the attention of the woman he like or might like just to proof him self he is wanted then when she show him interest and start to like him back he act peacock!!! I see cancers males pathetic selfish weak

.."but that day she abruptly sent me a text saying that she didn’t know what she wanted and wanted to remain “friends “. It seemed out of the blue and very random, but as of now, I’m going with the flow. I told her that it was no big deal and I kind of felt the same way"..



WHY THE HELL did you tell her it was no big deal and you felt the same way, if you're clearly completely smitten by her? DUDE!!! A woman you're trying to woo WANTS to hear you CARE about her romantically and that you will not settle for less than that. Since she texted just a couple of days later that she wanted to go for drinks with you, it is obvious she was still interested regardless of what she said earlier. You should have focused more on feeling her out rather than going by every word that came out of her mouth.