Can I Still Win Back This Pisces Guy?

I met this Pisces guy via Twitter and he added me on BBM. We have been talking in BBM for a while, then I unsubscribed from my plan and when I got back, we continued our talk until after that day, we decided to meet the next day. The next day, we met and we told each other some really nice things. I felt like we really have a connection. We had sex.

However, I know that I am quite possessive. He told me then that he feels like this is something new to him and he feels that our connection is different from the others. However, days after, upon stalking him, I learned that I ain't the only guy that he's flirting with. So I confronted him, and I forgave him and we had a deal that even though we're not exclusive - if ever he met someone he really likes, he has to delete me right off the bat in BBM. He is egoistic but he said sorry and he was even the one who initiated the talk to win me back.

So the dating goes on, however, I got really jealous whenever there are guys who he is with. And so, he had to deal with me fishing about his whereabouts. He got quite used to it though up to the point that he's the one telling me where he's going. However, we have not been seeing that frequently - maybe once or twice in two or three weeks. But we have constant communication via BBM.

Up until last week, when we met and then we had sex again. However, before we had sex, we went out for dinner and he has this really goofy smile in his face. I knew then and there that there is someone else but I shrugged it off. In the end of our sexcapade, he even told me that he would bring extra clothes every Wednesday (because our sex days are always Wednesdays, it's the only time both of us are free and I kind of give him the weekends for his friends). We also have church days twice a week (evening sessions) so Wednesday would be the best day of the week to hook up.

Two days after, Friday, he never responded (he always does this when he has nightouts). Being that I don't really want to appear too possessive, I let him and I check on him every once in a while, and still got no reply. That night, he tweeted that he was with MJ. MJ though is a BBM contact and this MJ told me that he is flirting with a guy at the moment. So that really got me suspicious. I was in a party that time and I got pretty drunk so when everything really didn't fall into place. I started getting jealous, messaging the guy about how I love him and how he doesn't want serious relationship.

Bottomline, he really got pissed off. We exchanged a couple of messages and then for the whole day, he didnt respond. However, I know that he read my messages. After that day, I expect that we will make amends that night or the next day. But it never happened, it ended up that he never responded for about a week now. Now, I think the guy is actually with MJ, but they are more of fuck buddies.

In one tweet of my Pisces guy, he mentioned that "One of the hardest things in life is removing someone from your heart."

But mind you, he never deleted me in BBM. He just ignored every single message I've been sending. I've said sorry so many times for my reaction but I think I blew it all off.

What should I do? Can I still get him back?

Added info. I know for a fact that he was not reading my messages as there's a feature in BBM to end chat or D if the message is not read. BTW, he still follows me on Twitter and still is on BBM. I just don't know why he just won't completely cut me off, if he really wants to get over everything about us. or maybe he is making some reservations in the future?

Trust is the foundation of a relationship, and without it, the chances of the relationship lasting is slim to none. If you could get back with your Pisces, are you sure you really want him back? When a Pisces is truly in love, we love HARD. You would have no doubts. There are two types of fish, the one that streams upstream and the one that swims down, and a fish that swims down is a dangerous/hurtful fish. they are manipulative, users, liars, etc. To be honest, I think you may need to reevaluate if he is really what you want. He is playing you. He knows how much you care and love him and he is using that against you. Dangling you by a string and saying whatever he needs to say to keep you willing to stay there. We Pisces are natural manipulators, some of us use this gift for good or not at all, and others use it for their own benefit at the expense of others. Your Pisces isn't fully matured, and regardless of what he tells you, I don't believe a serious relationship with you is what he wants.

With that being said, if you still want him back ignore him. Don't call, message him, NOTHING. He will be left wondering what the heck happened and come crawling to you. A fish that is immature likes to play mind games. You can be the pawn in his little game or you can take control of the board and he can be yours.

One last thing, when you confront your fish about the other guys, is your tone of voice forceful or aggressive? If so, work on keeping your cool when angered. We fish do not like confrontation and at times we may become passive-aggressive for the sake of avoiding it. Also, what is your sign? Or even better both of your birth dates, including the year? Sun signs play a very small role in relationship compatibility. I could give you more info if I knew your moon signs (the moon governs emotions), your mercury signs (communication), your Venus signs (how you are in relationships and who you are attracted to), and your Mars signs (carnal instincts/sexual desires).

Posted by charotera

I think the guy is actually with MJ, but they are more of fuck buddies.

lol

I'm sure if you stuck your butt up and wiggled it around, he'd reconsider you.


Afterall, in your description .... you talked about how YOU are a fuckbuddy.

Posted by Daydreamer35
Trust is the foundation of a relationship, and without it, the chances of the relationship lasting is slim to none. If you could get back with your Pisces, are you sure you really want him back? When a Pisces is truly in love, we love HARD. You would have no doubts. There are two types of fish, the one that streams upstream and the one that swims down, and a fish that swims down is a dangerous/hurtful fish. they are manipulative, users, liars, etc. To be honest, I think you may need to reevaluate if he is really what you want. He is playing you. He knows how much you care and love him and he is using that against you. Dangling you by a string and saying whatever he needs to say to keep you willing to stay there. We Pisces are natural manipulators, some of us use this gift for good or not at all, and others use it for their own benefit at the expense of others. Your Pisces isn't fully matured, and regardless of what he tells you, I don't believe a serious relationship with you is what he wants.

With that being said, if you still want him back ignore him. Don't call, message him, NOTHING. He will be left wondering what the heck happened and come crawling to you. A fish that is immature likes to play mind games. You can be the pawn in his little game or you can take control of the board and he can be yours.

One last thing, when you confront your fish about the other guys, is your tone of voice forceful or aggressive? If so, work on keeping your cool when angered. We fish do not like confrontation and at times we may become passive-aggressive for the sake of avoiding it. Also, what is your sign? Or even better both of your birth dates, including the year? Sun signs play a very small role in relationship compatibility. I could give you more info if I knew your moon signs (the moon governs emotions), your mercury signs (communication), your Venus signs (how you are in relationships and who you are attracted to), and your Mars signs (carnal instincts/sexual desires).

I get it that trust is the foundation of a relationship. I know he is what I want or at the very least, I want to explore more about this relationship. I somehow get it that he's playing me and I forgive him time and time again.

I'm more puzzled right now with his statement just days ago about how it is hard to remove someone out of your HEART. He chose the word HEART over LIFE. So, I

Posted by piranhaparadiise
Pick up your dignity and self respect and find somebody who wants to be exclusive...

You need to turn the tables and remove him from that pedestal...unfortunately he will continue to ignore as that is his behaviour when he doesn't like something he will not answer...
only when he wants what you got will he act like nothing happened and then the cycle will continue until you get fed up with it ...

Best to see what it really is cause he's telling you ...well showing you who he is...

Let the fish go moldy...heck let him stink it out even...and remove yourself completely...otherwise he will take advantage of you and yes that's the bad side of a fish... they can have no feelings or really it's selfish nature and think of themselves first...well really anyone that is just flying around seeing what's out there...he's on a different level to you ...meaning he's enjoying being single and all this attention...

I know I should do that. But, I don't think I have given my 100% yet when it comes to dealing with this relationship. I've been lacking in emotional aspect, I think as I was not able to accompany him in a lot of times that he may have wanted to go out. I'm kind of restricted because I'm focused in studying, but maybe he wants someone that is more of a buddy, and I can be that, I just didn't know that it was really what he want so I didn't push through. I was not really that aggresive in taking him out and the new guy he was with just has that much plenty of time so they bond like every single day.

Earlier, I send him a poem. And that's the last straw, starting tomorrow, I'll move forward and keep silent. I know he wants me to leave him alone. He kind of hinted that in one of his tweets.

However, I see it that my Pisces guy really likes this MJ guy and more of the reacher in their relationship. MJ on the other hand, doesnt want commitment and sees this guy as a high maintenance person and so he doesn't know for how long he can commit to being his companion.

Maybe, he had two choices and I blew it off, so he went to the other guy. What do you guys think? I know it's not

@Daydream:

I get it that trust is the foundation of a relationship. I know he is what I want or at the very least, I want to explore more about this relationship. I somehow get it that he's playing me and I forgive him time and time again.

I'm more puzzled right now with his statement just days ago about how it is hard to remove someone out of your HEART. He chose the word HEART over LIFE. So, I am thinking maybe, he also liked me, in some way. But the other guy was more convenient and given that he cannot delete me in BBM. Him ignoring me is the closest way to honor our deal?

Okay, from now on, I will not message him. However, I have been constantly doing that for one week. Begging for him to talk it out mend things. But he's such a stone.

However, how long shall I wait not talking to him? Shall I wait it that he starts the talk?

I am an Aquarian born January 31 (Male) and he is Piscean born February 24 (Male), too.

I really hope I could get answers as I really want this guy and if not being jealous and staying to what is more convenient for him is what it takes, I am willing to do so.

Posted by Nights22
If a fish has any interest the best way is to swim away yourself.
But I mean really is this dude worth anything? Even games?

I will. I think he is worth the try.

Posted by P-Angel
I'm sure if you stuck your butt up and wiggled it around, he'd reconsider you.


Afterall, in your description .... you talked about how YOU are a fuckbuddy.

Well, he had always said he doesnt want to label us as fuck buddies. He wants to be friends looking into the possibility of having a relationship.

Even up to the day that I caught him with the suspicion of dating MJ, he had always told me that he's not liking anyone yet. It may actually be our fallout that got them close. I truly regret this.