What's behind this Pisces man's words?

Hello everyone. I need your help to deciphrate this strange and unexpected conversation with a Pisces man.
Here's the story. Me, Cancer, 35. Him, Pisces, 28. He's my colleague at work. I'm single, recently divorced, he's in a long distance relationship.
Instant chemistry and phisical attraction. It all begins two months ago: great great sex, 10 hours a day in the office chatting on Skype, laughing together, feeling excited and always needy to be one around each other.
He always wants my attention, he's jealous, he compliments me all the time. I don't ask anything about his girlfriend, I don't say anything about what we are and what we could be. I just live day by day, but I know i'm beginning to fall in love with him.
Then one week ago he says he's a bit sad and wants to talk with me about his personal life, because he really cares about me.
He comes to my house. Two hours of cuddling and chatting on the couch (no sex), wonderful atmosphere as usual, until he tells me he left his girlfriend. I think that's the greatest news I could have expected. But he adds that in the last one year and a half he has been interested in a girl with which nothing serious ever happened: when he was available, she was not. When she was ready, he wasn't interested. He wants to give this relationship an opportunity to begin, so he doesn't think it's fair that we continue this sort of dating, altough he's extremely attracted to me and would like to continue as we are.
I ask him, because I'm confused: "Are you dating this new girl, then?" And the answer is: "no, absolutely not. She told me she doesn't want me around anymore". "So what?", I ask. "I think she's lying. Now she's in a Vietnam with my best male friend - who has a crush for her - but I'm sure that when she comes back, she'll give me the opportunity to begin a relationship".
I look at him as if he's crazy. He asks me if everything is fine. So I reveal him that I'm not that happy, as I have feelings for him. He seems astonished. "why didn't you tell me before?", he asks. I answer I didn't want to be pushy and I add "does it make any difference?". He asnwers: "I would like to try to begin a serious relationship with you, if I hadn't my mind on the other girl".
Then, I leave for a two day business trip, without telling him I will not be in the office. When he realises I'm not at work, he immediately skypes "Ehy, why aren't you here? where are you?". What does it mean? What should I do? Is he interested? Scared?

Yeah, he made himself pretty clear. His heart is with another girl who he's wasting his time on hoping she'll come back and like him. And he was honest. If he didn't have this other girl, he would be with you. However, you're not going to get anywhere while he's still thinkng of her, which could be longer than he makes it out to be. You're either going to have to get over him, or wait (even though he may never be emotionally with you).

Let me get this straight .... you fuck another woman's man for months, and didn't give a rats ass that you were the participant in tearing another woman down by fucking her man.

In your description above, I cannot detect any conscience on your part, as you knowingly step into her territory and take her man sexually.


And now you have the audacity to come in here and express YOUR pain over him wanting someone else?

who the fuck do you think you are?



You act like trash, you get treated like the trash you are .... any questions?

You could act like the fucking virgin Mary around a Pisces if he doesn't want you he doesn't want you. You need to walk away now and try to forget him. P-angel is a cunt don't take it to heart what she said. Nobody's perfect!

Dear all,
thanks for your answers. I have an update which, if possible, it's even more confusing, even though, according to me, supports DG thesis.
Yesterday I came back to the office. When I met him, there was a bit of embarassment. He was the one to begin the conversation on skype, I answered politely but not exaggerating.
Then I went to the toilet. He followed me and complimented me on my shoes. I answered "thank you" and then ha asked me where I'd been in the previous days.
As I told him I went to a very famous university to held a speech in front of many important people, which actually was a success, he looked at me and said: "You are definetely the coolest girl I know".
And I answered: "You are so damn right". And then I ran out of the toilet, before having the temptation to hug him and kiss him 🙂

I think the only options I have at the moment is to act politely, not flirty as I did, and see what happens. The girl in Vietnam is coming back on the 12th of June. If meanwhile he wants to pause our relation or simply our sexual enconunters, I'll use this 20 days as an opportunity to see if he misses me, and to understand better what's the truth.
What do you think?

Do yourself a favor and stop being anything more than platonic friends and make a decision when he finally resolves his situation. You already rushed things with him and wonder why you're getting mixed signals. You're moving way too fast, show yourself some self-respect and don't get involved with him until *you* are the ONLY girl he's chasing. If you don't respect yourself how do you expect him to respect you?

If you don't know if he's chasing other girls, then ask. He owes that much to you. If you get an unclear answer then you overestimated his interest in you, and you can either keep waiting for a day that may never come, or you can move on and learn from it. Plenty of fish in the sea, especially us misunderstood merfolk.

Alrighty...now I don't normally say this but p-angel has a point and a damn valid one...she can be harsh in her delivery but she is correct.

He cheats on his girl with you, breaks up with his girl to tell you he is pursuing another girl....any questions?!! Why are there questions?

Why are you still interested? He told you even though he is single you are not worthy of his next pursuit! Girl...move on!! NOW!! Seriously!

As a pisces in my mind he prob just don't see you as relationship material. You knew he had a girl and had NO problems sleeping with him. Why would he think you could be loyal to him in a relationship? Yeah he was in the relationship, but YOU knew about it.

MMmmm yeah. This is a ball of bad karma right here. God be with you, if there is a god.

Find a good SINGLE man who wants you now, just as you want him. I would keep this relationship as strictly professional.

Why give him the satisfaction of having a fall back plan. Yeah girl, I don't want you know but in a few months if girl #1 doesn't want me, I'll come running. How is that satisfying? I don't care if he is the best man in the world, the way he is treating you is not proper. Hell the way he cheated on his girl is not proper...and you want to be tied to a cheater?

Don't you wonder if he will cheat on you? I don't understand it.

I don't mean to be rude or harsh, but sometimes tough love needs to be asserted...I wanna just shake some sense into you right now.