Chased By Libras?

Hello Fellow Pisceans,
It's Dreamy-Eyez. I was just wondering if anybody could tell me about Libras because right before I even know it. . . I'm being pursued by one. They are attractive, but to me just being attractive is nothing. It would be a plus if there was substance with those looks. I just can't seem to take Libra natives seriously at all. Yet, alot of them come on very strong and does not take no for an answer. What's the deal with those balance-scale bearers? Could anybody tell me?

Brahn,
Thanks.
Dreamy-Eyez, out.

branh0913

They always give you impression that everything is right, when everything is wrong. They'll do anything to maintain this illusion, even lie straight out to you.
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Excellent description of Libras, with further emphasis on the above statement. They are mercenaries in love, willing to change allegiances at the drop of a hat if it looks like they stand to come out even slightly ahead. I think the problem is that they honestly see themselves as perfect, and are therefore unwilling to tolerate the slightest imperfection in their partner. Even when you point out that they possess the exact same flaws in their character. Very hypocritical.

Call them early on their bullsh*t, or your fish will be fried...

It really depends on your whole chart. Watersigns play way too many games. I don't like it. The things I have seen water sing friends do in the name of love ... eek!

But it really depends on your whole chart. For example, romantic partnerships with water heavy charts do not work out for me. They are TOOO flakey and sit around moping for you but don't actually DO anything. But my chart is all Libra/Leo/Sag. I need a lot of fire and air in a chart to be happy.

*** They always give you impression that everything is right, when everything is wrong. They'll do anything to maintain this illusion, even lie straight out to you.

If I might explain, it is a little more complicated than this. For a Libra, nothing hurts more than being angry at your lover. You don't want to disappoint them by being disappointed in them ... so you just stuff it down. It isn't like we deliberately lie to you .. it is that we lie to ourselves in a backwards way of showing loyalty and devolution till we can't take it and explode. Then venus punishes us hard with terrible guilt for being angry unless it is justifiable anger/outrage on behalf of others.

*** Even when you point out that they possess the exact same flaws in their character. Very hypocritical.

This is true of every single person on the planet. The thing that bothers us about someone else is the thing that bothers us about us.

LS
The thing that bothers us about someone else is the thing that bothers us about us.
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Then the Libras need to clean up their own backyard before passing judgement on the neighbors 😉 If they can't communicate effectively with others, they can't expect to ever truly be happy.

You should post your full chart in your profile, I'm interested in seeing the dirty details...

I meant us as in the general us. Us as a species.

The thing that annoys ALL of us, is the thing we don't like about ourselves. Luckily few things annoy me about others. 🙂

'...They are always impeccably dressed, quite stylish, and normally have fit bodies. They are a very self-concious sign, and they take care of themselves well....'

kool to know u have met all the libraz wid HOT bodies Branh0913... i have met all the NOT soooo HOT ones 😛

Cookie

I PMed you.

LS
Got it, you should post your full chart in your profile. It's interesting to for others to see, especially if they are very fluent in astrology. Not I, but I'm passable...🙂

I like my mystery. lol!

Eliza - perhaps they didn't have their Libras in the right places. lol!

Hello Dreamy...it's been a while...i was just going over ure profile and i can't help but pick up on a saddness in the things u write...it touches the very core of me!

Wot made u so sad?

Dreamy, my boyfriend of 5 years is Libra. He is always composed, gentle, like to please to the point even lying to you if he knows that you'll be upset by what he's going to do or say. He's indeed emotionally detached (think with his head rather than his heart) and he's slow to make decision and always complaining that he hates to make a decision so he ask for your opinion but the next day when someone else gives him other opinion, he will be swayed to the other direction and comes back to ask me what do I think about it, keep doing it until I snap (well I have Gemini ascendant, can't blame me for the impatience) and say, do whatever you think is right, it's your life. Make a decision and take the consequences. I found that Libra is leaning for Pisces for emotional support. Do I feel manipulated? No, because every people has weaknesses whether you hide it or not and if you don't lend your helping hand when they ask, how does it feel to be rejected? how does it feel to be suffocated of the burden?
The different between Pisces and Libra is for Libra, he's a thief therefore he's guilty but for Pisces, he's a thief but what makes him to steal? what's the reason behind it? I don't know if the way I think like this is because of my Aquarius moon.

Azuchan,
Thank You for sharing your experience with me. Honestly, I just seriously don't know what to do about Libra natives. I have one observing me right now. Why? (Beats me.) The thing that has me baffled is that this is a guy with the looks of a model. He's always staring at me while he's waiting in-line as I'm ringing up groceries at the register. When I look up, he smiles and doesn't look away. If he sees me out somewhere from his car, he'll turn his head and watch me or call out to me. I know he's a Libra because I have to check people's ID cards before selling tobacco or alcohol products. (Sigh.) I don't know, this is just one of those mysteries of people's behaviors.

Brahn0913,
Yes, I am. As hard as it is to admit that, but yes. Currently, I'm trying to sit my parents down and talk to them about this. I'm just not ready for a dramatic revelation of whose still going to be in my life after they know the truth about me. What makes it so hard is that I'm really loved in my family, and socially alot of people know me and like me alot, but I don't know if I can bear witnessing that love instantly evolve into hate. So there you have it all you folks of the DXPnet community. Dreamy-Eyez is. . . (Damn, I can't even say it.)But you all know what I mean.

Dreamy

Why should you be ashamed of who you are?

Most of the people who are close to you probably know and won't really care that much. Be proud of who you are!

I wish you all the best when you have that conversation.

🙂

Little Sparrow,
Thank you for those kind words. For me, it's been difficult wrestling with something as deeply internal like that. To me, It never occurred to me that they may already know and that they are being sensitive and respectful by not forcing me to talk about it. I would often question why have my friends befriended me in the first place. I have been ashamed of who I am for quite a while and I've been self loathing myself by rejecting myself for people when they haven't had the intention of doing so. It's just so hard, but thank you for wishing me luck in whats ahead of me in the future.

Sincerly,
Dreamy-Eyez

Ive been married to 1 for a long time. Heres a breadwown

Plus

very loyal..will stand by your side
generous
affectionate
rightous-can be a negative at times
great hostess


Neg

somtimes cant take no for an answer
at times can talk too much
can be overbearing..to the point where u need time alone


hope this helps

Dreamy,

What's your parent's perspective about gay people in general? Have you asked them?

It's hard for those people who are different from the rest of the society especially when there are only a number of people who accept the concept while the rest reject it.
However, until when do you want to keep self loathing? Forever? There's a mental limit for people before they break down. There's always a consequence in every action we take. On one end, if you don't tell them the truth, you'll still be suffering which might lead you to depression. On the other end, they know the truth and they might reject, hate, disgusted with you and you won't have any internal struggle but you have to deal with the rejection, people talking behind your back etc. But you can't also deny that there's a probability that they can accept you for who you are or maybe becomes more understanding as the time goes by. Which side do you think you can cope better?

Let's think of the worst case, if your parent and your friends left you, can you still live without them and look for another people who accept you as who you are? And which one do you prefer, to keep pretending to match with what they expected of you and forever in fear or to act freely? You cannot create a miracle without looking for the door that leads to them and be ready to stand up every time you trip and fall.

Azuchan,
I see exactly what you are saying. I know there's a tough road ahead of me, and I'm preparing for that by trying to find my very own place to live. My mom? She's disgusted about the idea of homosexuality. I had a late-uncle and a cousin who are gay. Alot of people in my family act like they are forbidden to talk about them. The mother of my gay cousin is my aunt and were close, but I haven't told her that I was gay yet. I'm just trying to build my very own foundation to fall back on by getting my own place before breaking the news. I definitely do not want to live a live to where I'm just depressed. If people disappear and alienate me, then you know, that was a tough revelation on how deep their love was for me in the first place. Dreamy-eyez, out.