Libra's tendencies

Hi, do any of you other libras find yourself competing with yourself for example in a mall to see how many stares you can get from guys (or ladies)? And feel more beautiful the more stares you get? This happens with me and not getting any can be devastating! Well, just wanted to see if this is simply my vanity or a Libran trait.

Hello to you - truevenusian!

I am not a Libra so I hope that you do not mind if I share my dollars worth on this subject.

Hmmmm...I am not sure what your age is and this I do believe makes a bit of a difference. When we are young it is all about the "physical" appearances. As we get older...the beauty comes from within. Why? because we are comfortable in our own skin and this is what others see as "self-confidence"...we do not need the approval of others as to how we look...we know we look good because we feel good about ourselves.
I think this is an "inside" job if ya know what I mean.

Sure we all desire to look good and we work darn hard at it...not to please others but for ourselves.

I gotta say....I have met some pretty darn good looking men...and yes, they are nice to look at but......some of them when they open their mouth, then they don't look so good to this Lady. So, what I am saying here is that it is not all about how we look, but who we are and what we stand for.

If you are "devastated" because you are not getting the looks from the menz...this may be a sign that you are a bit insecure with yourself. Then again...maybe this is a Libra trait...who knows.

I hope I did not offend you in anyway truevenusian - I am sure that you are a beautiful woman...you just need to know that you are and be happy 🙂

truevenusion,

Its a little of both truly, the youth factor is right on target as freebird has stated. But on the ohter hand we libras have a need to have adoration from our lovers and in a way those we dont know as well. It is a libra trait due to feeling insecure without reasurrance from ohters that we are ok. Not one of the things I like about being a libra, but we take the good as well as the not so good things about the sign we are born under and do the best we can. You will gain more self assurance as time goes on and it just will not have an much of an effect anylonger on you, so chin up. Hope this helps!

TW2

Hmmm, I am not a Libra, but I AM a Taurus (can we say VENUS?!) I also love attention from the opposite sex...but as a Taurus,it's only for fun. I am loyal to the ne I'm with.

Yea... I used to do this once in a while. Just to see how much attraction I can pull. Used to change walking style s and patterns and looks every minute and experiment with all those. Now I am too busy to hv all those fun... 😢

I'm a Libra and I do exactly the same thing...I'm extremely shallow like that!

I would have to agree with Freebird. As a young Libra (meaning, my twenties) i was like that..always wanting men to notice me. Now, at thirty-five, i could really care less if men notice me or talk to me. THat in itself, seems to attract its own kind of attention. Another thing that i have noticed is that i dont really get excited about good-looking men anymore. I dont know if i have become jaded from living in LA, but the guys here irritate me so much. I am like, so they are good looking, so what. What else do they have to offer besides that. Usually, not much--and they are not really interesting people to talk to. DOnt get me wrong, looks matter to me--but there has to be more than that. I have been single for a really long time, and i am okay with it.

one of my good friends is a libra and she feels ugly when no one tells her that she looks cute..we're both really cute but i love telling her when she doesnt look cute its soo funny (im a leo and i do mean things like that lol)...but yea she loves to be stared at so she can say "damn why are all these people staring at me?"